I didn't mean to upset you in any way Peach. I used to post here a lot and now not so much. It used to be a bunch of posters and I enjoyed the numbers and the silliness. Somehow it changed, Not so many and not as jumping as it was. Things change. I hope I never made you feel unwelcome Peach.
I can understand that Sarky doesn't want the nest to be a copycat of other forums. I can also understand that chat threads can cause headaches and counting to a lot of people might be boring, although the very idea is pure silliness. He may ruffle feathers but he actually has good points and is a good mod.
I don't know what started this latest reassessment - I think it doesn't really matter. I do know that all the rules in the world won't make people be someone they aren't . I think TCN is a little raw and lacks manners sometimes- sort of like the wild wild west?. I don't really think there is a problem to solve. I hope my words don't affront anyone.