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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3 Cafeaulait13


    Thanks for that Jim We are actually already in France and I'm here on a working holiday visa. At least that visa is sorted :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 43 tiffbunny


    1. Despite living together we don't have any documentation to prove this. I was not on the lease in Dublin and we our house sitting if France. Will the evidence we have been enough i.e. phone bills, photos, family photos, numerous holidays to each other, mail sent to one address the list goes on. I have literally kept everything that we could use!

    2. We don't have a joint bank account. Will individual bank statements be enough to show as they say it that 'we are both contributing our life financially'?????

    3. Can I apply pretty much straight away when we get back to Ireland or will I need permission to remain in the state?

    1. This has been addressed repeatedly in the thread-- couples who have basically spent their entire relationship long-distance can and do get issued the De-Facto visa. You don't have to have EVER lived with each other to get the visa, so not being able to prove that you did live together won't hurt your case. That being said, you can always contact your old landlord from when you were leasing in Dublin and ask him/her to write a letter on your behalf, testifying to the both of you living there. Same for neighbors or whomever else in France. Or locals with whom you did business regularly.

    It's a fairly subjective criteria, as far as Visa applications go. Don't stress yourself trying to think of it as factually prove the existence of your relationship. Instead, try to provide what I call "evidence of love." They basically just want to see that you and your loving pumpkinbutt (what, everyone doesn't call their significant other this?) actually know and like each other, and that other people have seen evidence of this love too. Pretty simple, really.

    2. See point one, and relax a little. Basically, you both need to have a healthy amount of capital in your joint/separate bank statements so that you can deal with expected and unexpected financial hurdles while getting yourselves together. They don't need you to show that you each pay exactly 50% of the bills. I have heard *very unofficially* that you'll want 2000 euro plus in your account/accounts for smoother sailing through the financial section, but again, this was advice from an unofficial (though usually well-informed) source.

    3. You can apply straight away after getting back, but you need to make sure you're there legally at the time of application. Meaning, you can't sneak in then claim it's okay for you to be there because your application is being processed. If your "legal" time in the country is almost up, though, you will generally have a bit of grace period while they are processing your app.

    Hope this helps.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3 Cafeaulait13


    Thanks for that Janelle.

    I think the more you read sometimes the worse it is. It seems there are some success stories and some unsuccessful ones so I guess it highlights that each case gets treated differently.
    Do I dare ask where you are getting your information from and is this something you have gone through yourself?

    Thanks,


  • Registered Users Posts: 32 el capitan


    Hi,
    Just to let you know. My partner got her Stamp 4 approval letter last friday. We applied mid May while she was on a tourist visa.
    We are delighted.

    Our situation probably differs a bit from the usual in that we returned to Ireland after been evacuated from Japan after the March 11th earthquake and Tsunami.

    When we arrived back we gathered as much documentaion as we could and applied for the defacto relationship status.
    • We supplied loads of dated photos going back just over two years.
    • copys of our passport stamps and e tickets showing where we traveled together over the last year and a half.
    • loads of emails we sent to each other over the duration of our relationship.
    • Apartment lease with both our names but this was only from 1month before we returned to Ireland.
    • A parking space lease with both name which was over two years.
    • As we had no way of getting statements from our japanese banks we opened a joint account in AIB and got a Statement from that account.
    • I was able to get over 2.5years of payslip from my companys website which was also useful.
    • We took out health insurance plans with vhi.
    It was a long wait but well worth it in the end.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 211 ✭✭30Min


    Hi there,

    Is there an application form or do you just post all your documents off with a cover letter ?

    Thanks


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  • Registered Users Posts: 81 ✭✭sophie4187


    Nope, no application. All the documents are your application :) Hope that helps


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 211 ✭✭30Min


    Sure does- thanks :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    I wrote this on a separate thread but it's also relevant to this topic

    I applied for the Defacto leave to remain on September 14. Five weeks ago. They sent me a correspondence letter a day later to say they have received my application. We started going out in March 2009. I met my partner in London and my UK Working Holiday visa expired in September 2009 so I obtained an Irish working holiday permit which lasted for 12 months. I had to go back to Australia in October 2010 as my visa had expired and we hadn't been together for 2 years. The INIS gave me a Stamp 3 permit which meant I couldn't work. She came out to Australia for 3 weeks in March for my cousin's wedding. I stayed in Australia till September this year for family reasons (my cousin and grandma had passed away) and landed back in Ireland. You have to be in the country to apply. The Gards renewed my Stamp 3 for another 12 months while I am waiting for my application. I didn't have any problems with getting back in to the country.

