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Locating someone in Ireland

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  • #32
    clintondaly
    Registered Users Posts: 1,813 ✭✭✭clintondaly


    Did you Google her,in the internet sense i mean.


  • #33
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    El Weirdo - You're very cynical aint you ??

    No it wasnt like paying for sex ! (can see how you would think that though) but that side of things ended a long time ago and were friends for years after that !
    And yes she is the BUNNY BOILER !

    Im more than happy to PM you the case number and the contact details for my solicitor if you want to contact them to put your sarcastic mind at ease ???


  • #34
    christmas2012
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,827 ✭✭✭christmas2012


    I have her number but obviously I cant just ring and ask her address as shes avoiding the whole situation.

    You have her number - just ring her , i would if i was trying to locate someone,just have a casual conversation chit chat,dont bring up the court case and let her relax her guard so just say,umm where are you working now?so you at such and such ya we should meet up etc..

    OR

    you could get her picture,hire a PI and spent thousands and it might go nowhere..


  • #35
    YFlyer
    Registered Users Posts: 9,717 ✭✭✭YFlyer


    clintondaly wrote: »
    Did you Google her,in the internet sense i mean.

    Yes google image her picture.

    Try craigslist.


  • #36
    El Weirdo
    Registered Users Posts: 11,646 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    bredmond wrote: »
    El Weirdo - You're very cynical aint you ??

    No it wasnt like paying for sex ! (can see how you would think that though) but that side of things ended a long time ago and were friends for years after that !
    And yes she is the BUNNY BOILER !

    Im more than happy to PM you the case number and the contact details for my solicitor if you want to contact them to put your sarcastic mind at ease ???
    Sarcastic? Moi?


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  • #37
    Munurty
    Registered Users Posts: 176 ✭✭Munurty


    Try www.pipl.com


  • #38
    Teyla Emmagan
    Registered Users Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    Oh, so you were using her like a hooker, and now you want your money back?

    Not the innocent victim after all really, are you OP?


  • #39
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,419 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Have you tried asking at the garda station? If you have her phone number they will be able to check it for you.


  • #40
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Why did you give her 10,000 euro?


    That's mind-boggling to me.


  • #41
    scdublin
    Registered Users Posts: 643 ✭✭✭scdublin


    Why are people jumping on their high horse? From what he's said, they had a relationship but then just continued on as friends until things went sour....he lent her money over this time which she never paid back. She still owes the money no matter what went on between them sexually or not.....


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  • #42
    firefly08
    Registered Users Posts: 856 ✭✭✭firefly08


    Murder the post man and steal his uniform. Definitely.


  • #43
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    scdublin wrote: »
    Why are people jumping on their high horse? From what he's said, they had a relationship but then just continued on as friends until things went sour....he lent her money over this time which she never paid back. She still owes the money no matter what went on between them sexually or not.....

    But 10 grand?

    10 GRAND?????

    COME ON!!!!


  • #44
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    No Teyla, was not using her like a hooker ! Two concenting adults and that part of the 'relationship' ended a long long time before all this happened.

    And yes for the record, I am the innocent one in this. I was noting but nice to her and helped her out when she was stuck and at a time she couldnt ask her family, I was always brought up to help those who need it but I have learned my lesson when in comes to money and 'friends'

    I have spoken to the guards who cant really do much about it to be honest, its a matter for the courts. I spoken to them when she was getting nasty with her calls etc and if that had of continued they would have got involved.


  • #45
    scdublin
    Registered Users Posts: 643 ✭✭✭scdublin


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    But 10 grand?

    10 GRAND?????

    COME ON!!!!

    Yeah, it's a crazy amount of money definitely! But accusing him of treating her like a hooker/paying her for sex is far too extreme in my opinion anyway.


  • #46
    davet82
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    This just sounds like your run-of-the-mill stalker threads... nothing more


  • #47
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,419 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    But 10 grand?

    10 GRAND?????

    COME ON!!!!

    It's not that unusual to give your partner a loan.


  • #48
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    Thanks scdublin...

