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ok 2 go out wit younger girl?

  • 15-05-2004 11:47am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    was wonderin wud u go out wit a younger girl if you were in college and she was doin her leavin (2 yr age gap)

    also she went out wit my cous b4 and they broke up on bad terms...


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,556 ✭✭✭✭Sir Digby Chicken Caesar


    ye, if u tnk it wd be ok and yr czin wdn't mind, go 4 it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 302 ✭✭Auburn


    A two year age gap is nothing. I wouldn't worry about it.

    I'd be more concerned about the cousin involved. Will it cause problems between you and your cousin? Will your cousin be angry/upset? If so, it's not worth it for the sake of a girl.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 878 ✭✭✭Bicky


    Think of it this way. when you are 50 she will be 48


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,556 ✭✭✭✭Sir Digby Chicken Caesar


    all your 50 year old friends would make fun of you


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,564 ✭✭✭Typedef


    Originally posted by Mordeth
    ye, if u tnk it wd be ok and yr czin wdn't mind, go 4 it.


    !!!!

    ~~:L@@--+

    tbh


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37 too_much


    Originally posted by Mordeth
    ye, if u tnk it wd be ok and yr czin wdn't mind, go 4 it.
    :D:D

    2 years age gap at your age is nothing, go for it :) If you're both mature enough to want to enter into a serious relationship with each other, then you're ready!

    If you get on very well with your cousin then discuss it with him, tell him that you really like her, and he should be cool with it if he's a decent bloke.

    However if he looks unfavourably on it, you have to make the decision as to who of the two is of most importance to your life, and decide which one to let go.

    If your cousin is angry or upset, I'm sure he'll get over it. Love is a harsh thing, but at the end of the day, they're not together any more.

    Go for it, don't worry about what other people think - Good luck! Keep us updated on how it goes :)

    regards,
    too_much


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 227 ✭✭Syke


    i just started going out with a girl who is 6 years younger than me. seemed a bit weird at first coz i didn't know how old she was when i met her. she's pretty mature (shes 19) alot more than my last girlfriend who was my own age. anyways, im keepin it slow and i do wonder will it become an issue but sure i always said the age thing was something that depended on the people involved and she seems sound so far.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37 too_much


    I tend to think that age gaps like that are a little excessive as 19 is still young, but then again I know a hell of a lot of extremely mature 19yr old girls and lads, and I know some totally moronic 30yr olds -

    this is why I think age is of little importance assuming you're both of sound mind and ready for iy :) 19 and 265are both adults, so I see no reason for anyone to look down on you!

    hope it goes well for you, just remember not to make an issue of the age :)

    regards,
    too_much


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,274 ✭✭✭de5p0i1er


    2 years is nothing. I know girls going with lads 8 years older, I wouldn't stress about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,626 ✭✭✭smoke.me.a.kipper


    how about if your 22 and shes 17??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    isnt there a rough guide thingy...
    like: half your age + 7...or something....

    lets see.... your 22....11+7=18......close enough....:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37 too_much


    Originally posted by smoke-me-a-kipper
    how about if your 22 and shes 17??

    I know 17yr olds with 25yr old boyfriends, nothing wrong with it at all. Personally I think that the blokes involved must have something wrong with them, or they wouldn't be cruising around for school-girls all the time - But perhaps I'm just too cynical.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,548 ✭✭✭Draupnir


    go for it man, Im 21 and recently had short term thing with a 6th year. youre the envy of all the lads cos she has a school uniform to wear to your house.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37 too_much


    Starting to sound a liiiittle bit worrying now...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    i wouldnt wear my uniform 2 someones house....yuck!!!!
    its grey and marroon, and not very nice at all.....and not in the slightest way kinky!!!:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37 too_much


    I think the turn-on for school uniforms stems from older men's idea of "ooh look, I'm having sex with a young girl - A school girl!"

    If you ask me, there's an element if perversion involved... No offence to him up there ^

    Then again, I'm only 18 so school uniforms to me are just the things that lower years wear...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,564 ✭✭✭Typedef


    Yes but, does it turn you on they do ?

    DOM?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,373 ✭✭✭Executive Steve


    well im going out with a girl whos 5 years older than me [shes thirty] and she looks like shes sixteen so i have the best of both worlds.... :d

    seriously, if shes good shes good, two years doesnt mean anything, just be prepared to have to back off while shes studying for her leaving etc...

    one reason why i vowed never to fall in love with a younger woman again though was the fact that all they ever talk about is how yucky school is and how theyve just had a fight with their parents, but if you can hack that id say go for it :thumbsup:


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