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G-Money · 03-06-2012, 08:21

The girl who's worrying me a bit from POF text again last night, after 2am, offering to meet up and go for a walk today.

I don't get it. I haven't contacted her in weeks or replied to any of her texts and she texts me at least once or twice a week.

CopperPipe · 03-06-2012, 09:02

I've been fairly curious about the whole online dating thing for a while now and I decided to take the plunge last night!

I'll keep ye posted on any exploits I might encounter!

Wish me luck!

That_Guy · 03-06-2012, 10:53

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

ladylost · 03-06-2012, 12:06

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Originally Posted by That_Guy

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

That's brilliant That_Guy... Congrats...another good news story

dub5 · 03-06-2012, 12:10

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Originally Posted by G-Money

The girl who's worrying me a bit from POF text again last night, after 2am, offering to meet up and go for a walk today.

I don't get it. I haven't contacted her in weeks or replied to any of her texts and she texts me at least once or twice a week.

Is it always late at night, after a few drinks. Drinks and mobile phones are a lethal combination

dub5 · 03-06-2012, 12:12

Quote:

Originally Posted by That_Guy

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

Ah, thats brilliant. Great to hear of some success.

I was out the other week and recognised one of the guys that went to one of the single nights i organised. He thanked as he met someone at it and been with her for over a month now, he was delighted. I felt a bit like Cilla Black!!

coco_lola · 03-06-2012, 13:12

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Originally Posted by That_Guy

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

Yay! That's great

Awful_Bliss · 03-06-2012, 15:18

Hi all,

Deleted my POF profile a month ago but received a text off a girl who had initially canceled a date as she was sick but wanted to meet up. Met up for a coffee date and got on ok - two hours long, casual, nervous, etc. Anyway, she was the first to text that day saying it was lovely meeting me. Now, usually I get 'lovely to meet you but sorry - there's no chemistry'. I replied saying it was lovely to meet her too. Is she giving me the polite shove?

I always believe in giving someone two dates unless they're a complete disaster and one can't know much about a person over a couple of coffees.

Snowie · 03-06-2012, 15:57

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Originally Posted by Awful_Bliss

Hi all,

Deleted my POF profile a month ago but received a text off a girl who had initially canceled a date as she was sick but wanted to meet up. Met up for a coffee date and got on ok - two hours long, casual, nervous, etc. Anyway, she was the first to text that day saying it was lovely meeting me. Now, usually I get 'lovely to meet you but sorry - there's no chemistry'. I replied saying it was lovely to meet her too. Is she giving me the polite shove?

I always believe in giving someone two dates unless they're a complete disaster and one can't know much about a person over a couple of coffees.

follow it up with Lovely to meet you to, hows your weekend been ? engage in the person just saying that is a little cold chit chat texting etc always a good thing..

Herrick · 03-06-2012, 16:11

Quote:

Originally Posted by That_Guy

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

Delighted for ya mate

Herrick · 03-06-2012, 16:13

Quote:

Originally Posted by Awful_Bliss

Hi all,

Deleted my POF profile a month ago but received a text off a girl who had initially canceled a date as she was sick but wanted to meet up. Met up for a coffee date and got on ok - two hours long, casual, nervous, etc. Anyway, she was the first to text that day saying it was lovely meeting me. Now, usually I get 'lovely to meet you but sorry - there's no chemistry'. I replied saying it was lovely to meet her too. Is she giving me the polite shove?

I always believe in giving someone two dates unless they're a complete disaster and one can't know much about a person over a couple of coffees.

I'd say follow it up and go for a second date.

G-Money · 03-06-2012, 17:14

Quote:

Originally Posted by dub5

Is it always late at night, after a few drinks. Drinks and mobile phones are a lethal combination

I thought so but she just text again there now asking the same thing.

G-Money · 03-06-2012, 17:42

Quote:

Originally Posted by That_Guy

So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes.

*deletes POF/Ok Cupid*

Nice one TG, you deserve nothing less

ladylost · 03-06-2012, 20:00

Quote:

Originally Posted by Awful_Bliss

Hi all,

Deleted my POF profile a month ago but received a text off a girl who had initially canceled a date as she was sick but wanted to meet up. Met up for a coffee date and got on ok - two hours long, casual, nervous, etc. Anyway, she was the first to text that day saying it was lovely meeting me. Now, usually I get 'lovely to meet you but sorry - there's no chemistry'. I replied saying it was lovely to meet her too. Is she giving me the polite shove?

I always believe in giving someone two dates unless they're a complete disaster and one can't know much about a person over a couple of coffees.

Text back and see how it goes. What have you got to lose.

Awful_Bliss · 03-06-2012, 20:37

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Originally Posted by ladylost

Text back and see how it goes. What have you got to lose.

Already did. No reply

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CopperPipe Registered User Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: New York Posts: 40 Adverts \| Friends	I've been fairly curious about the whole online dating thing for a while now and I decided to take the plunge last night! I'll keep ye posted on any exploits I might encounter! Wish me luck! Last edited by CopperPipe; 03-06-2012 at 09:22.

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G-Money Closed Account Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 8,379 Adverts \| Friends	The girl who's worrying me a bit from POF text again last night, after 2am, offering to meet up and go for a walk today. I don't get it. I haven't contacted her in weeks or replied to any of her texts and she texts me at least once or twice a week.

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That_Guy Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Ashbourne, Dublin (Urban Sprawl... Deal with it) Posts: 40,237 Adverts \| Friends	So, I asked her to be my lady friend and she said yes. deletes POF/Ok Cupid

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Awful_Bliss Registered User Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Dublin Posts: 212 Adverts \| Friends	Hi all, Deleted my POF profile a month ago but received a text off a girl who had initially canceled a date as she was sick but wanted to meet up. Met up for a coffee date and got on ok - two hours long, casual, nervous, etc. Anyway, she was the first to text that day saying it was lovely meeting me. Now, usually I get 'lovely to meet you but sorry - there's no chemistry'. I replied saying it was lovely to meet her too. Is she giving me the polite shove? I always believe in giving someone two dates unless they're a complete disaster and one can't know much about a person over a couple of coffees.