Anal sex without a condom...

oq4v3ht0u76kf2

Okay, the girlfriend went on the pill the other day because she was fed up of having to use condoms. She was on the pill for a while last year but the pill she was on didn't suit her so she came off it. She went for another consultation last week and she's now on a different pill and things are grand so far. Anyway, the pill booklet said immeadiate protection but the doctor she was with said wait two weeks so we're doing that. I'm her only ever sexual partner and she's my only ever so disease is a non issue. (We've both been tested.)

My question is this, seens as putting fingers / penis / tongue / whatever in her ass and then into her vagina is a no no due to infection and such... is it safe for me to put my unprotected penis in her ass? She's quite a fan of ye olde anal sex and we were just wondering if it's safe for my wee lad in her back passage all unprotected, like, there's no risk of infection to my penis or anything is there?

Thanks a lot for any replies and sorry for the crudeness of the post. ~Bob

Johnny Versace

No problem with the crudeness

Well... I've never got an infection from anal sex, but when you think about what you're doing, it's gotta be possible.

I wouldn't worry about it too much though...

Sleepy

Never heard of it being a problem so long as both partners are disease free and know what they're doing (i.e. plenty of lube etc.)

nads

yous are mad things yis are. does 'the female' get anything out of 'backstairs-sex'? because the only reason why i'd do it(i.e. a man) would be for degradation/humiliation purposes, i'm being honest, don't come back to me with 'tightness' issues either. there's nothing joyous about it, that's for sure.
anyway i was reading this article about it before giving blood and it's well dodgy from the sounds if it disease-wise, especially if you have auld cuts on your willy.

Johnny Versace

But it IS tighter. Some girls are very loose in the vaginal department, especially if they've had a baby.

Also, it's dirrrty.

He did say she likes it as well.

Emboss

you should be fine,

the only thing i'd be worried about if i was you was my homosexual tendencies

You might want to get that looked at.

nads

ah dirrrty's your only man alright, where'd ya meet these kind of gals for that craic though, that's the supreme insoluble pancake, another thread maybe(i.e. tons of previous threads)
Just pm JV on these issues in future, i will, he's the man with the plan!

Sleepy

What's homosexual about anal sex?

Being a guy I assume you like blowjobs. NEWS ALERT: Gay guys have been known to enjoy them too... does this mean you have homosexual tendancies now?:rolleyes:

Emboss

What's homosexual about anal sex?

Can we make this a sticky please?

this has to be a winner at

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=135143

Mercury_Tilt

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LegacyUser

There is always a risk of infection from unprotected sex, anal or otherwise, even if you're both disease free at the moment!

There is a particluar danger assoicated with anal sex, followed immediately with vaginal or oral penetration without washing first..

even if you don't there is the possibility that you could pick up an infection just through the anal sex, the key is always the same be safe not sorry

Metallicababe

orange rino why were both of u tested for stds when neither of u had sex with other people??????

oq4v3ht0u76kf2

Johnny, quiet you.

Metallicababe, I was stabbed with a syringe two years ago so I've been tested regularly since.

][cEMAN**

Originally posted by Metallicababe
orange rino why were both of u tested for stds when neither of u had sex with other people??????

Doesn't mean stds can't be present. Just very unlikely. Somebody could have a mild infection which could pass on as an STD to someone else. One mans wine is another woman's poison etc.

Johnny Versace

Let's not get paranoid here.

They know they are both clean, so the chances of him giving something to her, or her giving something to him, are very minimal.

echomadman

You're more likely to die at the hands of Johnnys Russian mafia friends than catch anything as long as ye're hygenic

Gummy Panda

I think you should be cautious about cumming inside her anus. It could lead to a build of bacteria and her getting a infection. Sorry for being graphic, but maybe cumming outside on the cheeks would be better or into a tissue.

Otherwise you should be grand. I have had anal sex many times without a condom. Granted i was with the girl a long time and was her first sexual partner. If you keep to showering and cleaning afterwards everything should be fine.

sorry if i was a bit too graphic Beruthiel!!