    And yes people Im well aware of the amount involved but at the time I was able to help out and Ive done that with many of my friends before and ive always been paid because they know Im a genuine person (I hope so anyway)
    It was the biggest mistake Ive made in my life (to date anyway ha) and only for I have brilliant parents I would have really been in trouble, its them I owe money back to not the banks etc.


  • #49
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    What did she tell you she needed 10,000 for?


  • #50
    LoYL
    Closed Accounts Posts: 235 ✭✭LoYL


    Everyone knows everyone here. Pick a random shop and off ya go.


  • #51
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    I wasnt that into as in I didnt want to lead her on and didnt want anything more out of it so I was hardly going to continue the situation !
    And became friends after that and it was then that all this happened, not when we were 'seeing' each other !!

    And to avoid the stalker sh1t talk I am more than happy to PM anyone the solicitor letters or contact details to find out for yourself.

    Why are people so cynical ??

    Can a person not help another person out and be nice to someone without people assuming the worst ? Says enough of how the country has gone !


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  • #52
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    What did she tell you she needed 10,000 for?

    Im going with boob job?


  • #53
    davet82
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    bredmond wrote: »
    Can a person not help another person out and be nice to someone without people assuming the worst ?

    its called being an accessory...

    :rolleyes:


  • #54
    thurman
    Registered Users Posts: 61 ✭✭thurman


    You know if you'd tried adultfriendfinder your friend wouldn't have cost you 10 grand? If you just look there's lots of lovely singles on your area.

    As an aside try the phone book, wonderful invention. If she's not changed her name then her parents are most probably listed and if she lives with them you're sorted. And even if she doesn't live with them she'll most probably visit them(but what self respecting catholic girl doesn't live with her mammy until her wedding day). So buy yourself a nice suit made to look like a hedge and hide in her parents neighbours garden, as she comes to visit jump out and surprise her with a cloriform soaked rag and she'll be yours forever


  • #55
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    syndeyfife wrote: »
    Im going with boob job?

    They're not that expensive!

    How many breasts did she have?

    Wait..... was it the chick from Total Recall? :eek:


  • #56
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,419 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    bredmond wrote: »

    Can a person not help another person out and be nice to someone without people assuming the worst ? Says enough of how the country has gone !

    You are obviously a nice person and she knew that and took advantage of the situation.
    A private investigator would probably locate her in a few days. Your solicitor not recommend anything?
    Did the gardai check the phone number to see if she is on their system? They could check her car reg to see where it's registered.


  • #57
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    syndeyfife wrote: »
    Im going with boob job?

    They're not that expensive!

    How many breasts did she have?

    Wait..... was it the chick from Total Recall? :eek:

    She needed her nose done too obviously....So he wouldn't recognise her haha


  • #58
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    syndeyfife wrote: »
    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    What did she tell you she needed 10,000 for?

    Im going with boob job?

    Ha ha no. Over the years I helped out with getting her her own place to live, her car was crashed into by an uninsured driver so I helped her get a new one and then helped with rent for a period when she was made redundant.
    Did it in good faith as I she did pay bits back at first and then because I thought I knew her and counted her as a friend....how wrong I was !!!!!


  • #59
    bredmond
    Registered Users Posts: 15 ✭bredmond


    Funny funny, I wouldn't mind but she could do with a nose job, may sound nasty but had to say it, sorry.
    Guards couldn't do anything as it wasn't a criminal matter.

    The solicitor has recommended someone but as I said I have to know the area first.

    May just keep trying I guess.

    Appreciate anyone that gave genuine advice rather than anyone who was just sarcastic. Hope yous are never in a tough spot and need help....


  • #60
    christmas2012
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,827 ✭✭✭christmas2012


    You were in a relationship with her and you used her for sex then payed up to about 10 grand in total - she was a high class hooker then in my book :pac:


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  • #61
    thurman
    Registered Users Posts: 61 ✭✭thurman


    Eh would the insurance company not pay for the damage? Yeah she might take a hit on her ncb but they all contibute to a scheme for that.

    Also paid her rent? Set up your own little love shack didn't ya? Be honest you built a dungeon in your basement with the money and she managed to escape and you want your favorite play thing back so you can turn her skin into a nice coat


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