    In my application I included

    Joint Account details
    Bank statements of individual accounts.
    Birthday cards
    Photos
    Letters from my parents and hers
    Letter from a former Tuinaste (sp?)
    Letter from my previous employer here who is willing to take me back. I was on a Working Holiday permit previously.
    Match tickets, holiday schedules, concerts that we attended
    Invitations to my cousin's wedding in Australia
    Letters to support our application
    Photocopies of every page from both passports
    Copies of all the GNIB cards I have had (important).
    A letter from the VHI saying that I have private health insurance and won't be relying on the HSE for medical care (important)
    Pay slips from both parties

    Don't forget that your partner is Irish is also applying for the leave to remain so they will do checks on him/her. They will probably reconcile both bank accounts. No doubt there is a police check in there as well to make sure that you are of good character. If you have been involved in community activities such as sport get a letter from your club. Since I got back I spoke to my previous employer and he said he will help me get back in to the company once I get my visa. You will need to show that you have at least 3000 euro in your account to support yourself and aren't relying on social welfare to survive. Remember you aren't applying for an actual visa

    Another thing put it in to chronoligical order so it's easier for them to read and I put tabs on each section to show information is in it. They might not read it all as it could be sufficient. Date stamp every photograph as it's proper evidence to show the timeframe you have been together.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8 yeehang0088


    Hi there,

    Would we be call for interview while applying de facto visas ? Or do we both have to pick up the visas together if the application is successful ? My boyfriend is working abroad in Dubai, he will come back to Ireland every 4 weeks for couple of weeks but his jobs might end before that. I am Malaysian and my boyfriend is Irish.


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    Hi there,

    Would we be call for interview while applying de facto visas ? Or do we both have to pick up the visas together if the application is successful ? My boyfriend is working abroad in Dubai, he will come back to Ireland every 4 weeks for couple of weeks but his jobs might end before that. I am Malaysian and my boyfriend is Irish.

    There is no interview during the process. You need to be in the country to apply so he basically needs to submit all his documentation with your application, which I assume he already has done. You both have to be present at the local immigration office when you get your stamp. It's only your passport that gets stamped. It is a Stamp 4 it won't say that you are a defacto in your passport.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8 yeehang0088


    Hi,

    Thanks for the reply there.

    We haven't begin to apply yet actually, just gathering the documents.

    I will be coming into Ireland as a tourist, do I need a return flight when going through passport control ?

    And any particular questions they might ask when picking up the stamp ?

    Thanks. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    They might ask how long you are staying for. Coming from where you are travelling from it's best to have a return or even a ticket to the UK. They don't ask you any questions when getting the stamp as you have a letter from the GNIB to say your application has been approved. It will take over 6 weeks to get a response from them to say if you have got the visa


  • Registered Users Posts: 734 ✭✭✭battries not included


    just to add, they (GNIB) can refuse you for a number of reasons, if you are honest and upfront no problem, try lie they will find out maybe not straight away but down the line when you think everything is settled, work, home etc.. then you get a letter in the door...

    Just present yourself at your local immigration officer in your area and they might be able to advise, always good to put a face to the application.

    best of luck


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    I wouldn't rely on your local immigration gard. Mine didn't have the foggiest about the visa. She was new to the job and only got to know about the application process because I was applying for it. You have to be coherent about your finances. If you present them with a year's worth of statements it will speed up the process. Any form of current insurance details helps


  • Registered Users Posts: 734 ✭✭✭battries not included


    depending where you live they (immigration officers) can be very helpful in this matter, i speak from personal experience.

    send in everything

    1) Cover letter explaining the relationship, length of time together, photos, e-mails, future plans, letter and contact details from friends who know you both personally and may receive a call or letter asking to confirm this

    2) Work/college references would also help

    3) A letter or statement from a person of good character in your community whom you may call upon as a personal referee would help.

    4) Show ALL financial statements, BANK/SOCIAL WELFARE/ LOANS/ etc.., i know it is intrusive but they need to weed out people looking to make money out of stamp 4 , again if you honest, no problems :)



    Garda National Immigration Bureau
    The Garda National Immigration Bureau (GNIB) carries out deportations, border control and investigations relating to illegal immigration and human trafficking.