Paddy20

Ughhh, horrible. All sex is dirty and disgusting and that whole area of your 'private parts' have more germs and bacteria than any other body part. You would never catch me touching that area with a bargepole. Hehhehheeeheeee Whatever turns you or her on, yeah, but I seriously would recommend condoms!.

P. :ninja: BTW, I am totally celibate . Oh, almost forgot. Do not forget the KY Jelly ! They say that helps ?...

Agent Orange

Make sure she's had a dump recently before you engage in anal sex. The reason is obvious, but also bear in mind you don't want to try to put it in and there's no room. Make sure her bowels are quite empty beforehand.

That said, do not have it too soon after she defacated as her anus will be especially sensitive and could be ripped/stretched if the sodomy gets even a little out of control.

I would also advise against using ribbed condoms as they can pull a lot of excrement out of the rectum when you remove yourself from her anus. Hope this helps.

smiles

Kids. be nice. I split the rubbish and annoying stuff from this thread.

Bob. OMG. I did NOT need to know this stuff. Thats why there's a guest account.

If i meet that poor girl I'm not going to be able to look her in the eye now!

<< Fio >>

Barry Aldwell

Originally posted by smiles
Kids. be nice. I split the rubbish and annoying stuff from this thread.

Bob. OMG. I did NOT need to know this stuff. Thats why there's a guest account.

If i meet that poor girl I'm not going to be able to look her in the eye now!

<< Fio >>

Try sitting beside him in physics, after reading this thread

*curls up in a ball in the corner, sobbing quietly*

Sleipnir

Originally posted by Agent Orange
Make sure she's had a dump recently before you engage in anal sex. The reason is obvious, but also bear in mind you don't want to try to put it in and there's no room. Make sure her bowels are quite empty beforehand.

That said, do not have it too soon after she defacated as her anus will be especially sensitive and could be ripped/stretched if the sodomy gets even a little out of control.

I would also advise against using ribbed condoms as they can pull a lot of excrement out of the rectum when you remove yourself from her anus. Hope this helps.

ah here! DO we have to get into the actual mechanics?!?!

Make sure she's had a dump recently before you engage in anal sex

now there's a mood killer if ever i heard one.
"By the way darling, before we begin, could I just ask........"

get real!

strawberry

Originally posted by OrangeRhino
Okay, the girlfriend went on the pill the other day because she was fed up of having to use condoms. She was on the pill for a while last year but the pill she was on didn't suit her so she came off it. She went for another consultation last week and she's now on a different pill and things are grand so far. Anyway, the pill booklet said immeadiate protection but the doctor she was with said wait two weeks so we're doing that. I'm her only ever sexual partner and she's my only ever so disease is a non issue. (We've both been tested.)

My question is this, seens as putting fingers / penis / tongue / whatever in her ass and then into her vagina is a no no due to infection and such... is it safe for me to put my unprotected penis in her ass? She's quite a fan of ye olde anal sex and we were just wondering if it's safe for my wee lad in her back passage all unprotected, like, there's no risk of infection to my penis or anything is there?

Thanks a lot for any replies and sorry for the crudeness of the post. ~Bob

Dude, hush!!! I still think of you as about twelve (even though i didnt know you when you were twelve).

too_much

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Let's not get paranoid here.

They know they are both clean, so the chances of him giving something to her, or her giving something to him, are very minimal.

Is minimal worth the risk? Unprotected sex is fantastic, yes, but I'd still rather lose a little sensation than risk a warty penis. Your choice of course.

Personally I've never found the idea of anal sex attractive - It's dirty, and seems degrading to me. It's not natural, and it's extremely dangerous.

So in conclusion, I would recommend you DO use a condom.

wild_eyed

watch out for infections, make sure you wash good!

Beruthiel

wild_eyed
have you read the CHARTER at the top of this forum?
the one that says, don't bother commenting unless you have something helpful to add to the topic?
I suggest you have a look
B

Johnny Versace

But if they are both clean, where will the STD's come from?

Using a condom is fine, but I think in this case it would be more for...hygiene reason than...desease control.

Originally posted by too_much
Is minimal worth the risk? Unprotected sex is fantastic, yes, but I'd still rather lose a little sensation than risk a warty penis. Your choice of course.

