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Quick Thought....

  • 17-09-2003 9:56pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8


    "How can someone move foward when they´ve lost the only thing in the world that they can´t live without....."


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,567 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    if you rephrase it to read..

    when they´ve lost the only thing in the world that they feel at this point in time that they can´t live without....."

    It's a little easier to understand - perceptions change, people change. - Just as you can't step into the same river twice, your exact feelings and memories change..
    Since 50% of marriges end in Divorce (UK/US) and a lot less than 50% of divorcees comit suicide one has to assume that most people are able to get over something that they thought they could not live without.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Originally posted by hurleymike54
    "How can someone move foward when they´ve lost the only thing in the world that they can´t live without....."

    hurley - more information would be good
    as you haven’t commented on what it is that you cannot live without, then I will go on the premise that it’s a woman/man

    So, this feeling you have right now is really intense; from experience I can tell you that this will last from anything up to six months and by then you’ll wonder how you felt so bad. Find stuff to distract yourself till then and get yourself back out into the social scene as soon as you feel you're able. Boards beer pissups are a good way to have fun.
    You will be fine!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,414 ✭✭✭✭Trojan


    Originally posted by hurleymike54
    "How can someone move foward when they´ve lost the only thing in the world that they can´t live without....."

    Nothing that exists is permanent. Time beats all.

    Don't look back with regret for what's gone, but cherish the times you had and look forward to when you will have them again.

    Al.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭hedgetrimmer


    Originally posted by hurleymike54
    "How can someone move foward when they´ve lost the only thing in the world that they can´t live without....."

    In my opinion, this is the meat of life and working through sucj things, while difficult, can often lead to the development of the individual into a more aware, stronger, and more emotionally balanced person.

    The quick anwer would be "becuase the alternative is unthinkable". Especially if that thing that is lost would want you to go on, develop and live with the loving memory of the time spent with it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    put one foot in front of the other and move on


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