I have been seeing a guy for 9 months now. When we first got together, he had just broken up with a long term ex girlfriend. He ended it with her, and said it had been over for quite some time realistically. We took things slowly as I wasnt too long after a relationship either,
However, I found out recently through a friend that he cheated on his ex girlfriend - got another girl into bed, the girlfriend found out and she ended it with him. Not what he told me.
I wish I never found out. It didnt happen to me. However it's made me think very differently of him and now I am wondering if he is just with me because he cant be with her anymore and she wont take him back - it might be nice for him to have someone when he cant have her, fill the gap so to say.
What do you guys think of this situation? I feel like I cant get past thinking this in my head. I have voiced concern before about the possibility it's a rebound and he has reassured me it wasnt - but this was when he told me his last relationship had been over al ong time before "he ended it".
He is nice to me in every other way and I thoroughly enjoy spending time with him. But I'd prefer to end it now if its going to hurt me in the end!!
Thank you so much.