No, not a joke (I think). I bought a book by Mantak Chia ages ago that promised to unlock the secrets of male multiple orgasm. (This doesn't mean multiple ejaculation, it's all about separating the orgasmic feeling from ejaculation itself, thus allowing the man to experience several orgasms in a session.)
Anyway, I'm a lazy b'std so I stopped bothering with the whole thing shortly afterwards, but not before I persuaded myself that there might just be something to it. Now that we're in a recession and most entertainment is to be found at home, I'm wondering if I should start doing the exercises again. So basically my question is:
Is there anybody out there whose ever managed to perfect the technique? Does it work?? Do you now feel like a god amongst men???
Just noticed, this reads like a shill post. It's not.
I've used probably the same techniques as whats in that book (haven't read it) for some time. Its worth the effort.
Not for another 15 mins, dear.
Ill get my coat.
I heard of some Tibetan monks who mastered orgasm's without ejaculating meaning they don't lose their drive
Yeah, this is the same thing.
Part of what put me off the book is the constant talk of spirituality and chi and all that guff. Just give the techniques, dammit!
A quickstart guide is basically:
Ejaculation and orgasm are seperate processes which happen at the same time in males and with a bit of practice you can seperate the two ie orgasm without ejaculating and ejaculating without orgasm. Theres two phases to a normal orgasm the emmission stage when sperm and semen are released then the contraction phase, the contractions are what gives the feeling of orgasm and pump out the goo so to speak.
A bit of alone time practice is needed but to get it simply:
0:google "kegels" and get used to working and squeezing those muscles for a long hold.
1: when approaching orgasm keep breathing deep not shallow like you normally would, real deep belly breaths nice and slow.
2:when you approach orgasm squeeze the kegel muscles as hard as possible and try let the contractions of the penis happen, its one of these rub your stomach and pat your head sort things
Best practice is to just try get your self as close as possible but then stop and see if you can feel the different stages happen.
Its a myth that ejaculating makes you lose your drive or decreases testosterone. It does the opposite.
Is there any physical danger with this? Thought I read somewhere that you still ejaculate but the sperm/semen goes into the urinary system. Might be utter bollocks but as orgasm causes ejaculation surely some seminal fluiods are released
Technically that is eactly what it is.
Ebbs get my coat too while you're up.
There's no danger of this if you do it right as you're stopping the emmission of semen and sperm into the urethra. There is a thing called retrograde ejaculation where you phsyically stop the ejaculate leaving and this can be dangerous its speculated as it can open the valve at the bladder. its easy to distingush between the two, when you pee after sex if its a retrograde one you'll have foamy piss and if its been done properly you'll have normal.
sounds sore, tbh. Lasting longer makes sense. This bs - not so much.
It is pretty much lasting longer but with the added bonus of more orgasms, win to me tbh
Reminds me of a joke I heard once.
A woman boarded a 747 for a flight from New York to London.
She was directed to her seat by the stewardess, smiled at the pleasant looking man sitting in the window seat as she sat down and buckled up.
The plane took off and reached its cruising altitude before she unbuckled her belt leaned back and closed her eyes hoping to catch a few hours sleep.
However she woke with a start when she heard a sneeze followed by loud groaning.
She opened her eyes in a flash and stared in open mouthed horror to find the man beside her had taken out his erect penis and was wiping it clean with his hanker-chief.
'What are you doing!' she gasped.
'Sorry madam, I have a rare medical condition. Whenever I sneeze I ejaculate.'
She flushed with embarrassment.
'Oh I'm terribly sorry. I apologize. I thought you were some kind of pervert or something.'
'That's quite alright madam. It happens all the time.'
She thought for a moment.
'Have you seen a doctor? Sure there is something you can take?'