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Hitting Girls, right or wrong?

  • 09-01-2004 11:15pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,943 ✭✭✭


    With all the calls for equal rights and no discrimination, isn;t it odd that we're all brought up to not hit girls. As kids we're all told "Don;t hit girls, its bad" or some such line.

    Personally, i'm from category 4, i'd never hit a girl. I might wrestle with them, but carefully. Am i one of the few "old-fashined" people in this respect, or am i among the majority?

    Do you hit girls? 108 votes

    God no, are you crazy? I'd never do that!
    0% 0 votes
    Sometimes i do, but only the less sore parts.
    74% 80 votes
    Sometimes i do, and i don't care how sore it is.
    16% 18 votes
    All the time. They like it rough.
    9% 10 votes


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 801 ✭✭✭dod


    There are no absolutes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,396 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    funni, my g/f, her sis and I had this conversation at christmas.

    if she provokes, she deserves what she gets.

    saying that, it would take a hell of a lot to get me to hit a girl but only in self defence


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    i would rather take my own life then hit a woman( who ever she may be)

    as stated in con-air,

    people who beat or rape women are the lowest of dirt in the world. there like the crud that forms on the side of you mouth.



    any man who hits a woman is a coward. needing to take there rage out on women who are of the weeker sex..


    just my €0.02


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,892 ✭✭✭bizmark


    if she hits you for no reasion they ya why not theirs a lot of idoit girls out their who would happly attack you for no reasion (which i know)

    after all it would be discrimateing if you didnt :p

    but other that for self defence then no ! then again i dont fight with anyone for no reasion anyway only for self defence so their ya go


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,299 ✭✭✭oeNeo


    I'd hit a girl no problem if they said or did anything I didn't like. Why not? Those bitches gotta learn their ass some respect.


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    I think it's ludacris that a girl can expect to hit a man while going crazy if she were to be hit back. I personally have never hit a girl but I'm sure I would at least throw a girl back with force if one was to attack me.


    Like my mate says: If a girl wants to act like a man then she should be treated like one.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    Most definately not.
    If such a situation was ever to arise, I would defend myself, but not lower myself to hitting her back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,031 ✭✭✭El Marco


    I encourage a bitch slap now and then. God knows those hoes deserve it.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Originally posted by bizmark
    if she hits you for no reasion they ya why not theirs a lot of idoit girls out their who would happly attack you for no reasion

    This is actually a very valid point. I believe it's totally because when things aren't going their way, they can expect to attack somebody but still not be touched.

    If a man was to do the same he'd soon end up with a black eye.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Originally posted by El Marco
    I encourage a bitch slap now and then. God knows those hoes deserve it.

    LMAO!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,892 ✭✭✭bizmark


    If a man was to do the same he'd soon end up with a black eye.

    or in prision


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,454 ✭✭✭weemcd


    family members (sister) apart from that no,i was tested once by a girl punching me but no i would not hit her back, that could get you in a whole pile of ****.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,943 ✭✭✭Mutant_Fruit


    or in prision

    Unfortunately i have to agree with that. If a man was to beat a women, its nearly guarenteed that he'll be facing some sort of court enforced penalties.

    However, if i was to come here tomorrow, and post that i was just beaten black and blue by a girl, i can guarentee that most people would laugh, and probably say i was lying (maybe not in thoses exact words, but you'd think it).

    Courts take the side of the women at least 9 out of 10 times. Ok, most of the time it is the man's fault, BUT, not always. If a man is attacked by a women with the intention to cause a lot of harm, it should be his right to beat the women back. But its doubtful the man would get away with it.

    Thats equal rights for ya.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭KlodaX


    depends on the girl and the situation... if she is bigger than you and hit you .. then go for your life... alot of girls seem to think they are protected by the fact that they are a girl and that you "can't" hit them back...

    a lady you shouldn't hit... but that is only because a lady would never hit you.

    I suppose it is kinda like hitting a guy with his back turned, he is weaker than you... you wouldn't hit someone weaker than you would you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,797 ✭✭✭Paddy20


    As for men hitting women. Clearly, that is "Wrong" .

    However, as for Women hitting Women ! Can I watch ?..

    P.: :ninja: :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,396 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    aren't the number of reported male beatings by women on the increase? or were?

    bloody womens rights


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,174 ✭✭✭[CALIBUR]


    Originally posted by El Marco
    I encourage a bitch slap now and then. God knows those hoes deserve it.

    *giggles* I know u mean


    There where times I really felt like knocking the shìt in to a "Women" but If I did hit women it well make me feel bad and shìte.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,375 ✭✭✭Antisocialiser


    aint nobody above an ass wh00pin'


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭TheSonOfBattles


    If the situation warranted that someone needed to be hit, then I would hope that I would have sense enough to not discrimanate between male and female. After all, we're all human, and women kill, hurt, threaten and torture people just like men do. If I were to say that I would never hit a girl, and one came at me with a knife, while I have absolutely no training in self defence, I would at least try and stop her by:

    a) running like a little bi7ch, and
    b) hitting her if cornered.


