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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Kash, fair play to you for being so conscientious but I don't think I could handle reusable nappies either!
    I'm only in my late 20's but isn't it strange to think that most of us probably started out in re-usables? I think I was a few months old when disposable nappies became readily available.

    Also on the sleeping arrangements, when ye say co-sleeping do u mean that little thing that attaches to ur own bed or just having the baby in bed with u? Maybe it's just me but I think those attached bed type things don't look safe, I'd be afraid it would detach from the bed.

    I'm going to get an overnight mattress for the carrycot on the pram and use that as a Moses basket in our room for the first few months. We don't really have room for much else. We've both decided we don't want baby permanently sleeping in our bed, but happy to have Santos Colossal Bargains in the mornings and stuff like that. God that makes me sound so cold, but I just don't want it to be a big ordeal if we go out for a while and baby won't settle for babysitter. Just seen some friends having this problem recently and I felt for the over-tired baby the next day.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    silly wrote: »
    Hope the dr appointment went well Mink and you got to hear your little one's heart beat.

    It went fine. I probably had worked myself up into a state but no harm getting things checked. All my heart stuff was normal at the apt but he said no harm in referring me back to my cardiologist to double check & then he can refer me to the cardio in Rotunda if need be.

    Then I asked him if he has a doppler, ie; can we listen to baby's heart. He's sort of a locum for that clinic so he wasn't sure where it was & was saying that normally they use the doppler for later apts. My hubby was sitting there thinking "crap she's going to have a meltdown". I felt sorry for dragging hubby there as he'd only had 3hrs sleep night before and we'd been sitting there an hour waiting.

    Anyway doc found a doppler, warned me that it's possible he might not be able to get it on the doppler cos of positioning etc. But he got it straight away, lovely strong heartbeat of approx 148 bpm. I said to him "are you sure that's not just my heartbeat?" and he laughed saying if that was mine he'd be sending me to A&E!

    So anyway I was delighted, so reassured. I don't know, just felt more real again!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    kildareash wrote: »
    We've both decided we don't want baby permanently sleeping in our bed, but happy to have Santos Colossal Bargains in the mornings and stuff like that. God that makes me sound so cold, but I just don't want it to be a big ordeal if we go out for a while and baby won't settle for babysitter. Just seen some friends having this problem recently and I felt for the over-tired baby the next day.

    I'd feel the same as you, get baby used to sleeping in own bed but beside us and then can take them in for feeds or Santos Colossal Bargains in the morning. However... I say that now but I could also throw all that out the window in desparation for a few hrs kip when the time comes!

    To be honest I'm really nervous about having baby sleep in bed with us, we are both very heavy sleepers. I'm really going to try and have the baby sleep separate as much as possible.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    Mink wrote: »
    To be honest I'm really nervous about having baby sleep in bed with us, we are both very heavy sleepers. I'm really going to try and have the baby sleep separate as much as possible.
    you'd be surprised how alert you can actually be when asleep, no matter how heavy of a sleeper you are you will wake at every whimper and if baby is in the bed with you, you wont get much of a sleep, you'll never relax enough incase you think you will roll over baby.

    My friend has offered to give me this thing that you put under the baby's sheet in the cot/Moses basket. It found an alarm if baby stops breathing.... It doesn't bear thinking about, she got it cos her daughter had reflux problems or something. (she's a qualified midwife) I'm not sure I want it though, but my brother died of cot death 32 yrs ago, so I guess there is always a worry...


  • Registered Users Posts: 596 ✭✭✭Tinkerbell4484


    Silly I have that,it's the angelcare monitor and it's fantastic,doing up the boys room at the mo.dont want them to feel left out with all this girl talk so need to do something for them


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    I was thinking about the angelcare, but a friend who had a real sickly baby said she found it more of a nuisance.
    They wld be trying to change baby without waking her but forget to disconnect the mat first and it wld go
    Off, ultimately waking the baby!
    I suppose it's each to their own and if it gives u the peace of mind and comfort to rest easier, then it's worth it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,236 ✭✭✭javagal


    Think my little lady has moved up finally!!
    Pressure on my bladder is gone and I feel less kicks but higher up so she must have more room- but with this brings back pain lol!!

