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  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    Why would I tell her she needs to leave him? She hasn't said she uses sex as a bargaining tool. Giving anyone advice to do that is madness. Noone should ever do it.

    The only "games" people should play in relationships are the ones that are fun for both - and preferably involve rope :D



    I think he's mad not to watch porn, and I think he's naive to think women don't watch it.


    I kind of just assumed all guys did. But I totally agree with u, sex should not be used as a bargaining tool...only in some cases when u want a new dress ;)....only joking people! ONLY JOKING...they should be fun, like yes relationships are thought, but as long as when it's good it's great. It should be a successful relationship.


  • Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you're off enjoying yourself without him. Ask him to watch it with you, telling him watching it with him would make it hotter for you.

    He could just be feeling left out.


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    It's funny when you see "Female Friendly Porn" as a category on these sites. It makes me wonder what exactly that is and how it differs from porn in general. More flowers, perhaps?



    Funny enough, I've never been on that part of the porn sites...i will get back go u on that and let u no what it's like :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    Larianne wrote: »
    Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you're off enjoying yourself without him. Ask him to watch it with you, telling him watching it with him would make it hotter for you.

    He could just be feeling left out.

    Thank you...I think that's what I will, I think he might just feel weird because its another guy I'm watching, but I don't get turned on seeing someone else if you get me, it's more just imaging that that's what me and him would do....I'm going take everyone's advice and ask him to watch it with me, what he would like in porn...

    Probably anal :/


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,314 ✭✭✭caustic 1


    You are not sure what guys like because you only ever been with him....OK... so you should only be concerned what HE likes and talk to him maybe might help. Sex is a very important part of relationship and if you not on same page then down the line there is gonna be problems.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Why would I tell her she needs to leave him? She hasn't said she uses sex as a bargaining tool. Giving anyone advice to do that is madness. Noone should ever do it.

    The only "games" people should play in relationships are the ones that are fun for both - and preferably involve rope :D

    I think he's mad not to watch porn, and I think he's naive to think women don't watch it.

    Sex is a bargaining tool.

    Respect me, treat me nice, say i have nice hair, listen to me = you might get sex.

    Put me down, don't respect my opinions or ideas = No sex.

    Thats not a game, thats common sense. Are you saying you would still sleep with a guy after he disrespected you?


  • Registered Users Posts: 18,058 ✭✭✭✭RobbingBandit


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Larianne wrote: »
    Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you're off enjoying yourself without him. Ask him to watch it with you, telling him watching it with him would make it hotter for you.

    .

    Off enjoying yourself? Sounds like she went for a dirty weekend in Bang Kok.

    She watched a p0rn movie. Between 4 and 24 minutes long I would bet. Nothing to be ashamed of surely


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


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    Brilliant haha :p...you can have 15% of the profits, just for coming up with that!


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    syklops wrote: »
    Sex is a bargaining tool.

    Respect me, treat me nice, say i have nice hair, listen to me = you might get sex.

    Put me down, don't respect my opinions or ideas = No sex.

    Thats not a game, thats common sense. Are you saying you would still sleep with a guy after he disrespected you?

    I don't no what to say...your both right.. Ovo don't treat me right and make me feel self consious, sex will not be on the cards...but make me feel like the only girl in the world, then yes, yes it will :p


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  • Posts: 0 Macy Clumsy Tutor


    Just took a look at the "female friendly" category on one of these sites and I'm still puzzled as to what the difference is. There don't appear to be any additional flowers or better lighting. Anyone else work it out?


  • Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    syklops wrote: »
    Off enjoying yourself? Sounds like she went for a dirty weekend in Bang Kok.

    She watched a p0rn movie. Between 4 and 24 minutes long I would bet. Nothing to be ashamed of surely

    Of course not. Just trying to get into the mentality of why the boyfriend has an issue with her watching porn.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    That was ment for I hate cuddles oops :p

    Sorry

    I only watch porn with girls in it, men dont do anything for me in porn!! and yeah Im a girl.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Larianne wrote: »
    Of course not. Just trying to get into the mentality of why the boyfriend has an issue with her watching porn.

    Im struggling with getting that mentality myself.

    I think we are on the same side to be honest.


  • Posts: 0 Macy Clumsy Tutor


    I wonder if the OP is against sex in general? Or maybe they feel inadequate by the guys in there?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    I wonder if the OP is against sex in general? Or maybe they feel inadequate by the guys in there?

    You mean the OPs boyfriend?

    The OP does not seem against sex at all. Who is?


  • Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    In there? In where? Wah?


  • Posts: 0 Macy Clumsy Tutor


    syklops wrote: »
    You mean the OPs boyfriend?

    The OP does not seem against sex at all. Who is?

    Sorry, yes, the OP's boyfriend. I wasn't concentrating properly and missed that part.

    Is it possible to be against porn on moral grounds?
    Larianne wrote: »
    In there? In where? Wah?

    That sounds like a really terrible one night stand ... :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    It's funny when you see "Female Friendly Porn" as a category on these sites. It makes me wonder what exactly that is and how it differs from porn in general. More flowers, perhaps?

    its not that much bother for you to find out if you're curious.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Larianne wrote: »
    In there? In where? Wah?
    Intherenet.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 827 ✭✭✭WumBuster


    wot a nob end. id be delighted if my gf would agree to watch porn with me.


  • Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Sorry, yes, the OP's boyfriend. I wasn't concentrating properly and missed that part.

    The female friendly stuff got in the way, eh?


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,814 ✭✭✭harry Bailey esq


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    Ok girls, guys...do you think it's weird if girls/gf/friend who's a girl/ watches porn?.....I told my bf I did and he got really offended by it?...but I don't see what the problem is, off he wanted to watch it it's fine with me? :p

    i reckon most girls watch porn,most wouldn't admit it mind


  • Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    caustic 1 wrote: »
    You are not sure what guys like because you only ever been with him....OK... so you should only be concerned what HE likes and talk to him maybe might help. Sex is a very important part of relationship and if you not on same page then down the line there is gonna be problems.



    I don't mean like in want to no what guys like, it's just I'm worried that I'm not good cause he doesn't really say much? So I'm second guessing if what It's not good yeno?


  • Posts: 0 Macy Clumsy Tutor


    Larianne wrote: »
    The female friendly stuff got in the way, eh?

    Still can't see the difference.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    Is it possible to be against porn on moral grounds?

    Certaintly some types of porn. Like the obvious underage, animal or scat stuff....no thanks.

    I don't understand why some people are against "traditional" porn.

    I feckin love it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Still can't see the difference.

    Surely more cocks, and less lesbians?

    Oh candy what you are doing feels so good.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,969 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Certaintly some types of porn. Like the obvious underage, animal or scat stuff....no thanks.

    I don't understand why some people are against "traditional" porn.

    I feckin love it.

    Define traditional.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    syklops wrote: »
    Define traditional.
    Vintage German hairy porn.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    Certaintly some types of porn. Like the obvious underage, animal or scat stuff....no thanks.

    I don't understand why some people are against "traditional" porn.

    I feckin love it.

    I'm not against porn or even against "traditional" porn but I find it sad that the "traditional" porn, as far as I can see, as in the most mainstream stuff, is not very female friendly. "Female friendly" porn is a fetish, wheras the fake, semi-hardcore, no foreplay, "every hole is a goal" stuff is the norm, and then obviously even more hardcore stuff is again understandably another popular subset/fetish. I just don't see why "normal" sex isn't the most mainstream - why "real" sex isn't popular. But maybe that's just my experience of the porn sites out there - don't watch it too often.

    Anyway, OP, definitely talk to your boyfriend. Invite him to watch it with you :D


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