    Thankfully a situation like this has never come up, and I have (to my knowledge) never been in a serious fight of any kind.

    The weaker sex thing by the way, is complete dog sh1t. Women are just as strong as men, if not stronger. Plus if anything they may just be the most dangerous sex, after all, with there feminine charms they can be deceitful liers, and us men, thinking with our libido iinstead of our brains, will fall for it, and do whatever it takes to please them.

    The above is also just another stereotype, as men can be just as bad for deceiving people to get what they want, and women are just as bad for thinking with there sex drive instead of there brains when it comes to the attractive sex. I just used it to illustrate a point.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭Thorbar


    Prize to whoever knows the movie this line is from:

    "Shut that cunt up before I fuckstart her head"


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    Originally posted by Thorbar
    Prize to whoever knows the movie this line is from:

    "Shut that cunt up before I fuckstart her head"

    "Way of the Gun"?


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    mmmm google. And you got the quote wrong too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,651 ✭✭✭Enygma


    Were were just talking about this in work the other day. A girl in work said she saw this apparent domestic outside a club and this girl was actually ripping chunks of hair out of her boyfriends head! Everyone there was screaming at him to just f*cking hit the bitch but he wouldn't.

    I'd say if someone/anyone was doing that to me, I'd f*cking smack them one, and they'd deserve it too. It's not like you're beating your wife cause she didn't have the dinner ready or anything!.

    As for being brought up not to hit girls, another girl in work was saying that these girls in her park were picking on this guy (they're all around then years old) The poor young fella wouldn't hit back because he was always told that you never hit a girl. AFAIK eventually someone told him to just hit them and see how they like it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭passive


    score...first person to vote for the last option

    i'd only hit girls when they hit me first and not since i was a little kid have i ever done that in a less than playful way
    (once when i was about 10 this girl i severely hated was kicking me in the legs repeatedly and hurting me quite a lot. as best i recall i punched her very hard in the face...she spent the next few days showing everyone the inside of her lip and telling them i hit girls! nobody seemed to understand "she was attacking me!")

    but anyway, i'd push my female friends playfully and maybe wrestle with my girlfriend/hit her lightly when she hits me but never anything serious...we are naturally stronger and its wrong to take advantage of that.
    but when its not serious or in self defence i would have no problem hitting a girl and i think its just plain stupid to say "i'd never hit a girl ever and thats a horrible thing to do"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,152 ✭✭✭sound_wave


    personally i would have no problem in giving a woman a crack for something she deserved. n open handed one mind not a fist
    As for being brought up not to hit girls, another girl in work was saying that these girls in her park were picking on this guy (they're all around then years old) The poor young fella wouldn't hit back because he was always told that you never hit a girl. AFAIK eventually someone told him to just hit them and see how they like it.

    me and a bud were standing outside a club one night and he was ringing a taxi or something and outta nowhere comes this handbag . slap across my friends head and crack new phone onto the ground. we looked up and the handbag was attached to this rotten scumbag bit ch. i was like hit that whoe but since my bud was brought up as mentioned above he wouldnt.. i wish i had! stupid bi tch


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,984 ✭✭✭✭Lump


    I would never hit a women or girl. Men were puit here to protect women. I say some guy smack a friend of a friend (Female) I took much pleasure in kicking his teeth in.

    It's wrong to hit women, there are generally weaker then most men. and it's just wrong.

    That is all.


    John


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,892 ✭✭✭bizmark


    not if they hit you for no reasion

    tuff **** you hit me i hit you i learned that when some dumb bitch and 3 of her dumb bitch freinds tryed to rob my bike from out side a vid shop a few year.s ago ..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 292 ✭✭Pink Bunny


    Originally posted by Lump
    I would never hit a women or girl. Men were puit here to protect women. I say some guy smack a friend of a friend (Female) I took much pleasure in kicking his teeth in.

    It's wrong to hit women, there are generally weaker then most men. and it's just wrong.

    That is all.


    John

    First off, John that is so sweet! Your female friends are lucky to have a guy like you around.
    As far as the comments regarding equal rights should mean equal treatment with everything, I think you might be missing the point, gentleman. All most women want is the same chance as a man for a job and equal pay for it. That doesn't mean we have suddenly grown a ***** and want to be treated like one of the boys. Self defense is one thing, but to hit a woman like you would another man because you are angry is another thing entirely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,437 ✭✭✭Crucifix


    Well, I'm a pacifist, so I reckon it's just as wrong as hitting guys.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    If she's fat and/or ugly, then she deserves it, there are no excuses for this behaviour. I'd be too busy makin love to my ho to bother with that sort of thing anyway. And sure aren't the streets dangerous enough anyway without having ugly women goin around.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭Thorbar


    That's right Sinecure, sorry utility_ I'll try to be more accurate in future.