    My very lovely sister in law was due yesterday and is getting pains atm!! She might be dropping her kids to me later..Exciting..!!! Gonna steal all that baby smell mwahaha


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I had my specialist appt today and it did not go well at all... the doc was lovely (actually the nicest doc I've ever come across aside from my GP) and he did his best to reassure me etc but reality is my thyroid is causing a lot of problems. I have to go back in 2 weeks to him and hosp in 4 weeks not 8 weeks and possibly GP every week... my pulse is sky high and i have massive tremors in my hands and legs.

    He basically said I'm having a high risk pregnancy and I need to be monitered very closely over the next 10 weeks especially. And baby will have to be monitered very closely in the first three days aswell.

    At the same time he told me not to worry too much :rolleyes: As if!

    Anyway I know its good that they are keeping an eye etc but god I wish it was just a tiny little bit easier


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    cyning wrote: »
    I had my specialist appt today and it did not go well at all... the doc was lovely (actually the nicest doc I've ever come across aside from my GP) and he did his best to reassure me etc but reality is my thyroid is causing a lot of problems. I have to go back in 2 weeks to him and hosp in 4 weeks not 8 weeks and possibly GP every week... my pulse is sky high and i have massive tremors in my hands and legs.

    He basically said I'm having a high risk pregnancy and I need to be monitered very closely over the next 10 weeks especially. And baby will have to be monitered very closely in the first three days aswell.

    At the same time he told me not to worry too much :rolleyes: As if!

    Anyway I know its good that they are keeping an eye etc but god I wish it was just a tiny little bit easier

    Aw Cyning, you poor crater. So sorry you didn't hear what you wanted to today.
    Hopefully all the close monitoring will pre-empt anything that might happen. It's easy for them to say relax, but they would be finding it very hard if they were in your shoes.

    Have a nice bath this evening, pamper yourself and maybe it'll help you chill out a bit.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    kildareash wrote: »
    Kash, fair play to you for being so conscientious but I don't think I could handle reusable nappies either!
    We were looking at the BumGenius things, they seem like a fairly good compromise. I'm not too worried about the washing/rinsing, but hey, I could change my mind after a week :) We'[ll definitely use disposeable when we are travelling/visiting.
    kildareash wrote: »
    Also on the sleeping arrangements, when ye say co-sleeping do u mean that little thing that attaches to ur own bed or just having the baby in bed with u?
    I mean the co-sleeper cot that connects to the bed itself, I'm a light sleeper and don't think I would squash the baby, but think I would sleep better with a little extra space - and of course, it might help with them not getting too used to sleeping with us.
    Mink wrote: »
    But he got it straight away, lovely strong heartbeat of approx 148 bpm. I said to him "are you sure that's not just my heartbeat?" and he laughed saying if that was mine he'd be sending me to A&E!

    So anyway I was delighted, so reassured. I don't know, just felt more real again!

    Delighted for you!
    cyning wrote: »
    I had my specialist appt today and it did not go well at all... the doc was lovely (actually the nicest doc I've ever come across aside from my GP) and he did his best to reassure me etc but reality is my thyroid is causing a lot of problems. I have to go back in 2 weeks to him and hosp in 4 weeks not 8 weeks and possibly GP every week... my pulse is sky high and i have massive tremors in my hands and legs.

    He basically said I'm having a high risk pregnancy and I need to be monitered very closely over the next 10 weeks especially. And baby will have to be monitered very closely in the first three days aswell.

    At the same time he told me not to worry too much :rolleyes: As if!

    Anyway I know its good that they are keeping an eye etc but god I wish it was just a tiny little bit easier

    They always say not to worry after giving you news to make you worry!!
    But I'm so glad that they are keeping a close eye on you and your baby - hopefully, this will be as bad as it gets, and I'm sure all the hardship will be worth it in July. Hugs xx


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  • Registered Users Posts: 168 ✭✭Fri.Day


    Kiwi2011 wrote: »
    Hi all, hope your all well.

    Well Im just home from work and had to share this one with you all........

    One of my old cranky patients today asked me if I had news for her? I replied, 'no not really' as she is not the type of person u want knowing your business!!

    She then proceeded to tell me that she knew I was pregnant and that she has heard it from someone which she was not going to tell me who! She then went on to say that in her day an unmarried mother would have been sent to a convent, or even sent to England to never be allowed back! She then asked if I was catholic and if my parents were very dissappointed!!! WTF!!!