    GNIB is based at 13/14 Burgh Quay, Dublin 2. It is headed by a Detective Chief Superintendent with a Garda Staff of 2 Detective Superintendents, 4 Detective Inspectors, 24 Detective Sergeants and 180 Detective Gardaí and Gardaí. They are supported by 68 civilian staff.

    Registration

    All non-nationals who are not citizens of a member State of the European Union, the European Economic Area or Switzerland, must register with An Garda Síochána and at all times have a valid registration certificate in the form of a GNIB Card. The fee for this card is €150 and must be paid by credit card, laser card or bank giro. This fee cannot be paid by cash. You can download an information leaflet about the fees and methods of payment in the Fees Information panel on the right hand side of this page.

    If you are residing in the Dublin Metropolitan Region you must register at the GNIB offices at 13/14 Burgh Quay, Dublin 2. The registration desk opening hours are:

    Monday to Thursday 8.00am to 10.00pm
    Friday 8.00am to 4.00pm.
    Students will not be registered before 9.00am.

    Procedure for renewing your GNIB Card:

    Are you residing in the Dublin area?

    Renew your card at GNIB, 13/14 Burgh Quay, Dublin 2.

    Tel: +353 1 666 9100/1

    E-mail: gnib_dv@garda.ie

    Are you residing outside the Dublin area?

    Renew your card at your local Garda Síochána District Headquarters Station. To find out where your District Headquarters Station is, contact your local Garda Station.

    You can also register at Blessington Garda Station, Co. Wicklow and Maynooth Garda Station, Co. Kildare.


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    I wouldn't show any credit card statements and/or loan accounts. It will just show them that you owe money. You shouldn't have social welfare being a non national. You will obviously need foreign bank statements as you are a tourist you can't get an irish bank account.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8 yeehang0088


    depending where you live they (immigration officers) can be very helpful in this matter, i speak from personal experience.

    send in everything

    1) Cover letter explaining the relationship, length of time together, photos, e-mails, future plans, letter and contact details from friends who know you both personally and may receive a call or letter asking to confirm this

    2) Work/college references would also help

    3) A letter or statement from a person of good character in your community whom you may call upon as a personal referee would help.

    4) Show ALL financial statements, BANK/SOCIAL WELFARE/ LOANS/ etc.., i know it is intrusive but they need to weed out people looking to make money out of stamp 4 , again if you honest, no problems :)



    Can you give list down the documents you have sent ? Thank you very much.


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    See my post on the previous page


  • Registered Users Posts: 734 ✭✭✭battries not included


    depending where you live they (immigration officers) can be very helpful in this matter, i speak from personal experience.

    send in everything

    1) Cover letter explaining the relationship, length of time together, photos, e-mails, future plans, letter and contact details from friends who know you both personally and may receive a call or letter asking to confirm this

    2) Work/college references would also help

    3) A letter or statement from a person of good character in your community whom you may call upon as a personal referee would help.

    4) Show ALL financial statements, BANK/SOCIAL WELFARE/ LOANS/ etc.., i know it is intrusive but they need to weed out people looking to make money out of stamp 4 , again if you honest, no problems :)



    Can you give list down the documents you have sent ? Thank you very much.

    I sent you a Private Message


  • Registered Users Posts: 96 ✭✭TheHulk


    Hi All,

    My girlfriend recently got rejected for this, but she did get permission to stay in Ireland for one year, not allowed to work. It's not ideal but will do for now.

    We both have to go to the local immigration office with our passports to get hers stamped. The letter does not give any more detail, what I need to know is if an appointment is needed for this? Or do you just show up there and take a ticket and wait?

    We live abroad right now so getting to Dublin is a bit of an inconveniance so I dont to show up and have information missing etc. Can anybody shed any light on if we need an appointment to meet an agent?

    Thanks


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  • Registered Users Posts: 207 ✭✭vikingdub


    TheHulk wrote: »
    Hi All,

    My girlfriend recently got rejected for this, but she did get permission to stay in Ireland for one year, not allowed to work. It's not ideal but will do for now.

    We both have to go to the local immigration office with our passports to get hers stamped. The letter does not give any more detail, what I need to know is if an appointment is needed for this? Or do you just show up there and take a ticket and wait?

