Your views on Sex

flogen · 22-02-2004 8:17pm #1

Whats your take on sex??
Mine would be; do what you want, whatever that may be, with whoever that may be, as long as its consensual (or doesnt involve any unwilling persons, so sex infront of a group of people that are horrified isnt really cool).

I dont really care what others get up to (once the above rule is applied), but is there anything that you think shouldnt be done besides something like rape?
obviously there are alot of things i wouldnt do personally, but its not like i think its sick, each to their own.....

any no-no's regarding sex in your book?

Flogen

kaimera · 22-02-2004 8:21pm

great

any kind of forced sex is out of the question and it would have to be consensual.

i have a long term g/f tho so I dont need to worry that

as for what goes?
well, there's not a lot that I need to think twice about and off the top of my head no pun intended I cant think of any.

anything involving other people other than myself and my g/f is a definite no.

Amz · 22-02-2004 8:22pm

Don't think this is really an appropriate forum for this thread.

flogen · 22-02-2004 8:41pm

where do you suggest amz?

I dont think personal issues suits......

Flogen

ykt0di9url7bc3 · 22-02-2004 8:44pm

What do you think of scratching you your arm?????

I dunno if boards.ie is read for those discussions... unless its done in the pink one's domain

flogen · 22-02-2004 8:48pm

huh?

Flogen

Amz · 22-02-2004 9:28pm

I think due to the fact that there are so many young and possibly impressionable people who are free to access this forum that perhaps sexual practices/preferances aren't really appropriate for here.

I'm not a prude and I'd be quite happy to have such a discussion in a forum where my younger brothers aren't likely to be able to access it.

zAbbo · 22-02-2004 9:34pm

Originally posted by flogen
any no-no's regarding sex in your book?

Flogen

having sex with your Auntie

Töpher · 22-02-2004 9:36pm

Quality! Beat me to it! (Not like that!)

TheSonOfBattles · 22-02-2004 9:39pm

Originally posted by bazH
having sex with your Auntie

Hey, if you can't keep it in the family where can you keep it :ninja:

Amz · 22-02-2004 9:49pm

Preferably in your pants

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe · 22-02-2004 9:49pm

anything that would remotely involve cheating. such as threesomes foursomes or group things... in my and my fiancee's opinion wether it is agreed by both of us or not. its just not right. grand its a few hours of fun but who wants to be thinking in the back of their heads did he/she enjoy it more than just the two of us?

anyway we have a healthy relationship. although were having a baby in 10 weeks.

so my definate no no would be anything with another person. im strickly dedicated to the 1 person. thank fu*ck so is she

................

and its not really keeping it in the family if its not in the house... so if anyone wants to shag a family member then go to a B&B or hotel... im sure that works..... just dont tell anyone after...
:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

flogen · 22-02-2004 10:19pm

well yeah, i agree about the threesome thing... myself and my gf would be the same as you and your fiancee.... not interested in involving others in any way.

in saying that, if someone else has a relationship built on threesomes and orgies, thats fair enough.... each to their own i guess.

Flogen

Sarky · 23-02-2004 2:12pm

Read a book instead.

xx · 23-02-2004 2:19pm

Originally posted by Kaimera
any kind of forced sex is out of the question......

Only unless its forced on me by a beautiful woman....which is very VERY rare.

azezil · 23-02-2004 5:40pm

Its a pain in the ass...

But seriously forks, lube is your friend.

Pink Bunny · 23-02-2004 7:16pm

What two people chose to do in private is their own business, as long as it's 1.consensual and
2.they are both adults (meaning age of consent)
If one or both of those are missing it's wrong.

Kold · 23-02-2004 7:24pm

Originally posted by flogen
Whats your take on sex??
Mine would be; do what you want, whatever that may be, with whoever that may be, as long as its consensual (or doesnt involve any unwilling persons, so sex infront of a group of people that are horrified isnt really cool).

I dont really care what others get up to (once the above rule is applied), but is there anything that you think shouldnt be done besides something like rape?
obviously there are alot of things i wouldnt do personally, but its not like i think its sick, each to their own.....

any no-no's regarding sex in your book?

Flogen

But how do you get babies and animals to give you their consent?

Kold · 23-02-2004 7:26pm

Originally posted by bazH
having sex with your Auntie

Q U A L I T Y F L A M A G E

TheSonOfBattles · 23-02-2004 7:32pm

Originally posted by Kold
But how do you get babies and animals to give you their consent?

