I call you out on being hurt by something, and then you start calling me a smart ass, and then talk about how supportive AH can be.
your first post in this thread contained an unnecessarily aggressive and dismissive tone that was bound to get people's backs up. you may be transgendered, but in my mind at least that is not all that you are as a whole person. your personality is also part of who you are, and that to my knowledge has nothing to do with your gender.
i said you were being a smart ass because your passive aggressive posts were only serving to derail the thread and focus all the attention on you, which i would be glad to move away from and take this to a discussion via PM so that we would not derail the thread any further.
AH CAN be supportive, you only have to look at the "lets all laugh at depression" thread to see that. and it can be a great resource for information and support, even the fact that one of the AH mods has links to suicide rescources in their signature should be enough to show you that.
now i would respectfully suggest that we move past this nit-picking and get this thread back on track so that it is not closed due to going off topic. it's far enough off topic as it is and the mods have been gracious enough to leave it open for discussion.