    We live abroad right now so getting to Dublin is a bit of an inconveniance so I dont to show up and have information missing etc. Can anybody shed any light on if we need an appointment to meet an agent?

    Thanks

    How did she get approval for a visa to remain in Ireland when neither of you are living in Ireland.


  • Registered Users Posts: 734 ✭✭✭battries not included


    TheHulk wrote: »
    Hi All,

    My girlfriend recently got rejected for this, but she did get permission to stay in Ireland for one year, not allowed to work. It's not ideal but will do for now.

    We both have to go to the local immigration office with our passports to get hers stamped. The letter does not give any more detail, what I need to know is if an appointment is needed for this? Or do you just show up there and take a ticket and wait?

    We live abroad right now so getting to Dublin is a bit of an inconveniance so I dont to show up and have information missing etc. Can anybody shed any light on if we need an appointment to meet an agent?

    Thanks

    You ring your local garda station and ask what day/time the immigration officer sits at. Bring your passports and any documents you have from the GNIB.

    The immigration officer can pull your details of the database using GNIB number and PPS numbers.

    So depending where you live in ireland, ring your local garda station, if you live in dublin i think you have to go to the GNIB office on burgh quay in person with passports.

    Best thing to do is go early in the morning around 6am to queue for a ticket at burgh quay immigration office and present yourself at the counter.


  • Registered Users Posts: 734 ✭✭✭battries not included


    vikingdub wrote: »
    How did she get approval for a visa to remain in Ireland when neither of you are living in Ireland.

    I was thinking the same thing, not for us to judge but the fact they were out of the country when they applied might have been a concern.


  • Registered Users Posts: 96 ✭✭TheHulk


    vikingdub wrote: »
    How did she get approval for a visa to remain in Ireland when neither of you are living in Ireland.

    Well we do live in Ireland, I'm just on a short work assignment out of the country right now.

    Thanks for the info.


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    vikingdub wrote: »
    How did she get approval for a visa to remain in Ireland when neither of you are living in Ireland.

    Based on your circumstances they can give you a 12 month stamp 3. They gave me one when I first go rejected. If you can save and work elsewhere that would be very useful but to sit around in Ireland for another 12 months is soul destroying.


    You will need to take the letter and your partner to your local immigration Gard to get the stamp. You will have to pay 150 euro


  • Registered Users Posts: 96 ✭✭TheHulk


    FalconXV wrote: »
    Based on your circumstances they can give you a 12 month stamp 3. They gave me one when I first go rejected. If you can save and work elsewhere that would be very useful but to sit around in Ireland for another 12 months is soul destroying.


    You will need to take the letter and your partner to your local immigration Gard to get the stamp. You will have to pay 150 euro

    By the way Falcon, with the 12 month stamp 3, are you free to come and go from Rep Ireland as you please? Or is it single entry? I've heard some student visas are single entry.

    Thanks


  • Registered Users Posts: 163 ✭✭FalconXV


    It's multi entry. If your partner is from a visa waiver country (such as Australia, NZ , Canada, US,etc) they will have to let you in anyway. You show your card to the gards at the airport and they will stamp your passport. There has to be a reason why they rejected the app. I would take it to your TD and get advice but don't play hardball as you will have to apply again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ngana1303


    Hello All,

    I am an American currently living in Ireland and working towards a PhD. My Irish partner and I will be eligible to apply for the de facto visa in a couple months. I'd rather be working than studying, but does anyone know if it is possible to continue the PhD while on the de facto visa? I'd hate to lose my student visa and not be able to find a good job.

    Thanks for the advice.


  • Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭SEEMagazine


    I've had dealings with the DoJ in the past over issues which have some similarity to the OPs post. I can't say that I was overly encouraged by the speed with which they did anything.

    Myself and my fiancee will not be getting married until after Croatia join the EU because I have no wish to explain anything to them to my own Govt...

    Of course I face the same problems here as she would there. I'm 'legal' for the time being but the paperwork is convoluted to say the least.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭SEEMagazine


    Hmmmm, funny this... My own Embassy just emailed advising that the "defacto" route might actually suffice to extend my stay here...

    Of course as I've said elsewhere there are very few Irish in this region... Means the Embassy has more time to dedicate per person (at least I hope).


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