Love bites. Hard

LegacyUser

Ugh, I'm in sh!t mood the last few days.
Basically the one I'm in love with is in love with the one who's in love with me. We all know each other and get along well, even though I've only known the two a short while. I know that they were together but it was somewhat unrequited.

I asked "Do you love me". First I was asked where that came from and then told it didn't matter - BOOM! *splat. I had an inkling but I had asked straight out just for my own sanity. The kick was really the less than half arsed handshake when we left company yesterday.

From what I can make of it, we all know where we stand. I get the feeling I'm the filler in the whole thing. Which I don't think I'd handle very well. We're all pretty open regarding what we think and say, but there's a limit I suppose.

At the end of the day, it's up to me, but I'd love to know what other ppl would do? Run away from it all & forget about these people who are so rare personality-wise? Stay friends and run the risk of the whole thing getting ever more unbearable?

Silent Grape

thats a tough really REALLY confusing situation to be in. made worse by u bring the whole 'love' deal into it (im not trivialising the fact u are in love or anything)

i think now u just have to be honest. see what happens next time u see this person and go with ur gut instinct. she'he obviously knows ur interested so maintain to him/her that ud like to maintain the friendship, no matter what happens.

if u dont like the 'one u is in love with u' tell him/her straight up that u dont like them in that way. there's no point dithering around getting confused and making assumptions. be honest and direct and try not to hurt anyones feelings in the meantime.

i was in a similiar situ to u a couple of years back. i ended up 'leading on' someone because i cudnt bring myself to hurt him (twas a very good friend). now he still resents me for it.

good luck, hope it all works out

x

][cEMAN**

OK this might not be the best advice, but it's a suggestion to try and not meant as a troll....

If you love the person who's in love with you, that either means you're all of the same sex or at least 1 of you is gay. Leaves it open for a possible threesome and at the end of it you might find that you could get yourself closer to the one that you "love".

The downside being that the person who loves you will simply return the love of the person who you love. But then be happy in the fact that you got 2 people together. It might hurt but if you do love them, you should let them go - and you would be happy just to see them happy.

Either way, if the situation as a threesome works you could end up making it a regular thing. Won't be the ideal situation but might satisfy temporary needs.

loismustdie

Originally posted by Love bites.Hard
At the end of the day, it's up to me, but I'd love to know what other ppl would do?

3some

MojoMaker

Half-arsed handshake? :rolleyes:


Why are these homosexual relationships so complicated?

shels

has ne one ever seen the threesome movie wit lara flynn boyle and one of the baldwin brothers **** film but it mite help u go watch it. it its two girls involved in this then go for it

Agent Smith

good god,



sheesh

po0k

Originally posted by ][cEMAN**
If you love the person who's in love with you, that either means you're all of the same sex or at least 1 of you is gay.

one could just as easily be a hermaphrodite or bi-sexual.
This seems to be a trio of unrequited love, and it's perfectly possible for one person to be in love with another person who is not of the same sexuality.

Certainly is a pickle.

Threesome might be the best option, go talk to the one-who-loves-you-but-whom-you-don't-love first, ten suggest a 3some to the one you love.
Either way you'll get off and can put it down to life experience/personal growth or some other such hippeh twaddle.