Hypnotism and roofies are my usual methods.

flogen · 23-02-2004 7:41pm

well thats the point kold, you cant and thats why its illegal.....

Flogen

Kold · 23-02-2004 7:46pm

Well I'm sure you could video tape them nodding by waving sweets in front of them

flogen · 23-02-2004 8:58pm

that could work.... if you were to... erh... i mean... no...thats wrong
(call me, we can exchange ideas)

Flogen

eth0_ · 23-02-2004 9:06pm

Originally posted by Amz
I think due to the fact that there are so many young and possibly impressionable people who are free to access this forum that perhaps sexual practices/preferances aren't really appropriate for here.

I'm not a prude and I'd be quite happy to have such a discussion in a forum where my younger brothers aren't likely to be able to access it.

Oh, you mean like the thread(s) about anal sex experiences which ran and ran in PI not so long ago (in fact I don't think they were ever locked)?

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe · 23-02-2004 10:34pm

just to ask what does consensual exactly mean?

flogen · 23-02-2004 10:42pm

I see your concern Amz, but where exactly would you have in mind (within boards.ie that is), there is no over 18s forum, or for that matter anyway of stopping under 18 kids from viewing the material they want to (unless you want to stand over him all the time)

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe: exact dictionary description:

con·sen·su·al ( P ) Pronunciation Key (kn-snsh-l)
adj.
Of or expressing a consensus: a consensual decision.

Law. Existing or entered into by mutual consent without formalization by document or ceremony: a consensual marriage; a consensual contract.
Involving the willing participation of both or all parties, especially in an illegal transaction or practice: the consensual crimes of prostitution, drug abuse, and illegal gambling.

in this regard, where both (or all) parties involved in the sexual act are of sound mind (not drugged etc) and have agreed fully to partake in the act (and i guess you could add are aware of any consequences of the act etc)

Flogen

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe · 23-02-2004 11:06pm

so in other words consensual is sex with someone that
a) wants it
b) knows whats happening
c) isnt getting paid for it
d) knows that she can get preggers
e) its with a person not related, same sex, different animal, abnormal sex e.g the stuff nefrofealics do etc.....
f) doesnt break any marriage or relationship laws etc....
g) and is entirely aimed at the concept of having sex and not anything that involves a blindfold, pair of handcuffs, a 10 inch dildo, vaseline/K-Y jelly, a baby pig/Hamster and or Glue.

so is that right??

flogen · 23-02-2004 11:44pm

who said anything about not getting paid? prostitutes are still consenting, your just paying for that consent
And same/different sex doesnt matter... once everyone is agreeing to partake and is not forced
you can damage any relationships you want.... once the other party (the cheater) want to
you can use all of those things on the list, if you like, once they want to too....

hold on... you see your first point? consensual sex is with someone who wants it.... its that (once they are of legal age to make such a decision and not in anyway mentally impared due to drink/drugs)

Flogen

nadir · 24-02-2004 12:58am

Originally posted by Amz
I think due to the fact that there are so many young and possibly impressionable people who are free to access this forum that perhaps sexual practices/preferances aren't really appropriate for here.

I'm not a prude and I'd be quite happy to have such a discussion in a forum where my younger brothers aren't likely to be able to access it.

sry amz, but i disagree too :P
hehe

Amz · 24-02-2004 1:08am

Well to be honest at the time I saw the topic I figure it was going to spiral into an "I'd <insert verb> her <insert noun> using an <insert noun> in the <insert noun>" and I didn't think that was suitable...

*shrug*

rymus · 24-02-2004 1:17am

Ahh sex... wouldnt it be great to actually have a sex life?

*toddles off to ebay to see what they have on offer at the moment*

nadir · 24-02-2004 1:21am

heh
tis a wierd enough thread anyhows,
/me wonders about this interweb thingie

The Beer Baron · 24-02-2004 3:45pm

AL][EN · 24-02-2004 4:20pm

Meh! its overrated if you ask me, but its been a long while so ive almost forgot what goes where!! thats all i'll say on the matter in a public form

Johnny Versace · 24-02-2004 4:28pm

Originally posted by AL][EN
Meh! its overrated if you ask me, but its been a long while so ive almost forgot what goes where!! thats all i'll say on the matter in a public form

LOL! I feel like that if I haven't gotten any for a week...

/me rushes off to the sex addicts clinic

Dont be at yourself · 24-02-2004 5:42pm

You don't know how great it is until its taken away from you.

The bitch.

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