posting in the hope there might be somebody out there who can offer advice on this issue for me. have posted before but not for anything like this.
been with bf for 5 years, hoping to get married, saving like mad and future looking fairly rosy despite the economic situation. He has a good job and is qualified in an area not really too affected by the recession and managed to hold onto a good wage without any cuts etc. So much so, I managed to leave my job as a purchasing manager and go back to college to study in an area I was always passionate about and this year finished my studies and was lucky enough to walk into an even better job than I had which is obviously fantastic. We have the life, 2 nice cars, nice home, holidays, weekends away etc.
now, to my issue, on a recent weekend away we'd been and had a lovely meal in a posh restaurant, headed back to hotel for a nightcap, probably a bit tipsy but looking forward to retiring to the room as we'd been working hard and hadn't seen each other much the previous week. When we were in bed, my bf was performing a sex act on me (not sure how much I'm allowed to post without it showing up as **** so i hope you get the message). Anyway, during this, he put his tongue in my botty, quite deep. I was very shocked but didn't react. he seemed to get very excited about this and continued to do so until i subtley managed to maneouvre a different position. He's never done anything like this before and is something I associate with gay men. Do you guys think he's gay? I was embarrassed to address it with him but when the act was over, but was aware of a lingering and not very attractive smell.
I'm trying not to think about it, but realise i need to get some answers. Anybody any thoughts/experiences or advice to offer to me??
thanks in advance.