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Question about behaviour with clothes

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  • 01-09-2008 11:26pm
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    nij
    Closed Accounts Posts: 256 ✭✭


    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this girl, in a group situation, who had some nice breasts. She was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of cardigan thing on as well. Now most of the time, when I've seen girls wearing this combination, they tend to pull the cardigan over their breasts all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at these!".

    But the girl I met recently did not do this. She left her chest out there, and never once pulled her cardigan over. Is this a sign that she's showing them off? Is this a sign she wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!


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    #2
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,696 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Its a sign she was comfortable with what she was wearing.


    Lets talk about you.


    Do you feel its rude to stare? Why should you feel she deserved to be stared at just because of what she was wearing?


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    nij
    Closed Accounts Posts: 256 ✭✭nij


    I wasn't 'staring', but I couldn't help noticing. It's definitely rude to stare really obviously.


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    Zaph
    Registered Users, Subscribers Posts: 47,274 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    It could simply be that she's comfortable with her body. Or that she's a bit warm and wants a bit of extra ventilation. Or that she's had a boob job and wants to show them off. Or any one of a million other reasons, but personally I wouldn't be reading too much into it either way.


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    #5
    IanCurtis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,004 ✭✭✭IanCurtis


    There's a bird in my office has the (droopy) bangers hanging out all the time. Little does she know she's a laughing stock.

    Less is more. :)


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    #6
    Fletch123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Fletch123


    She may have had cold arms but her middle was fine.

    Do you really think she was trying to send you a message through her cardigan?


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    #7
    nij
    Closed Accounts Posts: 256 ✭✭nij


    Fletch123 wrote: »
    She may have had cold arms but her middle was fine.

    Do you really think she was trying to send you a message through her cardigan?

    Well she did have a nice rack, maybe she was just showing off in general...


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    [Deleted User]
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    Some of those bolero style cardies aren't designed to close.


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    chickenhawk
    Registered Users Posts: 656 ✭✭✭chickenhawk


    You think she wants your attention, but the only hint she gave you is that she didn't close her cardigan/cross her arms and make it really obvious she was covering her breasts?

    Just from reading your posts I'd say she didn't even rate you so she didn't feel threatened or inclined towards you.

    not saying you have nothing going for you but different strokes.......


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    #10
    DancingDaisy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,285 ✭✭✭DancingDaisy


    I have to make the point that as a female my mind would not work that way at all. I really think you are over analysing this girls actions or lack of actions. So she didn't fidget with her clothes, it might mean that she just isn't the fidgety type and is just comfortable with what she is wearing. In my experience, the only time I fidget with clothing is if I'm feeling uncomfortable with what I'm wearing.

    I also can't understand how you were paying so much attention to her chest or to other female chests that you have noticed this type of fidgeting. I would think that looking a girl in the face, eye's above the neck line, would garner you more respect and a better chance with the girl in question!!!!:D


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    #11
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Put a brown paper bag over your head, OP. The women can't help themselves, it would seem.


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    nij
    Closed Accounts Posts: 256 ✭✭nij


    Some good points made. I gotta say though, I wasn't really staring. This was a big house party situation, so I was able to see her from afar. From the moment I walked in the door, she was nice and friendly to me, which I instantly noticed, as most other women I meet become frosty with me as soon as I so much as make small talk about the weather.


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    Ginny
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 13,425 ✭✭✭✭Ginny


    I'm thinking the original post and your post above say more about you then girls habits with their clothing.
    How about assuming people aren't trying to send you messages with their clothing?


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    brianthebard
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,165 ✭✭✭✭brianthebard


    nij wrote: »
    Some good points made. I gotta say though, I wasn't really staring. This was a big house party situation, so I was able to see her from afar. From the moment I walked in the door, she was nice and friendly to me, which I instantly noticed, as most other women I meet become frosty with me as soon as I so much as make small talk about the weather.

    Maybe they start to notice you staring at their bewbs after a while?


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    #15
    trio
    Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭trio


    This is hilarious. The OP thinks that girls have some sort of secret code - just like semaphore, only with clothes.

    "Cardigan not covering breasts" = "I want you to ogle my breasts"

    I don't hook my cardigan around my bosoms. It would spoil the line of the cardigan and cover my nice top that I spent so much money on.

    She wasn't showing off her breasts, OP. She was showing off her clothes.


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    Star20
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭Star20


    Or maybe her cardigan simply didnt reach across her big boobies... :eek:


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    thelordofcheese
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,368 ✭✭✭thelordofcheese


    trio wrote: »
    This is hilarious. The OP thinks that girls have some sort of secret code - just like semaphore, only with clothes.

    "Cardigan not covering breasts" = "I want you to ogle my breasts"

    I don't hook my cardigan around my bosoms. It would spoil the line of the cardigan and cover my nice top that I spent so much money on.

    She wasn't showing off her breasts, OP. She was showing off her clothes.

    Unless she's blind and dead from the neck down, she'll be aware that she's been gifted with an ample set.
    Her choice in clothing will obviously look to take advantage of this in situations where she might potentially meet a nice young lad. Like in a social setting as described by the OP.
    Nobody has ever been instantly attracted to someones on the basis of their lovely cardigan, no matter how much people would like to believe we're all not that shallow.

    She wants some to look, even fewer to touch. However OP, you're neither.