Personally I've never found the idea of anal sex attractive - It's dirty, and seems degrading to me. It's not natural, and it's extremely dangerous.

So in conclusion, I would recommend you DO use a condom.

too_much

Surely they can still develop things? As horrible as it sounds, what about semen mixing with blood? It can happen, and even if they're both clean, surely the mixing of DNA or whatever can cause problems? I really don't know, as I'm no scientist.

Also, certain diseases, you don't even know you've had them! So if you're gona do it, get tested thoroughly first

too_much

Turner

Originally posted by Beruthiel
wild_eyed
have you read the CHARTER at the top of this forum?
the one that says, don't bother commenting unless you have something helpful to add to the topic?
I suggest you have a look
B

*edit*didnt see what he originally wrote.

It is widely known in the scientific world that anal sex is a high risk factor for contracting urinary tract infections.

Exposure to E.Coli (which live in the large intestine) causes the infection.


Chief.

uberwolf

Originally posted by too_much
I really don't know, as I'm no scientist.

you sure aren't :rolleyes:

too_much

No need for that, I'm just trying to point out things I've heard.

uberwolf

Originally posted by too_much
No need for that, I'm just trying to point out things I've heard.

you're suggesting some sort of spontaneous mutant sperm/blood creature. This is plainly ludicrous. Regardless of what you've heard. The same would be true with having sex during a girls period.

Crash

Aaaagh! Vagina monsters!

too_much

Originally posted by uberwolf
you're suggesting some sort of spontaneous mutant sperm/blood creature.

Wrong.

I was suggesting that mixing each other's DNA could create infections or something... I never once mentioned babies. But yeah, the E-coli point was sort of what I meant.

uberwolf

Originally posted by too_much
Wrong.

I was suggesting that mixing each other's DNA could create infections or something... I never once mentioned babies. But yeah, the E-coli point was sort of what I meant.

WTF are you talking about?
Babies, who mentioned babies?!? DNA doesn't just mix. This creation of infections is what I'm refering to. They don't spontaneously occur. The E-Coli may be there, and one may get an infection from the other in that instance, but thats a prexisting condition, entirely seperate from your drivel.

Beruthiel

uberwolf
too_much

get it back on topic

uberwolf - there is no flaming of other posters in this forum, read the CHARTER
B

Mercury_Tilt

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Beruthiel

the charter applies to you to mercie

Mercury_Tilt

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uberwolf

TBH other than the potential flaming I think I was on topic in so far as I was trying to prevent someone creating and then spreading blatant fabrications about the topic in hand. By engaging him I might actually educate him as well, I was however somewhat exasperated by his facts.


So on topic, if its your bag grand, just don't mix and match holes and you can take no fewer STI precautions than you would otherwise although the pregnancy issue should be somewhat decreased.

too_much

I really don't know what your problem is. I wasn't stating a fact, I was imlpying that the mixing of DNA could cause an infection - However I was wrong, which you could have informed me of without being patronising.

But hey, we're not all capable of being polite. I didn't know that E-coli can't just spread, and I didn't know that infections don't just "occur" - I thought they did. Calling my lack of education in this area "drivel" is rather childish.

But yeah, this is sort of on topic. I still see no reason at all not to use a condom.

hussey

tongue / whatever in her ass

Oh Dear God - I hope that was not serious

Mercury_Tilt

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Zoton

i have done it both with and witout a comdom, and tbh there isn't a signifiacnt loss in sensation since the anus is much tighter. So i would recommend using a comdom because there's just less mess involved. But even with a comdom make sure to wash thoroughly before and after.

Zoton

On a related note, the women here who have tried anal sex, did ye find it pleasurable?or did ye not enjoy it or neither?
I 've spoken to a few who've tried it out and some reckoned it was okay, nothing extraordinary, and the others thought it was fabulous (surprisingly). None of them found it unpleasant (they of course did it gently to begin with before building up speed/momentum).

Scarinae

All I'll say is don't do it too often cos you can damage the sphincter. A girl in my year was babysitting one time so she invited this guy around, they were having anal sex on the sofa when her sphincter just WENT and stuff went all over the sofa... He legged it, so she had to clean it up on her own... Sorry to be graphic but you should probably know...