have i been completely stupid?

LegacyUser

Okay, another advice thread...
I met this guy about 2 weeks ago at a grading. went to the bar with him afterwards and had one of these really long conversations that just usually doesnt happen with a guy you've just met. hit it off there and then. turns out hes in the same faculty as me in college but a year behind. Anyways, met up with him again last night after training, much alcohol was consumed and... well ya know the rest.
Met up with him again this morning and he was being so sweet. wanting to act all couply and all of that. arranged then to go to the bar after training today. waited bout 45mins for him and he never turned up. Now im wondering is this accidental on his part or have i been a complete and utter ****wit and been used... and i gotta see this guy in college every day now. arrgh.
What do you reckon?

Oriel

Jesus, I'd say give the guy a chance. Did he have your phone number?

xx

Originally posted by silly
Okay, another advice thread...
I met this guy about 2 weeks ago at a grading. went to the bar with him afterwards and had one of these really long conversations that just usually doesnt happen with a guy you've just met. hit it off there and then. turns out hes in the same faculty as me in college but a year behind. Anyways, met up with him again last night after training, much alcohol was consumed and... well ya know the rest.
Met up with him again this morning and he was being so sweet. wanting to act all couply and all of that. arranged then to go to the bar after training today. waited bout 45mins for him and he never turned up. Now im wondering is this accidental on his part or have i been a complete and utter ****wit and been used... and i gotta see this guy in college every day now. arrgh.
What do you reckon?

You don't go to Trinity and his names' not Shane, by any chance?

hedgetrimmer

Jumping to conclusions is always dangerous. He may have had an unavoidable reason for not meeting you, and may be feeling exactly the same pangs of doubt as to whether he should approach you or not. The only thing to do is make contact with him - at least you will know then, either way

Typedef

Clearly he's a psychopath.

I'd buy a gun... sit alone in my cold barren room... on a wodden chair... naked, babbeling incoherently to myself (maybe drooling.... whilst speaking to Jesus)..... waiting for 'the day'..... (if I was you).

Way I hear it.... 'tis armageddon.....

whosurpaddy

Originally posted by Typedef
Clearly he's a psychopath.

I'd buy a gun... sit alone in my cold barren room... on a wodden chair... naked, babbeling incoherently to myself (maybe drooling.... whilst speaking to Jesus)..... waiting for 'the day'..... (if I was you).

Way I hear it.... 'tis armageddon.....

funnniest post ive read here all week, but i cant say much cause the government are bugging my milk

Beruthiel

Originally posted by whosurpaddy
but i cant say much cause the government are bugging my milk

not to mention the fact that I'm watching you at all times...


anyways,
ms. silly, I wouldn't worry too much yet, why not just have a chat next time you see him and see how the land lies
if you get the cold shoulder, well, at least for next time, you have learned to find out which faculty the bloke is in before shagging him.

LegacyUser

Hey silly, don't worry about it.Any girl that hops in the sack as quick as you won't have any trouble finding another guy.

commuterised

wait until you see him at training and see how he reacts to you. He might have a valid reason for not turning up.

Mercury_Tilt

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uberwolf

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt


And change your posting style if you want to remain anon.

I don't get you...

Hobbes

You should find him and say "I am soo sorry about the other night. I wasn't able to make it and I tried to contact you".

See what he does. Always fun to mess with other peoples heads when they have been a tosser to you.

If he cared he would of made an attempt to talk to you.

Tell him you might be pregnant.. that's always good for a laugh.

logic1

Originally posted by Hobbes

Tell him you might be pregnant.. that's always good for a laugh.

Do you use that line often?

.logic.

Hobbes

Originally posted by logic1
Do you use that line often?

.logic.

I have something to tell you logic.. it might be yours.

The guy sounds like a twat, why not fuk with his head for being a dick? If he wanted to dump her there were a number of ways he could of done it which didn't require her standing around for 45 minutes ("I will call you" springs to mind).

smiaras

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ferdi

Originally posted by jack99
Hey silly, don't worry about it.Any girl that hops in the sack as quick as you won't have any trouble finding another guy.

i love it.

logic1

Originally posted by Hobbes
"I will call you" springs to mind.

Lol The Chandler Special.

.logic.

TinCool

Originally posted by smiaras
Welcome to dumpsville population you

PS. I am gay

Woden

Originally posted by jack99
Hey silly, don't worry about it.Any girl that hops in the sack as quick as you won't have any trouble finding another guy.

i also love it

Nuphor

Quoted for emphasis.

Originally posted by jack99
Hey silly, don't worry about it.Any girl that hops in the sack as quick as you won't have any trouble finding another guy.

I love it too.

DriftingRain

Seems you need to chat with him first and give him a chance to tell you why he didn't make it. But if he had your number and sisn't call to tell you he wasnt going to make it then you have been shafted!

Woden

Originally posted by DriftingRain
then you have been shafted!

literally

JohnnyBravo

I think you were being silly

logic

so silly, are you goin to tell us what happened since?

LegacyUser

Actually I am. i was talking to him again today, and he wasnt saying much bout what happened between us, just talking more like he did the first time i met him, really funny and easy to talk to. think there was something there though, i did catch him giving the eye a few times and he was talking bout meeting up at the bar tomorrow or wednesday. maybe all is not lost...

Hobbes

Stand him up if he does make a date.

Seriously, he doesn't give a toss except that your an easy lay.

If he cares he will actually bother to find out where you are. He didn't the first time, so I doubt he will the second time unless he actually bothered his ass to show up and there is nothing on TV.

GuanYin

I agree.

If he stood you up and has made no effort to mention the incident then he just sees you as an option for sex.

Your call but I'd go for an option that includes dignity.

Hobbes

Screw dignity!!

Invite him to an expensive resturant. Tell him you won the lotto or something. Get a great meal then mention your going to the toilet and leave the place.

Of course ensure that you don't accidently trap yourself by leaving your jacket in his car or at the table.

Then act like nothing happened the following day.

Amz

Originally posted by Hobbes
Screw dignity!!

Have you got dignity's number?