do you think that sex is overrated?

lili · 22-12-2003 12:58pm #1

true, frankly, look at the success of the sex threads! i'm sure for example that this thread will have more success than the thread i oppened in the book forum:p
is that the first preocupation of people or what?

Beruthiel · 22-12-2003 1:01pm

Originally posted by lili
is that the first preocupation of people or what?

in a word
yes

tis no biggie when you have it on tap
however
when you don't, it's the number one priority

ykt0di9url7bc3 · 22-12-2003 1:04pm

tis no biggie when you have it on tap
however
when you don't, it's the number one priority

When there is always biscuits in the tin, then where is the fun in biscuits...

sex overatted, personnally i dont think so but if the poor girl just likes playing dead then.....(you see where i'm going)

lili · 22-12-2003 1:05pm

Originally posted by Beruthiel
in a word
yes

tis no biggie when you have it on tap
however
when you don't, it's the number one priority

yes, seems so:D

lili · 22-12-2003 1:06pm

Originally posted by SearrarD
When there is always biscuits in the tin, then where is the fun in biscuits...

sex overatted, personnally i dont think so but if the poor girl just likes playing dead then.....(you see where i'm going)

hmm... me, i don't see where you're going

embee · 22-12-2003 1:08pm

It certainly isnt my first priority...... but at the same time its not over rated.

ykt0di9url7bc3 · 22-12-2003 1:10pm

sex usually involves 2 people, and if one person is just going thru the montions then its a problem, usually sex isnt great >> overrated....

disco?

ThreadKiller · 22-12-2003 1:11pm

Was talking about this at the Christmas party over the weekend...

The act of intercourse is really a poorly designed sperm delivery method. The penis is inserted as far as it can go into the vagina, there's some pelvic thrusts to get deeper, then as the ejaculate is (urm) ejaculated, there's a further thrust to get the sperm as far up the vagina/womb as possible to assist in it's delivery to the ovum.

Think about it like that there's not a whole lot that's "sexy" about it, but as someone else said, take it away & there's nothing more important...

][cEMAN** · 22-12-2003 1:25pm

Hmmm....not sexy. Are you doing it right? OK yeah if you consider it that way then I suppose to the same effect you could think......

When a person begins to feel sexual stimulous they can begin to have an excess flow of blood to their lips. This then tends to enflame them with a bright colour and is lead to attract the opposite sex.

....that statement is a bit cold and unsexy....but when you see a woman when this happens it is quite sexy in itself!

Also you might not think that the act of lurv making (TM) is sexy in it's function, but when you feel a body tremble in your arms as it spasms from delight then I think you'll find that you do find it a lot more pleasurable than a feckin BIOLOGY LESSON!! hehehe

Havelock · 22-12-2003 2:07pm

There are far better things than the intercourse part.
Intercourse is just considered the end all as it leads to male climax sterotypically, but it about the least fun for either sex. It can be deep adn meaningful, but there needs to be love. Lust is far better of in the fun departments, that lead up to intercourse tradionally.

Giblet · 22-12-2003 2:33pm

*cough* Virgin *cough*

monument · 22-12-2003 2:44pm

Originally posted by Havelock
There are far better things than the intercourse part.

You're not doing it right - or what Giblet said.

MrNuked · 22-12-2003 2:54pm

Like asking if food is overrated.
Depending on the ingredients and preparation it can be wonderful or pretty unpleasant, but you need it to survive properly. People who never have any go funny in the head.
In my opinion it isn't anything special without emotional involvement, but fantastic with strong emotional invovement.
To indulge myself further in my silly simile, the emotion is like the flavour of the dish. Or maybe it just tastes like chicken

Lafortezza · 22-12-2003 3:08pm

Originally posted by MrNuked
Like asking if food is overrated.
Depending on the ingredients and preparation it can be wonderful or pretty unpleasant, but you need it to survive properly. People who never have any go funny in the head.
In my opinion it isn't anything special without emotional involvement, but fantastic with strong emotional invovement.
To indulge myself further in my silly simile, the emotion is like the flavour of the dish. Or maybe it just tastes like chicken

sex should be chicken flavoured? damn...

simu · 22-12-2003 3:08pm

Sex is great when you can get some but it's not the only thing in life, either. It depresses me that many people let it take over their lives so much and I also hate the way sex is used more and more as a marketing tool.

MrNuked · 22-12-2003 3:15pm

Yes it's ****ed up that it's used as a marketing tool when it is/should be connected to strong emotion attachment.
Women end up being perceived as products by men, by women and by themselves. Men end up being measured by their wealth, by women by other men and by themselves.

][cEMAN** · 22-12-2003 3:17pm

Originally posted by Havelock
There are far better things than the intercourse part.

No he's right. It depends on your speciality and your fetish. There are other things you might find more enjoyable than actual intercoarse. Anyway, think lesbian love, and there is no intercoarse as such, or at least not naturally penetrative (OK yes I know there are so many ways to take this but you know what I mean). Also foreplay can for a lot of people be more enjoyable than the climax of penetrative intercourse.

