Was on a 4th date tonight with a guy i a met a few weeks ago.He's really keen and talking about date no.5...but for me theres just no chemistry. He has so many things i normally look for in a guy: tall,kind,loves animals,ambitious,great dancer....but just not attractive.(i know shoot me) but at the end of the day there has to be attraction.
Im dreading the text/call to say there wont be a another date,but for me if theres no chemistry, theres just no relationship. I feel so bad as if you described this guy on paper he sounds perfect.I feel like a superficial cow right now!
So, how important are the so called "butterflies" to you?How long does it normally take you to make your mind up about a guy you're dating? I know im being too picky and no guy "ticks all boxes" but would you/have you dated someone that personality wise has most of what you're looking for...but looks wise doesnt?