) anyways, have any of ye in the same boat managed to keep up with your hobby?
cheers
| 28-10-2010, 11:01 | #1 |
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gaming after the arrival of your first child
we are due our first progeny in december and as a lover of my wii, 360 and ps3 I have been told by many that this will be the end of my 'childhood' (tskk
) anyways, have any of ye in the same boat managed to keep up with your hobby? cheers |
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| 28-10-2010, 11:22 | #3 |
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Like everything else in life your gaming has to simply adjust itself to your new found responsibilities. But you have the added bonus that in a few years you'll be able to write off games bought as 'presents' for the nipper
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| 28-10-2010, 11:27 | #4 |
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Well Id imagine the common story for gamer parents is that you can keep it up, but the amount of time you can devote to it will be severely affected. Not because you feel you have to slacken off on it, but because there simply wont be much time for anything else!
Speaking as someone with no commitments of any kind in this department, all i can say is ................Ha Ha! ![]() I friend of mine who is a big gamer knows all about it though. Now whenever I meet him and tell him about the latest and greatest games Im playing, he looks at me with a mixture of sadness and jealously! |
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| 28-10-2010, 11:44 | #6 |
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I think I actually gamed a bit more when our lot were born.
I used to play 1942/Desert combat/BF2 online and used to wait up until the 2.00 am / 3.00am feed and just keep playing till that was due. So do yourself a favour and "volunteer" to do that feed and you wont miss out too much ![]()
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| 28-10-2010, 11:48 | #7 |
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In my experience (10 month old wrecking the house now) you get less time but you enjoy what you get even more.
The first couple of months I didn't touch a game but once the sleeping pattern settles down you'll be flying. The house is our own again after 7.30 so that's when you can fire ahead. |
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| 28-10-2010, 12:35 | #8 |
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Keep gaming and let the girlfriend/wife take care of the baby. That's what they're there for silly.
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| 28-10-2010, 13:23 | #11 |
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When we had our first child I barely had time to play any more. I was wrecked tired from working 12 hours shifts and night feeding. It was only after about 4 years I got back into gaming. With her starting school I could put her to bed at 8 and have the rest of the night to play. One good thing was after 4 years I picked up a lot of good games cheap. Try and keep your consoles, I just sold mine as I was told the same thing by my gf, that games are for children and foolishly listened:-(
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| 28-10-2010, 14:18 | #13 |
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we had our baby last november our first....
i play daddy during the day and evening and i OWN THE SITTING ROOM BETWEEN 10 AND 1 AT NIGHT LOL.. i dont game less in fact i game more as dont go to the pub at all now so say goodbye to drink and hello to gaming my friend.... |
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| 28-10-2010, 14:21 | #14 |
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| 28-10-2010, 14:27 | #15 |
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My father didn't give up watching Telly when I was born, and his father didn't stop listening to the wireless when he was born. I doubt my child will stop using the VR Simulator whenever his / her child is born in a few decades.
Anybody who says in this day and age that gaming is for children needs to stfu and be reminded that the average age of gamers today is 30-something. It's a perfectly legitimate past time and should not be affected by the arrival of a child more than any other past time. That's obviously not to say that it won't be affected - because everything will, but it shouldn't be singled out as "childish" because thats simply not true. |
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