For as long as i can remember, i have always found it hard telling people how much they have annoyed me, pissed me off, made me unhappy. I think it may be fear of making an awkward atmosphere. I would normally just keep quite, no matter what.
Most things, i can just get over it, as in its really minor and there is no point in making a fuss.
Why am i like this? I lived with someone last year that really annoyed me on a daily basis. She was too nosy and mothery. Eventually i told her she wasn't my mother. Because i was always a walkover, she saw this as being biitchy, then has a go at me. Anyway that was last year and got away from that. The reason i mention this is because this was probably the first situation that it just went on and on. Probably because i couldn't get away as i lived there.
There is a situation now and i hate bringing it up but it really is unfair. I am sharing a house with very nice people. However, over the past few weeks one of them has been skyping someone. But the skyping goes on and on for hours at a time. It can be two or three hours at a time. And a few times a day, including night time which can go past midnight.
None of my business but I can hear everything. The volume is up high on his computer too so i can hear them both. It doesn't matter where in the house, you can hear everything. Just this morning, it went on for four and a half hours. As i say, its been going on for weeks. I was so pissed off when he started this morning, that i hoovered the whole house. He didn't get the hint.
Ok, a solution is too get out of the house and i have tried. But i can come back again, and it will start again anyway. Where can i go, on a two hour walk?
What do i do or say to him? I have to say something as it wont stop.