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Finish my story...

  • 15-02-2004 1:12am
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭


    This girl recently joined my school, it was pretty much an accidental thing but we
    hit it off pretty well, common interests etc. After that,
    in the following months we spent a lot of time together and became close in both
    senses of the word.

    Then apparently over the winter break she messed around with
    her other guy friends. When I saw her after the break I told her how I
    really felt about her. We agreed to take things slow and
    everything seemed ok, we kissed a bit and talked about a lot of things. Sadly
    a week later we're back in school. Before the break I agreed to go have
    dinner with her parents.

    In short, she acted cold and indifferent to me, not even a hug or
    smile since I got back.

    And out of nowhere she decided to just be friends.

    Jokingly I asked was she feeling alright but she refused to tell me anything
    only we were staying friends. I don't
    know what I should do, my friends don't
    even know.

    Luckily she still wants to see me a lot,
    Only she wants to do stuff with me even when I express no
    Longing to do so and try to avoid it.

    Perhaps you have some ideas. Part of me is still
    enraged over the fact she lied to me but I still want
    nothing more than to pursue a relationship with her now
    indeed she thinks she can get away like nothing happened,
    should I try win her back?
    Not personal issue


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    Stories comprise of a beginning, a middle and an end mate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭PrecariousNuts


    Well you are probably more than right,
    alright what should I change its
    name too without any other
    kinds of misleading post subjects.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    Finish my story?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,181 ✭✭✭✭Jim


    Originally posted by PrecariousNuts
    Not personal issue

    Denial is the first step to a locked thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭PrecariousNuts


    No! I would hate if this thread was closed before more
    observant people got to
    bask in its glory!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,133 ✭✭✭Explosive_Cornflake


    Get rid of her, but thats my opinion, and i don't have have a g/f, but i don't care really, bit pissed off with then for the last few months, you'll be around along enough for girls to piss you off, so get rid of 'em now


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,918 ✭✭✭Deadwing


    ^
    What he said.
    And if youve any nude photos of her, send them around camera phones or post them online.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭passive


    is that so he'll feel better about it?
    or just for your own twisted pleasure deadwing?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭TheSonOfBattles


    Can't it be both?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    Just then a hastily constructed robot jumped out and they all shat themselves.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 965 ✭✭✭DriftingRain


    uhhhh huh???

    makes me think of that movie "Dude where's My Car?"....And then...And then...And then...so on and so on!


    BLAHHHH:rolleyes:



    ~DR~


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 507 ✭✭✭Roller Toaster


    I have a lot of advice on this issue.

    Knowing the art of love I think that being
    nearly always totally
    open and never ever
    witholding information.

    When I think about your situation,
    harrowing as it is I can't help but feel that she having
    acted in the way that she did with
    those other guys

    you deserve much better than to be
    ostricised from the community of love in such a way, try and think
    up other reasons for what happened, was it your fault or hers or was it
    ronald, that guy who always seemed overly friendly with her and
    even asked her to the debs when you weren't looking.

    upon reading your post I can't help but think that it's time you forgot about her and
    put everything that's happened behind you.

    to the future and all it holds,
    open the door and close the window.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,918 ✭✭✭Deadwing


    Originally posted by passive
    is that so he'll feel better about it?
    or just for your own twisted pleasure deadwing?

    No its so you can finally find out what women have under thier skirts, Passive *L*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭PrecariousNuts


    I'd like to thank you for all your suggestions.

    Kind as they were I still think she is
    important to me and I really
    love her a
    lot. I gave her
    everything I had to offer but it was
    decided to remain friends.

    Hope she gets on well
    enough without me, whatever her
    reasons were.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 507 ✭✭✭Roller Toaster


    Yes, you are most welcome.
    of course we were all happy to help but what has brought about this sudden
    u-turn of convictions?

    What are your plans for the future with her?
    i think that you should still try and see her as much as possible and who knows, sooner rather than
    later you might get back together as
    love is a hard bond to break.

    Do you think that you will have problems trusting people from now on, personally
    i think that you have handled the situation well but as this is all in text I can't tell what your
    emotional state of mind is.

    After all is said and done good
    luck with things and hopefully
    one day soon you will find a
    new woman in your life who will be with you for at least
    eight to nine years give or take a few weeks.


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    Originally posted by Jimeatsmenu
    Denial is the first step to a locked thread.



    i thought deniall was a river in egypt?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 507 ✭✭✭Roller Toaster


    r
    e
    a
    down the side guys and all will be clear :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭passive


    ha!

    thats kinda brilliant...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭PrecariousNuts


    It was a pity no one got it earlier though, that could have been fun


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 507 ✭✭✭Roller Toaster


    Hey more credit to me please.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,133 ✭✭✭Explosive_Cornflake


    That was absolute genius, how did you put it all together?


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