    If you need to punch or hit a woman for self-defence you aren't much of a man, after growing up with older sisters the only thing to do if they get violent is to just bear hug em till they calm down a bit. Anyway with all these bloody self defence classes around you'd probably get your arse handed to you.

    Also Pink Bunny I'm curious what 5 letter word did the filter cut out that describes the male member?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,363 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Originally posted by Pink Bunny
    First off, John that is so sweet! Your female friends are lucky to have a guy like you around.
    As far as the comments regarding equal rights should mean equal treatment with everything, I think you might be missing the point, gentleman. All most women want is the same chance as a man for a job and equal pay for it. That doesn't mean we have suddenly grown a ***** and want to be treated like one of the boys. Self defense is one thing, but to hit a woman like you would another man because you are angry is another thing entirely.

    You forget, plenty of women out there have gone past the point of wanting equality, they want superiority and tbh, in a lot of ways (including the issue of men not hitting women) they now have it. Women have become the dominant sex in society.

    When I was a kid I did Tae Kwon Do for a few years and the most vicious kicking I got in the whole time I was there was from a girl. Granted, she didn't win the fight, but neither did I, we both half killed each other. Aside from that one incident and hitting my sister as a kid (which was very rare, I prefer verbal sparring, I'm better at it :P) I've never struck a woman in anything other than a playful manner such as gently slapping a girlfriend on the arm/arse etc. That said, if some girl decides she wants a piece of me, I'll react. Probably not in the same way as I would with another guy, but at the very least she'll get thrown to the ground and warned to stay there.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by Sleepy
    but at the very least she'll get thrown to the ground and warned to stay there.

    that's the funniest thing I've read today!

    arf! arf!

    SIT BITCH!


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Originally posted by Pink Bunny
    First off, John that is so sweet! Your female friends are lucky to have a guy like you around.
    As far as the comments regarding equal rights should mean equal treatment with everything, I think you might be missing the point, gentleman. All most women want is the same chance as a man for a job and equal pay for it. That doesn't mean we have suddenly grown a ***** and want to be treated like one of the boys. Self defense is one thing, but to hit a woman like you would another man because you are angry is another thing entirely.

    Oh so you only want the NICE parts of the whole equal rights thing. O...k...



    and who said they would hit a woman as though they were a man(and who wasn't joking)?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,446 ✭✭✭bugler


    Originally posted by Pink Bunny
    As far as the comments regarding equal rights should mean equal treatment with everything, I think you might be missing the point, gentleman. All most women want is the same chance as a man for a job and equal pay for it. That doesn't mean we have suddenly grown a ***** and want to be treated like one of the boys.

    Ahaha, you skanky females have shown your true colours. You want equal pay and the vote, but when it comes to putting your dukes up and paying for the consequences of your actions you're quite happy to revert to the role of the weaker/fairer sex who shouldn't be touched. If you're quite happy to applaud guys for saying things like "Men were put here to protect females", then I hope you won't mind me telling you that we put here to earn the cash while you can produce the kids and raise them. And of course clean up and have my dinner on the table when I get home, all hungry from taking care of you. Listen here woman, are all humans equal or not? You can't go picking and choosing which bits of equality you'd like.

    You shouldn't hit anyone without good cause. I'd define good cause as self-defence, but I could see other circumstances in which I could feel so aggrieved that I might consider violence. Don't know if a woman could provoke me in this way though. It should be possible for men to overpower/subdue women who are attacking them, but if that wasn't possible I'd give that skank the beatdown she deserves.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 292 ✭✭Pink Bunny


    Also Pink Bunny I'm curious what 5 letter word did the filter cut out that describes the male member? [/B][/QUOTE]

    I wasn't sure if I could write the word penis here, so I added the **things myself. (I'm still new here and don't want to get myself in trouble, ya know) ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by Pink Bunny


    I wasn't sure if I could write the word penis here, so I added the **things myself. (I'm still new here and don't want to get myself in trouble, ya know) ;)

    Do penises scare you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭KlodaX


    sometimes someones physical ability is stronger than their mental ability... and someone may be throwing them alot of mental abuse .. and they they feel to be stronger they must resort to their physical abilities....

    but ... in my opinion ... that reflects on everything.. not only wemon ... wee men... :) ... it all boils down to.. would you hit someone weaker than you ... physically?

    I think the whole sterotype of a "real" man .. is that he wouldn't. Fair fight and all that.

    if you can't take on someone in a mental fight... like verbal abuse... you loose... don't beat them to a pulp. But then.. that doesn't sound right when I say it aloud.