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    #18
    Macha
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Jebus are women not allowed to just dress nicely for themselves? Every girl I know dresses to the benefit of her assets. It doesn't mean she wants people staring at her.

    There have been days when I got nicely dressed up and never even left the house.


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    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    nij wrote: »
    . She left her chest out there, and never once pulled her cardigan over. Is this a sign that she's showing them off?
    Maybe. Or she just thought it looked nice that way.
    Is this a sign she wants my attention?
    Eh, no. Women generally know if they have nice tits but they dont use them as some kind of homing beacon for random men.


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    John Mason
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    well, if she didnt close her cardy when you are obviously staring at her breasts, she is nothing but a brazen hussey and should be sent to the nunnery immediately


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    #21
    LolaLuv
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭LolaLuv


    irishbird wrote: »
    well, if she didnt close her cardy when you are obviously staring at her breasts, she is nothing but a brazen hussey and should be sent to the nunnery immediately

    Lol, loved this post.


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    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this guy, in a group situation, who had a nice package. He was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of shirt thing on as well ( not tucked in). Now most of the time, when I've seen guys wearing this combination, they tend to wear/button the shirt over their crotch all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at this!".

    But the guy I met recently did not do this. He left his crotch out there, and never once closed his shirt over. Is this a sign that he's showing it off? Is this a sign he wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!


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    #23
    Burial
    Registered Users Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Burial


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this guy, in a group situation, who had a nice package. He was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of shirt thing on as well ( not tucked in). Now most of the time, when I've seen guys wearing this combination, they tend to wear/button the shirt over their crotch all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at this!".

    But the guy I met recently did not do this. He left her crotch out there, and never once closed his shirt over. Is this a sign that he's showing it off? Is this a sign he wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!

    Freudian slip??? :P


    It clearly means he wants to marry you. I'd be worried though, he sounds like a gold-digger... Had his shirt been tucked in, you'd be ok, but those rebels, not tucking in their shirts! You just can't tell with them!


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    #24
    Zaph
    Registered Users, Subscribers Posts: 47,274 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    Oryx wrote: »
    Women generally know if they have nice tits but they dont use them as some kind of homing beacon for random men.

    Ah crap. :(:D
    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this guy, in a group situation, who had a nice package. He was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of shirt thing on as well ( not tucked in). Now most of the time, when I've seen guys wearing this combination, they tend to wear/button the shirt over their crotch all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at this!".

    But the guy I met recently did not do this. He left his crotch out there, and never once closed his shirt over. Is this a sign that he's showing it off? Is this a sign he wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!

    Well speaking as a man I'd say that those guys who cover up their crotches in female company are obviously gay or are just not interested in sex. Obviously we all want women to look at our crotches and, if they like what they see, to act on their impulses. Now if only women would stop buttoning up their cardigans over their breasts...


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    #25
    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this guy, in a group situation, who had a nice package. He was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of shirt thing on as well ( not tucked in). Now most of the time, when I've seen guys wearing this combination, they tend to wear/button the shirt over their crotch all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at this!".

    But the guy I met recently did not do this. He left his crotch out there, and never once closed his shirt over. Is this a sign that he's showing it off? Is this a sign he wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!

    I also met that guy. You missed nothing. It was a sock.


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    #26
    brianthebard
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,165 ✭✭✭✭brianthebard


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this guy, in a group situation, who had a nice package. He was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of shirt thing on as well ( not tucked in). Now most of the time, when I've seen guys wearing this combination, they tend to wear/button the shirt over their crotch all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at this!".

    But the guy I met recently did not do this. He left his crotch out there, and never once closed his shirt over. Is this a sign that he's showing it off? Is this a sign he wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!

    Shouldn't you have reported him for indecency???


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    #27
    GrumPy
    Registered Users Posts: 6,557 ✭✭✭GrumPy


    nij wrote: »
    Ok, here's the deal. I recently met this girl, in a group situation, who had some nice breasts. She was wearing a t-shirt, with a sort of cardigan thing on as well. Now most of the time, when I've seen girls wearing this combination, they tend to pull the cardigan over their breasts all the time...as if to say, "Don't look at these!".

    But the girl I met recently did not do this. She left her chest out there, and never once pulled her cardigan over. Is this a sign that she's showing them off? Is this a sign she wants my attention?

    Would like some opinions. Thanks!


    Sounds exactly like a case of she wants to suck you off tbh. Classic sign.



    On a serious note, honestly your prolly reading into it far too much. ;)


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    #28
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,223 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Perhaps this was what nij was imagining when he saw the girl in the T-shirt from across the room?

    Picture a bull fighting stadium in Spain...

    Girl in T-shirt holds cardigan as if a cape, waving it from a distance.

    This catches nij's eye, he lowers his head, and begins pawing the ground, snorting!

    What projects from her T-shirt seems to say to nij, "Toro! Toro!"

    But what nij does not see is the sword that is used to hold the cardigan cape.:eek:


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    #29
    Cinful
    Registered Users Posts: 284 ✭✭Cinful


    Blue_Lagoon wrote: »
    "Toro! Toro!"
    :D


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    #30
    celticcutie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 101 ✭✭celticcutie


    Moonbaby wrote: »
    Some of those bolero style cardies aren't designed to close.

    That's a definite.


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