Originally Posted by Custard Cream
Morning everyone. We had our 12 week scan on Monday and unfortunatly a heartbeat could not be found. I can't really write anymore about it as I'll just start crying again. I just wanted to ask some of the girls who have been in the same situation when their period came back? The doc said it could be 5-6 weeks? Also my lower back is killing me. Is that normal? My husband says it's probably stress as well as the D&C.
I may not post on TTC for a few weeks but as always I'll follow all your stories and keep you all in my prayers. Wishing you all the very best of luck this month.
Custard, I am so sorry to hear your news. My sincere condolences to you and your husband on your loss.
I got sad news this morning too - one of my little twins stopped growing at 8 weeks, The little one I was worried about. I know I should be happy that I still have one very healthy baby, and I am, but today I need to grieve for my little one that was only with us for a short while. My emotions are all mixed up - The nurse pointed out the twin that was moving around - the head, the arms, the feet, and I was so proud, yet at the same time my heart was breaking because the other little one was so still, and small.
I had to pull a sickie after our early morning scan. If I had to listen to my supervisor flap on about a dumb spreadsheet or report today, I might have cheerfully killed her. My partner is in bits, I have never seen him cry before, but today he is so upset. Which sets me off. Today I have cried so much for my little fragile child that was too delicate for this world.