    I've been hit by a man twice... never by a women... *I'm female*... the first hit me as a kid.. and has never lived it down... and has never hit me since...

    the second .. I provoked... but he was young and so was I ... and it was verbal abuse... I wasn't hurt and neither was he ... he hit like a pussy :p

    but just as a word of advise... alot of guys don't take kindly to hitting girls.. you may be hitting someone you could take in a fight ... but what of her friends and family?
    some scumbag girls know this .. and set you up


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    I'm all for equality and being nice to women, but if someone were to attack me, gender is irrelavent. I'll defend myself as much as I need to, and if that means punching a girl, so be it. That said, I'm very much a pacifist anyway, and my life would probably have to be in danger before I'd react with force to anyone, male or female.

    I do have quite the chivalrous streak, but it's tempered by common sense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by KlodaX

    but just as a word of advise... alot of guys don't take kindly to hitting girls.. you may be hitting someone you could take in a fight ... but what of her friends and family?
    some scumbag girls know this .. and set you up

    that is very true and happens all the time, if everyone did as I said, these ugly vermin would be eradicated soon and we could all live happily ever after.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 489 ✭✭Faust


    You've all been brainwashed by society. If you read any feminist literature you'd see all the **** they say about you guys! Some of those feminazis deserve a good smack i tells ya! Anyway if some skanger bitch came up to my g/f and started messing her up i'd give her a good wallop as she is not a lady but a trollop. I would'nt wallop anyone i would consider a lady. But i would'nt hit anyone male or female without good cause anyway ie. self/other defense really.


    The quesiton i pose is it okay to hit those weight lifting women!?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,892 ✭✭✭bizmark


    You've all been brainwashed by society. If you read any feminist literature you'd see all the **** they say about you guys!

    Yes they should all die and at some point they shall be destroyed

    iv seen some of that **** its the same as hitler and the jews ! men must be destroyed crap

    er k then ...i mean we only created the world as it is all the greatist people in the world where men and nearly all technology was created by us .....ah well what does that matter theis days eh :rolleyes:
    You've all been brainwashed by society.

    Its really really nice to see a girl say that at lest it shows theirs some still out their that havent turned on us


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    Good point actually - what would you do if a girl came up and hit your girlfriend a smack in the face?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,177 ✭✭✭oneweb


    Originally posted by Mutant_Fruit
    With all the calls for equal rights and no discrimination, isn;t it odd that we're all brought up to not hit girls. As kids we're all told "Don;t hit girls, its bad" or some such line.
    Equality in this case should be Don't hit girls OR boys, as opposed to it's ok to hit both. Essentially, it's etiquette. Having said that, if a girl hit me a wallop on purpose and in anger, I'd return the favour.

    It is what it's.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by Faust
    You've all been brainwashed by society. If you read any feminist literature you'd see all the **** they say about you guys! Some of those feminazis deserve a good smack i tells ya! Anyway if some skanger bitch came up to my g/f and started messing her up i'd give her a good wallop as she is not a lady but a trollop. I would'nt wallop anyone i would consider a lady. But i would'nt hit anyone male or female without good cause anyway ie. self/other defense really.


    The quesiton i pose is it okay to hit those weight lifting women!?

    If you read feminist literature, then you deserve a good hiding from a hairy Russian woman. Shame on you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 489 ✭✭Faust


    Originally posted by Tommy Vercetti
    If you read feminist literature, then you deserve a good hiding from a hairy Russian woman. Shame on you.
    read it in COLLEGE for english! I have an essay to do on a feminist interpretation of king lear *cries* It's so hard to read it!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by bizmark

    Its really really nice to see a girl say that at lest it shows theirs some still out their that havent turned us on
    :eek: :eek: :eek: they've beaten you!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭KlodaX


    Faust... don't mean to be personal .. but I'm curious.. are you female?

    if someone hit your girlfriend... is this person male or female ? ... and did your girlfriend provoke it?

    maybe she could/should stand up for herself.... otherwise its back to my point of girls having male relations or friends that would fight for her...

    do you really know who you are taking on in a fight?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 489 ✭✭Faust


    Originally posted by bizmark
    Yes they should all die and at some point they shall be destroyed

    iv seen some of that **** its the same as hitler and the jews ! men must be destroyed crap

    er k then ...i mean we only created the world as it is all the greatist people in the world where men and nearly all technology was created by us .....ah well what does that matter theis days eh :rolleyes:



    Its really really nice to see a girl say that at lest it shows theirs some still out their that havent turned on us
    Wait i'm not a girl did'nt you read the g/f bit unless you thought i was a lesbian, cool im a lesbian! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭Tommy Vercetti


    Originally posted by Faust
    read it in COLLEGE for english! I have an essay to do on a feminist interpretation of king lear *cries* It's so hard to read it!

    you're in cahoots with the brits too!!!

    BURN!


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