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  • 23-11-2014 7:08pm
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    ceecee14
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 215 ✭✭


    So I'm with my partner nearly 8 years we have a 9 week old baby and also had a miscarriage last June, we tried desperately for our baby.
    I'm just after finding out that he cheated on me a week after we found out I was pregnant with a girl that lived a few doors down from us, well he got this girl pregnant aswell and never told me so now he has 2 newborn babies..
    I want to make things work for the sake of our child but I don't know if I can get over the lies, the cheating and sneakieness of keeping it from for nearly a year...
    I suppose I just want to know what everyone would do in my situation, I'm so hurt, angry and so dissapointed :(


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    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    I wouldn't be able to get over his betrayal. He can have a relationship with your child and that doesn't mean you need to be in a Romantic relationship with him.


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    ceecee14
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 215 ✭✭ceecee14


    CaraMay wrote: »
    I wouldn't be able to get over his betrayal. He can have a relationship with your child and that doesn't mean you need to be in a Romantic relationship with him.

    Thanks for your advice, I always told myself in this situation I would leave but I can't bring myself to imagine my baby being from a broken home like I was..I'm so confused, I suppose I need time


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    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    ceecee14 wrote: »
    Thanks for your advice, I always told myself in this situation I would leave but I can't bring myself to imagine my baby being from a broken home like I was..I'm so confused, I suppose I need time

    I'm sorry op but it's broken already.


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    Tasden
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,166 ✭✭✭Tasden


    ceecee14 wrote: »
    Thanks for your advice, I always told myself in this situation I would leave but I can't bring myself to imagine my baby being from a broken home like I was..I'm so confused, I suppose I need time

    Better to be from a broken home than in one.


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    ceecee14
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 215 ✭✭ceecee14


    Tasden wrote: »
    Better to be from a broken home than in one.

    True


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    MouseTail
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    I'm not going to advise you either way, but you are not from a broken home, you are from a home. There are many many happy, healthy family units headed by a single parent, a parent and a step parent, two people of same gender etc etc. They might not be the traditional unit, but they are not broken.


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