Dumped again

Virus_Inc

I just got dumped by email again... took 16 months to find someone I liked (not picky just socially inept) and in the middle of my vacation round western europe I get a dear john email...

Boy do I feel about 3 inches tall... is that all I am worth? One lousy email?

KlodaX

you are on a trip round western Europe.. for how long?
where is he/she?

Virus_Inc

3 weeks so far.... 3 weeks to go... somehow I dont think Im going to enjoy it as much... she´s back in ireland - trip was planned before we hooked up and I wasnt about to bail on my mate after wed booked all our tickets in advance etc...

BuffyBot

Virus - not much advice I can give apart from don't let it spoil the trip. There isn't much you can do while travelling, so get that done with. When you return to Ireland, then see what you want to do.

Red Alert

sadly your best bet is probably to move on

king_of_inismac

hey man,

Thats tough, but look at it this way, it wasnt meant to be. If she was the type of girl you really want to spend time with, she wouldn't have broke up by e-mail (very lousey in my opinion). You deserve better man.

Put her out of your mind, delete her from your phone. forget about her. Sure,you'll miss her, but the pain will pass.

Hopes this helps, we've all been there, you'll get over it,

King

Silent Grape

uve gone on a 6 week trip and she dumped u when ur due back in a mere 3 weeks!
thats not on imo. that sounds a wee bit selfish and immature. land attention seeking. move on while ur away and bring back a better looking alternative to show off.

KlodaX

bring back a better looking alternative to show off.

:rolleyes: don't do it to show off... do it cause you can ... she just put a whole new spin on the next 3 weeks...

you weren't actually expecting it to last forever with her where you?

she could have helped you out and said it 3 weeks ago .. but none the less... lets look at the glass as half full.

enjoy the rest of your trip... I mean really enjoy the rest of your trip

loismustdie

Originally posted by Virus_Inc
I just got dumped by email again... took 16 months to find someone I liked (not picky just socially inept) and in the middle of my vacation round western europe I get a dear john email...

Boy do I feel about 3 inches tall... is that all I am worth? One lousy email?

doesn't sound like you liked her all that much and all that's hurt is your ego! how long were you with the girl and why do you think she broke up ith you?

Beruthiel

Originally posted by Virus_Inc
is that all I am worth? One lousy email?

do you really want to be with someone who would treat you in this manner? tbh, if she was thinking about anyone but herself, she would have waited till you came back to say it to your face not to mention the fact that it has the side effect of potentially ruining your holiday. Don't let that happen, have a ball and forget about it. Someone that selfish shouldn't be allowed to ruin your hols, be glad you are out of the relationship, you deserve better.

koneko

She doesn't sound worth it tbh. Just try not to think about it too much and enjoy the trip. At least now you can enjoy the sights aswell as the local ladies.

Sleepy

You're in a foreign country, look around you. Don't the women all look better than our own? Now go forth and sow some wild oats!

DUX

Originally posted by Virus_Inc
I just got dumped by email again... took 16 months to find someone I liked (not picky just socially inept) and in the middle of my vacation round western europe I get a dear john email...

Boy do I feel about 3 inches tall... is that all I am worth? One lousy email?

I am sorry to hear that. It happened to me several times in the past to be dumped via email, MSN or text message.....quite honestly I am surprised of how cowards some people out there are (particularly women I have to say) when it comes to leave somebody. The same happened to many of my friends.

Anyway don't worry, it doesn't only happen to you, so there is nothing wrong with you..... cheer up and enjoy your trip!

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by Sleepy
You're in a foreign country, look around you. Don't the women all look better than our own? Now go forth and sow some wild oats!

Indeed. Sad but true.

Luckily Dublin has a lot of foreign language call centers!

...

Getting dumped is horrible. But you already know with time that you'll be OK.

Some advice a girl once told a friend of mine -

The best way to get over a man is to get under another one (Obviously, I'm not suggesting you need to turn gay.)

nads

What are you worrying about? ... don't you know European women don't shave their armpits emmm erotic.
And if you luck out over there just go to Amsterdam or Hamburg or Prague

(puts open-ended plane ticket back in inside pocket) :ninja: :ninja: :ninja: (poor ninja always being tarred with lewd acts and embarassment)

Silent Grape

thats a really old quote and a lyric from a bellx1 song. 'im not over u can i get back under'.. well not quite but u get the general idea.

its also called rebound

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by Silent Grape

its also called rebound

I'm not suggesting he gets into another relationship - just has a bit of fun, releases some endorphins, takes his mind of things.

Also, it'll make him feel attractive again...

Silent Grape

i didnt mean to have a negative tone in that last post johnny, i agree with u.

anyway sex when fuelled by anger can be quite pleasant....




or so im told.

Johnny Versace

Yeah, I know you didn't mean it in a negative tone

The hangover is making it difficult to type smilies...

nads

Originally posted by Silent Grape
anyway sex when fuelled by anger can be quite pleasant....

a few knuckle sandwiches? .... i'm readin' ya dawg

Beruthiel

Originally posted by nads
a few knuckle sandwiches? .... i'm readin' ya dawg

nads
those kind of comments are not appreciated in PI,
please read the CHARTER at the top of this forum

B

Sleepy

Originally posted by Silent Grape
i didnt mean to have a negative tone in that last post johnny, i agree with u.

anyway sex when fuelled by anger can be quite pleasant....

or so im told.

Yeah, fcuking someone you hate, knowing that they hate you too can be intense!

Silent Grape

i didnt quite mean it like that but howandever...

nads

Originally posted by Beruthiel
nads
those kind of comments are not appreciated in PI

'Don't be a sap'

Seriously i was joking, sorry B

Sleepy

Originally posted by Silent Grape
i didnt quite mean it like that but howandever...

Try it sometime.

Macseamusa

I don't know if u really like this girl or what the kind of relationship u had, but dont let it ruin ur holiday. If u liked her and want to get back with her think about it when u get home, push it out of ur mind, write it on a peice of paper 'i got dumped' then when ur home u'll go heh oh yeh i got dumped... from there ya can go two ways (1) waa i got dumped or (2) fair enuf.....lets have some fun . Personally id go for the second one. dont let it get you down
Enjoy the rest of ur holiday

Lainey

Originally posted by Sleepy
Try it sometime.

i agree.. it's crazy.. and i still hated him after but it was a kinda i hate you but i see ya again ha ha..

such a lousy way to dump someone.. try not to let it ruin your trip.. hope you haven't her present bought..if ya do, give it to her friend or sister.. really sicken her..

Sarky

Forget about her-for a while. You still have half of Western europe as your playground to get over it. Have some fun, drink some beer, do some sightseeing, climb some mountains, meet some interesting women.

Then come back happy and you can effortlessly ignore her for the rest of your life.

Havelock

Oh to be single and overseas! (If my g/f is reding this I'm only trying to amke the lad realise his wonderful opertunity)

ToxicPaddy

Originally posted by Lainey
........but it was a kinda i hate you but i see ya again ha ha..

Some of the best sex ive ever had was with an ex who I hated and she hated me
just as much, but when ur drunk and horny and hate the girl in question... and horny
and need a good sh*g and horny and.. well ya get the idea, its the best most
intense sex ur gonna have and you can even tell them that in the middle of sex too

:D:D:D


As for the dumping, shes not worth it mate, wouldnt waste another minute of my
time thinkin about her and make sure you have a ball and rub her face in it when you
get back.. selfish b*tch..

Tox

ferdi

look, your in wester europe...here is the cure to all your woes: a list off all the coffeeshops in amsterdam, let rip and forget that whoe