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She straight up asked me
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It's obviously a huge deal for her! I have never asked a boyfriend, no matter how long we were together, I don't really want to know. Just had general conversations about past experiences to get a feel for how they view sex if you get me.
It can be a turn off for some, not for others. Don't worry about it!0 -
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MrStuffins wrote: »Jenny: "Fancy going out some time?"
- Guy: "I'm not so sure!
Jenny: "I can give you the numbers of 12 other guys who will tell you how I put out!"
- Guy: "I'll pick you up at 8"
They never say they're "Not so sure"
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mishkalucy wrote: »validusername1 wrote: »Well I'm female, I wouldn't lie about my number. But if it was a few higher than it currently is, I may lie. Just 'cause people tend to judge on that. But if it was a boyfriend that asked, I'd tell the truth no matter what the number was. I think guys are more likely to lie and give a higher number 'cause of the whole 'makes you a bigger legend if you've rid more girls' stereotype. Not that I think that but yknow.
IMO never tell a guy your real number, it tends to end up as canon fodder!
as you get older, your "number" becomes less and less relevant, i find that whole guys bragging about their "number" is just nonsense that came from american frat movies and romcoms and even the likes of american pie.
what's more important and what you never seem to hear about in the movies is the idea of practicing safe sex, because anything that's "safe" implies immediately that its taking all the fun out of it.
i wonder how many young girls are in for the shock of their lives when they realise that guys dont spray sparkly tinsel when they come!
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as you get older, your "number" becomes less and less relevant, i find that whole guys bragging about their "number" is just nonsense that came from american frat movies and romcoms and even the likes of american pie.
what's more important and what you never seem to hear about in the movies is the idea of practicing safe sex, because anything that's "safe" implies immediately that its taking all the fun out of it.
i wonder how many young girls are in for the shock of their lives when they realise that guys dont spray sparkly tinsel when they come!
Agreed!
But I was referring to the "number" as canon fodder in relationships where people have talked too much about their past and jealousy can ensue0 -
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She straight up asked me
Wow! That's a very personal question for someone you're just dating. You can turn a situation like that around by pointing out that every relationship is practice for the one that lasts the rest of your lives and if you've had relationships with 20/30/40 other women, she has to be more special than all of them for her to have a chance with you. If she's really pissy with you, you could tell her if she's only been with 2 or 3 guys, any guy only really needs to be better than those 2 or 3 to get with her and you're pretty sure you're more special than that. Plus never answer that question before her, insist if she wants to know, she should have the courtesy of telling you first and tell her if you think she's lying.0 -
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