Now this is all I will say on this matter as tbh i'm bored talking about sex. Can we move on to another subject? Though I believe it is 90% mental 10% physical I still think that it's best left for 90% mental between you and the person(s) you are with.

the Guru · 22-12-2003 3:24pm

Start doing it your self for a while and then you get some, after the local night club down a side alley tryng not to spill your kebab woo-hoo it aint over rated then.

But basically it really depends on your partner and weither or not they are up for some dirty ass spanking sex.

and if that is getting boring try something new like 2 swedish ladies thats always fun

Cake Fiend · 22-12-2003 4:32pm

Like money and air, sex is only important when you're not getting enough.

KlodaX · 26-12-2003 6:20pm

intitially I thought it was WAY overrated... but I think its like an addiction... the more you get.. the more you want... and the better it gets.

now I don't think its possible to overrate it.

skittishkitten · 26-12-2003 9:47pm

Sex is what you put into it . If your just doing it to please someone and/or find release, then it can be not so great or overrated . Personally I find sex extremely enjoyable. I have it "on tap" but I still never get tired or bored with it - and I never get enough. It doesn't have to be a long drawn out scenario , sometimes quickies are utterly delicious . It always surprises me to hear people say that sex is just Eh-Okay or just So-So . Maybe it is an addiction , if so , it's my drug of choice

and I'm not seeking to be cured

Sex overrated ---- No Way .

carbonkid · 26-12-2003 10:12pm

i like the way skittishkitten thinks.sex is over rated if ur not totally into it.
i find it also depends on what the other person likes or wants and if they match yours,and not been scared to ask for it.
ive had both crap and mind blowing sex...more so mind blowing:D

Paddy20 · 26-12-2003 10:32pm

do you think that sex is overrated?

No. How can something that you can not get enough of, be overrated ?.

P.:ninja:

cherrio · 26-12-2003 11:12pm

IMO it is overrated. When I was a virgin it was a top priorty, then when it happened it was nothing earth shattering or mind blowing etc... overrated.

But I agree with the others, the part of sex I enjoy the most is the emotional part and the knowing that I am pleasuring my partner, but thats not to say I don't pleasure her every chance I get;)

Sleepy · 27-12-2003 6:08pm

Sex over-rated, don't be daft. It's over-used in marketing everything from the S Club Juniors to Special K.

Face it, it's one thing we enjoy so much that's actually good for you! I've put on about a stone in weight since I broke up with my last girlfriend!

Kold · 27-12-2003 7:08pm

Originally posted by Sleepy
Sex over-rated, don't be daft. It's over-used in marketing everything from the S Club Juniors to Special K.

Lol Francine is hot! anyway....

I dunno really, I think one of the exciting parts is doing it with different people which is why relationships kinda suck when all you're in it for is the sex. But then again, when the sex is good, the relationship is good.

Sleepy · 27-12-2003 7:15pm

Not necessarily true. I've been in relationships where the sex was smoking but at the same time the relationship wasn't up to much...

Panda · 27-12-2003 11:42pm

In a word, No.

Actually its fuking brilliant. (pun intended)

There is a quote that i half agree with that i will share with you all now tho,

~"Theres nothing more over-rated than good sex and nothing more under-rated than a good sh!te."~

or at least thats the jism of it. i mean jist.....

i'll get me coat....

Kold · 28-12-2003 6:19pm

Originally posted by Panda
In a word, No.

Actually its fuking brilliant. (pun intended)

There is a quote that i half agree with that i will share with you all now tho,

~"Theres nothing more over-rated than good sex and nothing more under-rated than a good sh!te."~

So u agree about the sh!te thing? I thought you were saying sex wasn't overrated...

elexes · 28-12-2003 6:27pm

Originally posted by Kold
Lol Francine is hot! anyway....

I dunno really, I think one of the exciting parts is doing it with different people which is why relationships kinda suck when all you're in it for is the sex. But then again, when the sex is good, the relationship is good.

dono about that ive had crap relationships where the sex was brillent .

all depends what ur looking for and for what ur expecting .

kano476 · 28-12-2003 8:09pm

twas the first time all right, i thought it was a big let down. but it got mucho betta after that.

yossarin · 28-12-2003 8:22pm

it requires a bit of groundwork is all - you get out what you put in*

...there's some pelvic thrusts to get deeper...

apparently the thrusting is to create a vacum and remove any competing sperm so that your boys get first place. Biology is coldly efficient

* not literally

Panda · 28-12-2003 11:00pm

Originally posted by Panda
In a word, No.

Actually its fuking brilliant. (pun intended)

There is a quote that i half agree with that i will share with you all now tho,

~"Theres nothing more over-rated than good sex and nothing more under-rated than a good sh!te."~

or at least thats the jism of it. i mean jist.....

i'll get me coat....

Originally posted by Kold
So u agree about the sh!te thing? I thought you were saying sex wasn't overrated...

no mr kold i dont.
let me narrow it down for you.

now read this slowly.

Originally posted by Panda
There is a quote that i half agree with that i will share with you all now tho,

little more?
sure.

Originally posted by Panda
There is a quote that i half agree with

little more?
well your pushing it now but....

Originally posted by Panda
half agree with

gah!

do you think that sex is overrated?

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