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How turn this into booty call?

  • 11-04-2004 5:59pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12


    Met a woman Saturday night, one night stand had a bit of fun and legged it this morning.She was actually kind of nice, and i'm looking for advice as to how to turn this into a regular occurence with as little investment as possible (meaning effort and time).Anyway have her number texted her and she wants to see me again, and im thinking house visit and hows her father etc..
    Do you think i should be honest and say that im looking for a booty call or try the whole 'i feel a connection angle'?....as youv'e guessed it broke a dry spell of....too long!


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  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    so basicly your looking to get your hole?




    (sorry for crudeness)





    RING ( dont text) her and ask her to meet for coffee and take it from there.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12 hhhhhh


    coffee does that not sound real platonic...afternoonish...people don't really go for a coffee at 11 at night...ya know..?...and yes i am looking to have sex (frequently).
    Why ring and not text?


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    the female mind is a strange and wonderfull thing, ( am i right ruth?)



    11pm at night? try lesure plex!




    women see txt's diffrently them men, phone call's are more personall, it make's them think there's being thought about?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,357 ✭✭✭secret_squirrel


    Originally posted by hhhhhh
    she wants to see me again

    But did she say she wants to see you for a quicky or is she maybe expecting some 'effort' as you put it? Maybe you should be up front with her, or maybe you like being a user??? (if you go down the 'i feel a connection angle')


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12 hhhhhh


    She didn't say she wanted to see me for a quicky, but if we're on the same wavelength then she did mean it, cause i certainly did.

    "maybe you like being a user"???what?...a user? Don't understand.

    So if i go the upfront way, it's the whole 'im just out of a relationship ' angle im coming from?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,762 ✭✭✭WizZard


    Be honest for God's sake.
    Tell her what you want. If she doesn't go for it then don't sweat it.
    There are plenty of girls out there with the same thing in mind as you have, so just go out and enjoy yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OR you could do the realistic thing and fake it until you 'test the water'. Seriously, all this honesty stuff is nonsense. A bit of lieing never hurt anyone...except them, which is fine it seems. If she starts getting relationshippy just tell her 'you're still hurting from a previous rel. and you feel your wounds are not yet healed but that you could do with a companion to help you through these times'

    Or you could just pretend to be her boyfriend, except treat her like crap and only pay attention when you want sex.

    hey...im just being honest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Be honest with her, you could be pleasantly surprised with the response ;) (I am not going to go into why I say this :))

    Gandalf.


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