    I just sat there with my mouth wide opening and could not even get a word in!!!

    I hope you told her that you`ve narrowed down Paternity to 10 lads!! ;)
    Seriously the cheek of her!
    I myself had a pain in my belly and couldn`t sleep sunday night so ended up going into hospital and was kept in til this morning. It wasn`t anything to do with Baby thank god and they kept checking fetal heartbeat every 3-4 hours.. I think I`m just so stressed out lately and tying myself up in knots and was told to take it very easy.. So on being discharged this morning went straight to work, I`m trying my best to interview people but it`s a long process, it took me 7 weeks to find one fella thats right for the job and may take a while to get a second person. One girl was actually pregnant herself and could only do 1/2 days :o
    Cyning I dunno how you didn`t go mad in hospital, there`s only so much fashion magazines I can take...


  • Registered Users Posts: 79 ✭✭trions


    cyning wrote: »
    I had my specialist appt today and it did not go well at all... the doc was lovely (actually the nicest doc I've ever come across aside from my GP) and he did his best to reassure me etc but reality is my thyroid is causing a lot of problems. I have to go back in 2 weeks to him and hosp in 4 weeks not 8 weeks and possibly GP every week... my pulse is sky high and i have massive tremors in my hands and legs.

    He basically said I'm having a high risk pregnancy and I need to be monitered very closely over the next 10 weeks especially. And baby will have to be monitered very closely in the first three days aswell.

    At the same time he told me not to worry too much :rolleyes: As if!

    Anyway I know its good that they are keeping an eye etc but god I wish it was just a tiny little bit easier

    Hi all,

    Cyning - you poor thing, you must be at your wits end - I know it must be so hard but try to stay positive, it's good they will be monitoring you so closely and making sure you and babs are doing well.. take care of yourself....

    javagal - hope all goes well with your sister in law, enjoy your babysitting - it will be lovely for your little girl to have a cousin so close in age..

    For all the 'One born every minute' fans the American version is starting tonight!!!! Is it very very sad that I am this excited :confused:


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    Cyning, sorry to hear your news, at least they are keeping an eye on you and babs. It would be worse if they didn't think anything was wrong.

    Fri.day, sorry you have been ill! But again, at least dr's are being vigilant!

    Half way tomorrow girls! Think I'll have a mini party for myself to celebrate.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,236 ✭✭✭javagal


    trions wrote: »
    Hi all,

    Cyning - you poor thing, you must be at your wits end - I know it must be so hard but try to stay positive, it's good they will be monitoring you so closely and making sure you and babs are doing well.. take care of yourself....

    javagal - hope all goes well with your sister in law, enjoy your babysitting - it will be lovely for your little girl to have a cousin so close in age..

    For all the 'One born every minute' fans the American version is starting tonight!!!! Is it very very sad that I am this excited :confused:

    We have another niece who was born in Nov too so lots of friends for her!!
    Cyning, Sorry about your appointment love, this pregnancy has not been easy on you, but being closly monitpred is the best thing ! x

    what channel is one born?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    javagal wrote: »

    what channel is one born?
    Channel 4 at 10pm I think.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    Babs just kicked the doppler 3 times then hid! I`ve a stubborn one on my hands I think.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Cyning that really sucks. I hope and pray your pregnancy doesn't encounter more hitches. You are a very strong chick going through what you have. At least you know medical stuff is so advanced now that you can be looked after.

    Girls I'd suggest not watching the US one born every minute. It's completely different to the UK one. I watched one episode and it made me so angry. They had a lady come in to have her fourth and the show made a huge drama out of it and worried the mother and she ended up with baby being suctioned out. Every mother seems to be bullied into going flat on her back, epidural and purple pushing and not backed up if wants to try something alternative.

    That's my opinion anyway, maybe it's changed.


