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periods and sex

  • 09-02-2004 8:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok, so i was with my girlfriend the other day, and we were having sex as you do, but she said something beforehand that i didn't catch cause i was too busy with other stuff, you know yourself, i wont go into detail, but we had sex anyway and that was grand untill i finished and i looked down and looked straight back up again, thinking wtf!?!? and then i realised that she said she was having her period. now i was really disturbed by this, i wont paint a picture but you can imagine yourself, so what i was wondering was do women have sex while they're having their period or am i making an issue out of nothing?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 372 ✭✭catspring


    i can't answer for all women, but personally the mess isn't worth it.....
    some women are more in the mood for sex during their period because of hormones and the like.
    if you aren't comfortable with it tell her, or you could always opt for sex in the shower/bath where mess doesn't matter.
    everybody has different views on this so talk to you girlfriend about it and see what she says.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 10,247 Mod ✭✭✭✭flogen


    how did you not notice????????!!!!

    as was said, some girls are more in the mood, its even a fetish for some people (obviously not you). it is alot of hastle, not really worth it, so in future LOOK, you cant blame your girlfriend, she did tell you, even if you were too horny to listen

    Flogen


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,984 ✭✭✭✭Lump


    Messy sex = teh bad, freaks me out tbh.


    John


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34 Jewel


    there's no problem wit it at all, as far as I am concerned but it is a chocie you have to make between urselfs if ur both fine with it then all good(also less chance of accidents). As long as there isn't white sheets it'll be grand. Shower idea isnt bad either though.:)

    well what ever u decide have fun!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,478 ✭✭✭magick


    Me and my Gf had sex while she was on her period and it didnt bother me in anyway, slightly messy yes, fun yes! Though we were in a hotel at the time, now that i mention it though, i do pity the cleaning lady that had to deal with our room.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭][cEMAN**


    Well the only bad thing (as long as you don't go down) is the fact that you're going to smell quite a bit. Even if you wash thoroughly the smell stays with you for at least a day.

    Though i'll add that from any time i've done it i've always been told afterwards that it helps relieve period cramps. It's really just down to how self conscious she is, and how grossed out you are.

    It's just a bit of blood after all...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17 shels


    just get use to it coz sex is messy all the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,016 ✭✭✭✭vibe666


    hate to be crude, but it's just a different colour goop. if she's happy and you're happy then go for it. might want to keep the foreplay to a minimum though, or you'll end up with paw prints everywhere!

    been with some who do and some who don't, but tbh, unless you're desperate or she's got the cramps, then it can usually wait until after the deed is done!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16 Minus1


    Wet is wet. What's the problem?

    As for the mess - baby wipes are great.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,204 ✭✭✭bug


    Well the only bad thing (as long as you don't go down) is the fact that you're going to smell quite a bit. Even if you wash thoroughly the smell stays with you for at least a day.

    ...yeah if your sense of smell is akin to a blood hound... :confused:

    what do you mean.. there is no smell if they're is little or no bacteria present..ie if that person is clean...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 237 ✭✭JessieG


    some women like it some dont. depends on how heavy a period she has.

    dont make an issue out of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    Originally posted by asdfg
    i wont go into detail, but we had sex anyway and that was grand untill i finished and i looked down and looked straight back up again, thinking wtf!?!? and then i realised that she said she was having her period. now i was really disturbed by this, i wont paint a picture but you can imagine yourself
    thats another item on my list of things i shouldn't have read whilst eating lunch:(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭][cEMAN**


    Originally posted by bug
    ...yeah if your sense of smell is akin to a blood hound... :confused:

    what do you mean.. there is no smell if they're is little or no bacteria present..ie if that person is clean...

    Yeah well I do have quite an acute sense of smell. Not my fault...I've once been likened to Jack Nicholson in wolf. Is that a good or bad thing? I dunno...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,441 ✭✭✭The_Goose


    Originally posted by ][cEMAN**
    Yeah well I do have quite an acute sense of smell. Not my fault...I've once been likened to Jack Nicholson in wolf. Is that a good or bad thing? I dunno...

    Can't be a good thing when you smell things like that say, at home!!!!!:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,089 ✭✭✭D!ve^Bomb!


    wot the hell is wrong with u people, that's sick, even if she did tell him its obvious he wasn't payin attention so i think she should have made a lil bit more of an effort to let him know dont u think? even if the girl does want it more during her period if u make her wait then it'll that much better, its only a few days ffs


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,556 ✭✭✭✭Sir Digby Chicken Caesar


    even if the girl does want it more during her period if u make her wait then it'll that much better, its only a few days ffs

    what...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,548 ✭✭✭Draupnir


    Sex is super when Arsenal are playing at home, if ya ask me its just more lubrication


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Originally posted by Draupnir
    Sex is super when Arsenal are playing at home, if ya ask me its just more lubrication

    totally dude, just like back door shenanigans when shes got diarrhea


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    After the first day two days, there's not much blood anyway. If it's messy, take a shower afterwards. Simple as that!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for the replys people, (bananayogurt thats disgusting :o), i think ill be paying more attention in future!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 299 ✭✭androphobic


    Originally posted by newband
    wot the hell is wrong with u people, that's sick

    sigh


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,972 ✭✭✭SheroN


    While the painters are in ya might aswell give your car a new paint job too.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,935 Mod ✭✭✭✭Turner


    I definitely wouldnt be a fan of it. Think i could last a few days without it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,552 ✭✭✭✭GuanYin


    Originally posted by bug
    ...yeah if your sense of smell is akin to a blood hound... :confused:

    what do you mean.. there is no smell if they're is little or no bacteria present..ie if that person is clean...

    This post explains an awful lot about my day :)

    Unless that person has serious health issues or you don't wash the blood away there will be no lingering smell.

    Some people think that menstrural blood is unclean or has a strong odour and this is a common misconception. It most likely arises from improper disposal of used sanitary devices.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,204 ✭✭✭bug


    This post explains an awful lot about my day


    your the next best thing to a medical journal syke. :)
    I couldnt find a resident biologist here..they must be all off eating donuts.
    I knew it had something got to do with toxins or byproducts produced by bacteria "eating" the blood rather than the blood itself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,548 ✭✭✭Draupnir


    Sure nothing like a smell of blood and brown goop to get ya going man, I have a mate who went down on a girl who was in her period once, took him about ten minutes to realise he didnt have a nosebleed when he turned the light on in the bathroom, I swear that it aint me (cough cough).

    But I find it kinda naughty, bit of a turn on if you ask me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭Sleipnir


    Originally posted by Draupnir
    Sure nothing like a smell of blood and brown goop to get ya going man, I have a mate who went down on a girl who was in her period once, took him about ten minutes to realise he didnt have a nosebleed when he turned the light on in the bathroom, I swear that it aint me (cough cough).

    But I find it kinda naughty, bit of a turn on if you ask me


    Oi, I think you might be taking this to a level beyond the scope this thread is supposed to cover.
    Stories like these are for your mates in the pub, not on a public bulletin board.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,564 ✭✭✭Typedef


    Originally posted by syke
    Some people think that menstrural blood is unclean or has a strong odour and this is a common misconception.


    You mean you don't have a house of menstrual uncleanliness as is set out in the Bible?

    Do you worship Satan?
    Eat Babies.

    Witch.... Harlot...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,972 ✭✭✭SheroN


    I think we've learned all we can from this thread.
    Anyone have any problems with this threads closure, PM me.


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