breaking the girl

LegacyUser

I've been having sex with my girlfriend for a few months now
and it still hurts her when I put it in. She gets used to it
after a minute and enjoys the sex, but it is usually
quite a while before we can do it again because her
vagina is so tender. She says it's not the length but
the girth* that does it.

Anyone got any suggestions on how I can stop or minimise
hurting her?


* I'm about one or one and a half inches bigger in circumfrence
than average and she is fairly petite.

Mercury_Tilt

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gonker

A womans vagina can expand to accomodate a babys head. Doubt if yours is as wide as that:) As Mercury_Tilt said get some lubricant you can even get ky in tesco now .
Or it could be vaginisimus think thats how you spell it.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/sex/qa/vagina_muscle_spasm.shtml
or http://www.angelfire.com/ca3/Annabelle/sjul9914.html
for information

DMT

Originally posted by bigwillie
She says it's not the length but
the girth* that does it.

.::Troll::.

s0l

Originally posted by gonker
A womans vagina can expand to accomodate a babys head. Doubt if yours is as wide as that:)

That or he's kiddy fiddling.....

Jak

She says it's not the length but the girth

Hmm quite a tricky situation..

I'd say your best bet is

A) Ditch her - date a farm animal

Stop using your leg to pleasure her.

Hope this helps!

JAK.

Nevyn

Originally posted by gonker
A womans vagina can expand to accomodate a babys head.

yes it does and it is called labour and is flaming painfull.

if she is having that much diffculty you may need to work up to it more , it will take her muslces time to adjust, get one or two
dildos that are not as wide , and get her to do the vaginal wall excerises as it will give her more control.

and working her up into a frenzy before hand will help.

Good luck

Kambika

and working her up into a frenzy before hand will help.

/agree

skittishkitten

Originally posted by gonker
A womans vagina can expand to accomodate a babys head.

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Originally posted by Thaed
yes it does and it is called labour and is flaming painfull.

Not only that it's not unusually for the vagina to be torn by the birthing process (or cut by a doctor ) to help accomidate the baby which requires stitching afterwards .


I agree, tease her until she's screaming with need & invest in a couple vibrators/dildo's . Also let her ride on top , that way she can control the amount of penetration and speed in which you progress . This might drive you near to insane , but the rewards can be just as sweet

Sleepy

You did remember to try some foreplay didn't you?

(and btw, 5 mins does not count as foreplay)

catspring

agree with most of the other posts in that i'd imagine that you just need to touch up (no pun intended, well...maybe just a little) on the foreplay. and lube is a great idea too.
if that's doesn't help i'd advise getting it checked out by a doctor though, just in case.

Saruman

Almost 24 hours later and still no response.. its a troll

Mercury_Tilt

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skittishkitten

Originally posted by Mercury_Tilt
The poster never mentioned having trouble entering his missus. Just that it hurt her due to his size. I would suggest that no matter how wet a girl is if you try and shove any thing larger into her that has been there before… it will hurt initially. Try sticking your fist in you respective partner next time you have made her “dripping” wet and see if it don’t “hurt” her some what. This obviously does not apply to those who partake in fisting as a regular sexual practise……

Again o’ original poster… loads of lube and plenty of patience and she will get there eventually...

Wisely said .....but a word of warning ..... if you do decide to try this with your partner be prepared to find you teeth kicked down your throat ! Internal bruising is no fun , IT HURTS , alot of times its not even noticed until hours afterwards but it can linger for days. Believe me ..... been there , done that ..... wasn't alot of fun ( afterwards ) .

The key word in all of this is "Patience" .... it will get there

po0k

Originally posted by skittishkitten ..... been there , done that ..... wasn't alot of fun ( afterwards ) . [/B]

what, fisting or bruising?






Use your finger(s) and tongue.

sci0x

Originally posted by Saruman
Almost 24 hours later and still no response.. its a troll

He might have come bk and looked at the advice but didnt bother responding.

skittishkitten

Originally posted by SyxPak
what, fisting or bruising?

Bruising I can be a bit aggressive at times .... *sigh*

Use my fingers or tongue ?? .....now if I could reach myself with my tongue ..... interesting thought

Besides we were talking about putting in larger than usual male parts..... stretching areas that aren't use to those larger sizes .... fingers and tongues just fail to compare

fisting is just NOT done ..... not to me , THAT would get your teeth kicked in for even THINKING it

milltown

Originally posted by denis_o_leary
He might have come bk and looked at the advice but didnt bother responding.

I presume you use the term "advice" loosely (no pun intended) Denis?

Bigwillie, you could always feed her a vindaloo and try it up the Gary Glitter.

tman

lol, if it hurts when you put it in that end, i'd hate to hear the screams when you shove it up her rusty sherrifs badge:eek:

Nevyn

Originally posted by skittishkitten
Bruising I can be a bit aggressive at times .... *sigh*

but bruising can be a nice reminder if it not tooo painful.

Originally posted by skittishkitten
Besides we were talking about putting in larger than usual male parts.....

esp if it is a reminder of a not so usual male

Trojan

I recommend talking to Gordon on the quiet - he might have some good ideas (and some KY) for ya!

Al.

Gordon

pah! (if you're thinking about what I think you are Al - I didn't use KY actually)
heh

Original poster - I concur with the foreplay sentiments expressed earlier. Work your way slowly up to penetration by working your way slowly up her legs for example.

Typedef

Ok... tell the world please.....



KY?

Gordon

KY = Lubricant of the jelly variety.

Typedef

mmm - gravy

or in the case of the original poster

KY

- rar!