  • Registered Users Posts: 79 ✭✭trions


    javagal wrote: »
    We have another niece who was born in Nov too so lots of friends for her!!
    Cyning, Sorry about your appointment love, this pregnancy has not been easy on you, but being closly monitpred is the best thing ! x

    what channel is one born?

    it's on more 4 at 10.00


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Thanks guys :D it is just frustrating... and worrying. And I can't even say sure everything will be fine like I was with the hyperemesis because this can affect babs (even though I was worrying if that makes sense).... but I'm thinking positively and smiling. At least trying to :o

    Fri.day it's next to impossible NOT to crack up when your in hosp!! It is incredibly boring! And its ten times worse when your pregnant ! Try not to get too stressed: and try not to worry about work either :rolleyes: so much easier said than done!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    How ya feeling today cyning?

    I think my belly has taken a major stretch this week. Mat trousers are getting a wee bit tighter (though still lots of room to stretch in the right places) and I just generally feel like I can't possibly fit anything else into my abdomen, skin stretched to the max!

    There's been some possible little movements. Seem more distinct than before but not not 100% certain yet. Still sort of making me smile though!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,236 ✭✭✭javagal


    Can't feel baby too much when im in college cause im busy stressing over code etc. So i get home and i start to panic cause i have back pain and some ligaments pain and haven't felt her.
    I lay on the couch and talk to her and she gives me the mother of all kicks as if to say "silly mummy "%and knocks my phone off my belly!
    So in love with her!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    I'm definately feeling more movement this week, but nothing that I could call a kick yet.

    Have really bad pain on my right side today. I've had a bit of a cough for the last few days so think I might just have strained something. I'm just hoping that it's not a problem with the disc i hurt a few years ago coz it's kinda in that area.

    Booked ante natal classes today...it's also so confusing. Was trying to do them in the town I live for convenience. But there was two here and two somewhere else. Booked ones hospital then but there in middle of day, which is grand but puts OH under pressure in work, coz it's a 40 minute drive. But theres only two classes.
    Don't know why these things can't be standardised for the country rather than changing from one HSE area to another, especially when maternity hospitals tend to be for regions rather than one area.


  • Registered Users Posts: 87 ✭✭tinkerbell79


    Mink- delighted your appointment went well:)
    Cyning- so sorry to hear your appointment didnt go as well as you hoped. Try not to worry too much(i know easier said than done) But hopefully with all the close monitoring you and baby will be fine, look after yourself!!x
    Silly- halfway defo deserves a mini party!!:D I cant wait till i get there.


  • Registered Users Posts: 87 ✭✭tinkerbell79


    Kildareash- hope you feel better soon, hopefully its not a slipped disc that would be terrible!!! It is hard to organise antenatal classes hope you find 1 that suits..


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I'm okay... trying to relax for me and baby.... rang work today to say I wasn't coming back before baby comes so they were fine about it thank god. I think I would have cried if they had been a bit dodgy about it. I'm really very shaky though... im like an old person when the tremors come :rolleyes:

    I'm 21 and a half weeks and still don't have anything like a "kick" just flutters still!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,236 ✭✭✭javagal


    cyning wrote: »
    I'm okay... trying to relax for me and baby.... rang work today to say I wasn't coming back before baby comes so they were fine about it thank god. I think I would have cried if they had been a bit dodgy about it. I'm really very shaky though... im like an old person when the tremors come :rolleyes:

    I'm 21 and a half weeks and still don't have anything like a "kick" just flutters still!
    I mostly feel flutters, prob only kicks when. Im in bed !
    With the antenatal classes,where do i ring to book them? Does my oh come?


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    For me I got a leaflet from hosp at booking appt giving me a number to ring: my first appt is in just over 4 weeks and then I'll be posted out the next two. She told me my oh didn't have to come to the first one but that he was allowed come: and he is coming!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,236 ✭✭✭javagal


    Aww did you see one born, that poor Lithuanian man, i wanted to hug him!
    Had a great laugh at the very end of it when it showed next week and the young girl claims to her boyfriend, i.ve ****! Lol classic!


  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    Ladies,

    Just wondering if anybody knows which is the best NewLook shop to go to for maternity wear (preferably in Dublin)... I have a voucher to spend & went to Blanchardstown a few weeks ago and they had almost nothing, though I did get a nice cheap pair of jeans and a few tshirts... I'd like to get some summery wear now. They have a great selection online but I'm the type of body shape (especially now!!) that needs to try clothes on before I buy.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    I just went online - sorry mama-h!

    But I have to say, their skater dresses are lovely - I bought the one in turquoise, and it is stunning :)


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