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23 year old man, 15 year old girl.

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    #32
    Doni Mack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    Kiera wrote: »
    16 is still not legal. I'd report him to the guards thats who. Do you think he will wait until she is 17 to have sex with her?

    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.


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    #33
    PCPhoto
    Registered Users Posts: 6,584 ✭✭✭PCPhoto


    to me it just screams ....nooooooo ...not good.

    you said it in the title "23 year old man, 15 year old girl"

    if it were ten years later (ie. 33 and 25...no problem) ....
    My logic....
    once you turn 18 (as a guy) .... you shouldnt really be with anyone younger than a year behind you,

    once you turn 20 .... 2yrs younger is ok

    turn 25 ..... once she's over 18 (even at that some 18yr old girls are not capable of an adult relationship ...so leaning more towards 21 on that)

    turn 30 .... you'll be lucky (if ya get any) .... you prob dont want anyone under 25 and no-one over 35.


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    #34
    major bill
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭major bill


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    bit disturbed and would question why she wouldnt ride me if she was so desperate:D


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    #35
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.

    You know what goes on you are simply closing your eyes to it, facilitating his behaviour, well done to you, you still have your morals because you "don't know what goes on".


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    #36
    mr biazzi
    Registered Users Posts: 286 ✭✭mr biazzi


    Pics/


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    #37
    podgemonster
    Registered Users Posts: 2,228 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    Half your age plus 7 is the rule i am accustomed too.
    Shes 3.5 years too young for him according to that! I've no problem for a 40 yr to go out with a 20 yr old but the girls is still under the age of consent and cant even walk into a pub at night! Don't think Id be a happy Daddy!


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    #38
    Closed ac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,347 ✭✭✭Closed ac


    It's definately strange, but as long as they're not shagging I suppose it's okay..


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    #39
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Toulousain wrote: »
    If a 15 year old guy was riding a 23 year old girl, what would your reactions be then?

    The same!! What would a fully grown woman want with a 15 year old boy?? And vice versa!!


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    MarkR
    Moderators, Regional Midwest Moderators Posts: 11,054 Mod ✭✭✭✭MarkR


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    My Brother in law has started 'dating' a schoolgirl. If she was your Daughter, would you be comfortable with this?

    Nope, I don't think that anyone would really be comfortable with this.


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    #41
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Obviously I dont know what goes on when she stays in his house. I have said that she is not to be brought anywhere near my house.
    You know for a fact that a 15yr old is staying over with a 23 yr old and havent told her parents or the cops?

    Troll much?


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    #42
    stripysocks85
    Registered Users Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    If this is a genuine case, then I can't comprehend the silly "PICS, Wrong in all the right ways" etc comments that are being made. Have some cop on people.

    This is wrong, wrong wrong. What attraction would they have to each other? I can't see how they would have much, if anything, in common. A 23 year old has much more 'experience' than a 15 year old, and would expect more from a relationship than just holding hands/kissing.

    If I knew about this, I don't think I could keep quiet about it. It's far too much of an age difference, particularly when she's only 15.

    You'd think the 23 year old would have more sense.

    Did I mention it was incredibly wrong??


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    #43
    Doni Mack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    minidazzler wrote: »
    You know what goes on you are simply closing your eyes to it, facilitating his behaviour, well done to you, you still have your morals because you "don't know what goes on".

    Thats not fair or accurate, I dont have much contact with the lad, Just heard about this at Christmas. He met her in Coppers apparently


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    #44
    mr biazzi
    Registered Users Posts: 286 ✭✭mr biazzi


    minidazzler wrote: »
    17 for buttsecks! :)

    Thanks i never knew that before..


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    #45
    tony 2 tone
    Registered Users Posts: 2,749 ✭✭✭tony 2 tone


    The bang of troll is shockin' in here.


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    #46
    Doni Mack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 173 ✭✭Doni Mack


    Kiera wrote: »
    You know for a fact that a 15yr old is staying over with a 23 yr old and havent told her parents or the cops?

    Troll much?

    I dont know anything for a fact, and this thread is about the general idea of the situation, rather than this specific case yeah


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    #47
    EL_Loco
    Registered Users Posts: 901 ✭✭✭EL_Loco


    There's always a "grown up" teenage girl in school who goes out with a "man". It's not right but it happens all the time. Anyone who's past 2ndary school can probably recall at least 1. I know I can.


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    #48
    stripysocks85
    Registered Users Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    Thats not fair or accurate, I dont have much contact with the lad, Just heard about this at Christmas. He met her in Coppers apparently
    A 15 year old girl, in Coppers? Yeah.... right.... I'd wonder about where the parents are to be honest.


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    #49
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    It's wrong. End of.

    If he so much as touches her it's also illegal. And if caught he will be registered sex offender. Sick.


    Oh, and also, reported for PA on Minidazzler.


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    #50
    we'llallhavetea_old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    if it was my daughter i would damage this mans testicles in a horrendous manner, so much so, that people would feel sorry for him.


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    #51
    RoadKillTs
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,710 ✭✭✭RoadKillTs


    Totally wrong! Any pics?


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    #52
    bonerm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,595 ✭✭✭bonerm


    23 year old man, 15 year old girl.

    Nice ... nice.


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    #53
    Princess Consuela Bananahammock
    Registered Users Posts: 33,016 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    thebouldwhacker wrote: »
    If comfortable means ringing the Gardí to report potential child rape... then maybe. though stripping the pedo, chucking him into the back of a van covered in oil and broken glass and introducing him to 2 attack dogs would probably make me more comfortable....

    John Kramer, is that you? I thought you were dead!

    Regarding the rest of the story: not sure about this, but doesn't he first have to be proven to actually do something to hert before he can be presecuted?

    Wouldn't feel comfortable with it though, on either side.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



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    #54
    stripysocks85
    Registered Users Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    EL_Loco wrote: »
    There's always a "grown up" teenage girl in school who goes out with a "man". It's not right but it happens all the time. Anyone who's past 2ndary school can probably recall at least 1. I know I can.
    Well the 'man' is extremely simple minded, or a pervert. Any 23 year old MAN I know would never even contemplate this. It's bordering on paedophilia in my mind.


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    #55
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Doni Mack wrote: »
    I dont know anything for a fact, and this thread is about the general idea of the situation, rather than this specific case yeah

    Yeah, as a fact you knwo nothing, good thing is you are neither a cop or prosecution. You don't need facts, give them your suspicions and they can look for the facts!!


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    #56
    Wossack
    Registered Users Posts: 7,000 ✭✭✭Wossack


    something wrong with him - just sounds pathetic

    he win her over with some ringtones/twilight calender or the like?


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    #57
    pickarooney
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,090 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    "Barely pubescent child"... "paedophile"... you do your argument no favours with nonsensical hyperbole.


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    #58
    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,943 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    OP banned. Boston banned.
    You're all banned.
    Heed my words for I am important.
    <Witty joke>
    <Inaccurate summation of the thread>
    <Smug request for thanks>


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