Originally Posted by cherrypicker555
Problem is when it comes to sex Ireland is still v inhibited, yet to see an Irish girl in a porn film, there are no legal swingers clubs and escorts go to jail.
Still its getting better.
There needs to be more porn and more swingers and NO escorts. As for escorts here, they are completely ignored compared to the sweeps done in the US, are you kidding?
I stopped using Adult Friendfinder when I moved here because in Ireland it's used as a hooker site, not a site for enlightened, open-minded sexually liberated people to meet and start relationships. Nope. Does not exist here. And I learned fast that I was getting treated like sh!t by Irish when I met up at the pub and got nothing but 'so when are we going back to your gaff' ad infinitum, delivered with zero smoothness or charisma, so I quit. No sexual liberation here, apparently, unless you try with a personal ad and end up bowled over by five hundred desperate guys who want a shag-n-dump. Ew, no thank you. Pass.
There are more equal listings in the US with a ratio of about 4 male to 1 female, almost all of which are put down as either 'single' or 'couple' but almost never a single partner listed as 'married'. The Irish AFF listings were instead the precise opposite: men outnumber women's listings 16 to 1, (133,000 to 7,000) more than half of them are single men listing themselves as 'married', and instead of being open-minded as more Americans are wont to do, they all want strictly 'no-strings'. In essence, it's a johns database for every hooker and cathouse in Ireland to spam men for business, and they do just that- even with weekly specials added in. And Revenue just ignooooores awaaaaay. That doesn't happen in our country, we're moral people!
If Ireland were less sexually inhibited like America, using an escort would be something that a man found shameful and embarrassing because he obviously wouldn't have the charisma to get any pu$$y without paying for it. It mystifies me how Irish men brag about using escorts to their mates, I've heard it!
It's freaky-deeky, especially since in my attempts to date here which ended at his refusal to wear a condom, a lot of Irish men are averse to condoms since they can irritate the foreskin. It takes just one cream pie with just one angry trafficked Lithuanian hooker who is being beaten up on one end and used on the other, and heypresto, HIV for everyone, unregulated and ignored and undetected for years until it's been spread to god knows how many clueless punters and their more clueless obedient Catholic wives who, in about 10 years, will be begging family GPs all over the country to put down the official diagnosis as leukaemia. Just wait till the actual scope of the effect of HIV on this country is really felt in a decade- it can take that long for it to even show up in someone's bloodstream.
There's a sticky here on the subject...from 2003. I'm not sure if people can comprehend the danger of HIV mixed in with an uninformed, inhibited population of people who can't communicate about sex.
I would venture to say that if anything, Ireland is WAY more dangerous and potentially disastrous re HIV given the trafficked women, the ignorance and attitudes which are still present.
So yes, if anything, Ireland needs MORE blowjobs, but more condoms as well just in case she doesn't like giving them.