YOU should simply say, in a nice way ,i,d prefer if your boyfriend stayed once a month.its compromising my privacy or living space,i,m sure
he,s nice but staying every week, is absolutely ,out of the question.
i decided to rent to 2 tenants not 3.i have no wish to offend you or your
partner ,but i feel its not fair,
ie its like i have an extra tenant on weekends ,who pays no rent.
IF they are working at some point they can rent out a larger flat and move in together.
MY friend has 2 female tenants age 20-24,he makes it clear ,a boyfriend might stay
one night ,now and again,no subletting,
a boyfriend might stay 2nights, if The landlord is NOT There,or gone away on holidays.
Theres no complaints,or awkwardness ,as the rules are discussed in the interview ,before the tenant moves in.
So 85 PER cent of the time theres ,just 2 tenants ,landlord
Landlord lives on ground floor extension,2tenants upstairs.
The problem is yer man comes over next week,
before you know it ,he,ll be there 3 days a week.
You have to be nice,diplomatic but firm,
maybe say he can stay,3days a month ,thats it.
Some people take advantage,or he may not know ,hes causing
you stress ,or annoyance.
Last edited by riclad; 30-05-2012 at 21:24.