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Lets all be anxious/depressed together.
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More what to do in a crisis. I'm in the process of changing meds at the minute so I know I'm bound to be low with that whole set-up. I was hoping they'd give me something to take the edge off the nighttime panics. They're at the ridiculous stage. I told him I'd written notes and have a definate plan, but he didn't say anything.
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I'm like that with my family too, I can't talk to them don't really have a relantionship with them...but could you let them in a small bit? You wouldn't have to tell them everything...they mighten understand at first but over time, they might just. You say you have no one, but you say you're family doesn't know....? Its you to you to let them in....Like l said l don't know you're suitation & other stuff but thats my advice l can give to you...l hope you'll feel better soon, l really do l always come across you're name on this thread so l know you've been around along time & things are sh*t....remember you are you're own friend, be good to yourself 0
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Oh no titanThe blood I'm losing atm is helping, albeit arm is once again ruined
Lost quite a lot, actually took some pictures cos I thought it was so much. Was quite pleasing to see in a way, which probably isn't a good thought
do you need medical attention? Be sure to tell your doc, just ring and say it's an emergency. Even make sure its properly cleaned. 0 -
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WelcomePressurised Container wrote: »So I have been a long time lurker of this thread with no confidence to post!! But today that changes!
I guess all my life I knew I was a different person never felt like I fitted in and I always blamed outside factors after an unplanned pregnancy and a very traumatic birth did I realise I had anxiety problems I am currently on 15mgs of Mirap and finding them helpful though already I have the dreaded panic of when will I stop? How will I stop? What happens next? Some days I have the power to answer them questions some days they take over my life. The past week has been a bad one and I expected it, the week before I had a small victory in my battle and I just knew I couldn’t be on that happy wave forever and would bump back down with a bang.
I am lucky in that I have a good support network and after a whirlwind romance me and himself are together (he puts up with my madness) one thing i find great I have a little hard back book and when I cant get my feeling out I write them down in any way I feel will help sometimes its as though I am narrating my life sometimes its from the POV of my boyfriend I try see it through their eyes to give me a perspective.
I hope you don’t mind me joining in.
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Gremlinertia wrote: »Heyo, welcome to thread, it's been a long night, fell asleep after work and woke up at three. Oh well.. And yes the night is worse, less distraction from thoughts for me usually. I'm going to try drag myself for a walk today, always feel better for it, but total lack of motivation trips me up constantly..
How is everyone?.
Had a cry in the car on the way to work earlier
Always good to get it out. Just cant find anything to cheer me up
Starting to get really pissed of with myself at this stage, been in counselling for over a year, on meds, off the drink, no more drugs anymore. Back to work and back to my routine.
I go out try have fun, tried joining clubs, meeting new people.
BUT nothing ****ing works.
Now i hate going outside.
All of this because of some GIRL!!!!!!! Aaaahhhhhhhhhhhh0 -
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Had a cry in the car on the way to work earlier
Always good to get it out. Just cant find anything to cheer me up
Starting to get really pissed of with myself at this stage, been in counselling for over a year, on meds, off the drink, no more drugs anymore. Back to work and back to my routine.
I go out try have fun, tried joining clubs, meeting new people.
BUT nothing ****ing works.
Now i hate going outside.
All of this because of some GIRL!!!!!!! Aaaahhhhhhhhhhhh
0ph, you've got character, strength determination. I think if the wind blows the right way you'll do well. It is possible you're trying *too hard* on the fun side of things, I think you want results because of the disciplined work your putting in but you can slow yourself down and remember how strong ye are and this sounds bad but expect less, be more accepting of each moment and yourself. You really sound like you are close to taking off (in a good way), all the ingredients are there.
Just keep saying to yourself "I've been through it, other people would have folded, I'm ****ing bulletproof". What could anyone do to you now that's worse than has already happened?0 -
Call Me Jimmy wrote: »0ph, you've got character, strength determination. I think if the wind blows the right way you'll do well. It is possible you're trying *too hard* on the fun side of things, I think you want results because of the disciplined work your putting in but you can slow yourself down and remember how strong ye are and this sounds bad but expect less, be more accepting of each moment and yourself. You really sound like you are close to taking off (in a good way), all the ingredients are there.
Just keep saying to yourself "I've been through it, other people would have folded, I'm ****ing bulletproof". What could anyone do to you now that's worse than has already happened?
Some very wise words tahnk you. Wish it was that easy though but i do feel i'm through the worst alright, but still have my days, Thanks anyway, ya cheerd me up for the afternoon 
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Some very wise words tahnk you. Wish it was that easy though but i do feel i'm through the worst alright, but still have my days, Thanks anyway, ya cheerd me up for the afternoon
Yea we all wish it was that easy, and even though its the truth it's easy for me to say. Had a horrible day yesterday myself and will have horrible days in the future but I really believe if it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger. Not immediately, but after healing.0 -
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