Originally Posted by Ickle Magoo
Tell her how you feel - tell her how one sided things are & bring up the expamples you've told us...if she laughs or is sarcastic then she clearly doesn't care enough to work at making you happier & her contribution to the relationship fairer...best of luck
Her trouble, or mine really, is that she's the most stubborn person I've ever met after myself. So if she's 100% completely and utterly in the wrong she will hang herself before admitting so. Which is where comments like "oh it's cause I don't care" come from; meaning "that's what you're hinting at so I'll say it in a sarcastic voice clearly meaning I do care and you're only complaining" - said because it's the only response she can give without givng me a straight answer.