Banned. It's not like there isn't enough warnings about the place.
Well I was trying to put the OP at ease, I don't regularly do it, but from time to time, when the mood strikes I look at it. I never said anything about normal or abnormal, I was simply stating that fact that it's not uncommon for straight guys to watch gay porn. As has been stated before sexuality isn't black or white, it's mixed.
From my point of view, I don't look at footballers and think oh he's cute, nor can I tell if a guy is attractive. But I do feel that way about women. Its simply the sexual act that turns me on. Its just a fantasy and it's harmless.
Just as an FYI, this whole idea of grouped sexuality is only been around since the early 20th century, Shakespeare was bisexual, as were many other famous figure. Greek and Roman solderers we notorious for sleeping around with each other. And as for Liam and all the other guys on this forum, if all the women in the world were to disappear tomorrow you would all be humping each other within a year, and there are plenty of studies and case's in point that prove that.
My advice still stands, don't go accusing him of being gay unless he actual goes and sleeps with a man.
your experiences are not regular or typical of most straight men IMO , never once has the mood struck me to go and watch gay porn , in fact , ive never in my life deliberatley looked it up beit online or other , i have no problem with gay people whatsoever ( have a gay cousin who i get on great with ) but i couldnt bring myself to ever watch two men engage in a sexual act , i imagine my views are that of the overwhelming majority of straight men , fine if you like to occasionally check gay porn out but i think you are in a tiny minority who do this
I never said I was in a majority. I was just explaining to the OP that there are some cases.
and btw, it tends to be married men who are on most of those ns sites, so what does that say about your theory? Mainly people go on there to just look up alternatives, a fantasy. Sometimes men are attracted to the physical side or gay sex but not necessarily attracted to men.
I look at it too occasionally and I'm straight - it would always be in a group/threesome so there'd always be a woman involved.
Sometimes it's just to look at something completely different if I'm bored of straight porn or more so, just something more kinky.
I've never been with a man or have any desire to be.
I don't know what goes on in other guys heads, nor do I care.
Just cos I look at it, doesn't mean that I gay.
[quote="kjlIf all the guys on here want to say they have never had a homoerotic fantasy then they are just lying to themselves.[/quote"]
I don't think its counts as gay porn if the men aren't interacting with one another.
If you have gay friends and he feels uncomfortable, maybe he is trying to overcome this by looking at gay porn to see what goes on etc To get things clear in his mind, accept it more and then be less uncomfortable with these people. Sometimes its the not knowing that can be more scary and intimidating.
Men and women look at porn, both straight and gay porn and there is no gender that does or doesnt do either of them 100% despite what some posters think.
OP is this an issue for you (you are being turned off him, you doubt him etc etc) or are you just trying to suss out why someone would look at gay porn?
I don't look at gay porn and I avoid heterosexual anal porn also as it turns me off rather than on - but that's just my personal preference. Each to their own.
Curiosity can lead to looking at anything on the internet but repeated viewing indicates some sort of fascination IMO. It's a delicate subject but you need to find some way to raise it with your partner. You could ask how he feels about threesomes, and then maybe push it on from there?
whats small minded about not wanting your other half watching other people having sex? would it be small minded to be opposed to your oh standing there in the room watching it as opposed to behind a screen?
I'm male, and straight. And would never even want to look up gay porn to be honest. I think you need to talk to your OH and find out whats going on.
This is something I quite like, though I will stress I'd have to be the giver rather than the receiver. I'll also say that should a man want to be on the receiving end of heterosexual anal sex, I dont feel this displays any signs of homosexual tendency either. It certainly wouldn't be for me, though.
OP, have you taken on board any of the advice in this thread and spoken with your OH? I'm very curious to learn what his reaction either was or will be.
I'm female, and I don't know any other women who look at lesbian porn. Its come up in chat a few times and the average response is "yeugh thats disgusting", "not at all interesting" or "I'd pretend to like it to get male attention".
I think this is a male fantasy.
As for a guy looking at gay male porn, I'd definatley say he was curious. You can't tell anything else from the situation, but I think its quite a big deal in a relationship, so I'd ask him outright about it.