My girlfriend and I, both early 20's, are interested in having a threesome with another girl of a similar age. Thing is neither of us have a clue of where to begin. We're not really keen on the internet thing rather go out and meet someone nice, enjoy a few drinks with them etc. the thrill of the chase so to speak.
Can anyone tell me of any good places in Dublin where it might be easier to find a willing person. Some good nightclubs etc. where we wouldn't have to feel too self conscious about chatting up a girl or places that have a relaxed attitude to that type of scene.
We are totally new to all of this so any tips or advise would be great.
Also we have discussed the implications of a threesome and we are both mature enough to be sensible about this so please no preaching.
The crowd at Copper Face Jacks on Harcourt Street should have enough of an open mind to an idea like that.
If you are not opposed to paying for it, then hiring an escort might be an option as well. Typing the words "escort" and "ireland" into Google should get you started. An escort recently told me that her fantasy is having a threesome and that if I bring along my girlfriend she would join us for free.
Another option might be adultfriendfinder.com.
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Sorry i don't have a clue where to find your desired female friend.
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Good shout with Copper Face Jacks. It really is a meat market full of, eh, loose women shall we say.
Just one word of advice. Have a good hard think about picking someone up for this kind of thing. I hate to sound overly preachy but have think about this one.
If you pick up someone in a bar that is willing to sleep with you and your girlfriend that very night think about this.
What random stranger did they jump into the sack with the night before and the night before that.
And who were those randoms strangers sleeping with the night before that and the week before.
I could go on but you get the idea
STI's are spiralling out of control for reasons such as this. Everyone thinks wearing a condom is enough. However, they never think about wearing a dental dam when performing oral sex on a woman. You're going to come in contact with vaginal fluid if you do that and you can pick up and infection just as easy in that case.
Its a nice fantasy to pick up someone for a threesome but be sure never to compromise you or your partners sexual health.
Thanks for the advice yeah I was thinking coppers myself have heard many stories lol but just thought people might know some unofficial places where people with similar ideas might frequent.
As regards the escort.... we want to find a girl who is actually interested in doing it rather than just because she's getting paid but thanks for that. I also appreciate the comment about the STI's fair point. Will make sure to take the necessary extra precautions.
Have also heard of a place called the Front Lounge anyone know anything about that?
Thanks for the input so far.
the front lounge is mainly an LGBTQ bar. I'm not sure what kind of reception you'd get there. try asking in the LGBTQ forum maybe?
I really think internet is your best bet. lots of adds on gaire
The Internet is the way to go. You're inviting a stranger into your bed for an act that could possibly affect your future relationship with your gf.
You need to know they're clean, sane, discreet, responsible, and that they understand the ground rules that you've set between you and your gf.
Picking up some drunken girl in a bar is a recipe for disaster tbh.
The Front Lounge is a gay bar. Knowing a few girls who frequent there I don't think they'd be happy being propositioned in one of the few bars that are gay friendly. Being a lesbian doesnt equate to loose sexual 'morals' or being so desperate you have to hump every girl you see.
Copper Face Jacks also is a woeful suggestion. It is full of good 'catholic' types from the country,I cant imagine anyone there saying yes to a threesome.
I would try personal adverts in Hot press, hotornot.com or some other type of online site If I were you.
Good point about the gay bar I certainly didn't just assume that lesbians would be up for it (but in fairness my girlfriend is gorgeous so they may make an exception )
I didn't know Front Lounge was a Gay bar so will be staying clear from there!
It does appear that the net is my only option unfortunately but it makes sense. I thought going out and chatting up a girl would be fun but looking at the downsides to this....
Boards to the rescue again!
Thanks lads and lassies
Um, why are we talking about loose sexual morals? Having a threesome makes you neither desperate nor morally loose.
No I know it doesnt, I think if both partys are are up for it then theres nothing wrong with it. I appreciate my post did come across like that but what I meant was asking strangers in gay bars for threesomes does sound a bit 'tacky', especially considering there is a heterosexual cople involved.
The minute someone mentions heterosexual couples having threeesomes the idea of gays bars is touted.Just because someone may be bi or gay doesnt mean they want to have sex with a straight couple.From what I hear from my gay friends it seems a pretty common thing for them to be propostioned for threesomes in bars which are gay friendly. Its not really fair to the gay community tbh,Id be pretty pissed of if someone was propositoning me for threesomes all the time when its not something I would personally be in to.
You could try dublin swinging clubs or something like that, though they might be more oriented to straight up swapping.
Are you joking me or what! Coppers on a weekend is full of ladies (and lads too but its not a lad they are after) who are good to go. Not saying they are all good to go for a threesome but its certainly got some of the best prospects of anywhere I can think of. Put it this way, even for a less than spectacular looking lad or lady, it would be nigh on impossible not to pick someone up in there if you wanted to. It is an out and out meat market.
A swingers website sounds the way to go IMO. I'd say its a lot safer and cleaner than picking someone up anyway. I'd say people who engage in that kind of lifestyle 'seriously' (if thats the right word) take far more care with their sexual health than the average drunken punter in a pub at the weekend
i would avoid randomly picking up a stranger as has been pointed out, if they are willing to do it the first time they meet you in a club or whatever then you have to wonder who else they have been with every other night of the week
google a few swingers websites in ireland, should help you out
and in the meantime