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17-02-2010, 23:54   #46
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18-02-2010, 04:05   #47
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when you say you watch gay porn , can you be more specific , how often and for how long , is it merley a case of when flicking through the channells if you land on gay tv , you pause for a brief few seconds or is it that you have a regular time slot for male on male erotica
Well I was trying to put the OP at ease, I don't regularly do it, but from time to time, when the mood strikes I look at it. I never said anything about normal or abnormal, I was simply stating that fact that it's not uncommon for straight guys to watch gay porn. As has been stated before sexuality isn't black or white, it's mixed.

From my point of view, I don't look at footballers and think oh he's cute, nor can I tell if a guy is attractive. But I do feel that way about women. Its simply the sexual act that turns me on. Its just a fantasy and it's harmless.

Just as an FYI, this whole idea of grouped sexuality is only been around since the early 20th century, Shakespeare was bisexual, as were many other famous figure. Greek and Roman solderers we notorious for sleeping around with each other. And as for Liam and all the other guys on this forum, if all the women in the world were to disappear tomorrow you would all be humping each other within a year, and there are plenty of studies and case's in point that prove that.

My advice still stands, don't go accusing him of being gay unless he actual goes and sleeps with a man.
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18-02-2010, 17:14   #48
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Well I was trying to put the OP at ease, I don't regularly do it, but from time to time, when the mood strikes I look at it. I never said anything about normal or abnormal, I was simply stating that fact that it's not uncommon for straight guys to watch gay porn. As has been stated before sexuality isn't black or white, it's mixed.

From my point of view, I don't look at footballers and think oh he's cute, nor can I tell if a guy is attractive. But I do feel that way about women. Its simply the sexual act that turns me on. Its just a fantasy and it's harmless.

Just as an FYI, this whole idea of grouped sexuality is only been around since the early 20th century, Shakespeare was bisexual, as were many other famous figure. Greek and Roman solderers we notorious for sleeping around with each other. And as for Liam and all the other guys on this forum, if all the women in the world were to disappear tomorrow you would all be humping each other within a year, and there are plenty of studies and case's in point that prove that.

My advice still stands, don't go accusing him of being gay unless he actual goes and sleeps with a man.

your experiences are not regular or typical of most straight men IMO , never once has the mood struck me to go and watch gay porn , in fact , ive never in my life deliberatley looked it up beit online or other , i have no problem with gay people whatsoever ( have a gay cousin who i get on great with ) but i couldnt bring myself to ever watch two men engage in a sexual act , i imagine my views are that of the overwhelming majority of straight men , fine if you like to occasionally check gay porn out but i think you are in a tiny minority who do this
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I never said I was in a majority. I was just explaining to the OP that there are some cases.

and btw, it tends to be married men who are on most of those ns sites, so what does that say about your theory? Mainly people go on there to just look up alternatives, a fantasy. Sometimes men are attracted to the physical side or gay sex but not necessarily attracted to men.

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18-02-2010, 17:42   #50
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I look at it too occasionally and I'm straight - it would always be in a group/threesome so there'd always be a woman involved.

Sometimes it's just to look at something completely different if I'm bored of straight porn or more so, just something more kinky.

I've never been with a man or have any desire to be.

I don't know what goes on in other guys heads, nor do I care.

Just cos I look at it, doesn't mean that I gay.
 
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I never said I was in a majority. I was just explaining to the OP that there are some cases.
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I look at it too occasionally and I'm straight - it would always be in a group/threesome so there'd always be a woman involved.

Sometimes it's just to look at something completely different if I'm bored of straight porn or more so, just something more kinky.
I don't think its counts as gay porn if the men aren't interacting with one another.
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I was on my OH's computer today doing some research for a project I am doing when I came across a porn site that he seemed to be going onto regularly. Now, usually I have no problem with porn at all, I find it a healthy part of our relationship as we usually view it together. The videos that I discovered however all involved men partaking in a variety of sexual acts.

We have a very open and honest relationship and I only assume that him keeping this from me means that he is ashamed? Embarrased by being turned on by members of the same sex? He's a very traditional man and although we have homosexual friends, he is never fully comfortable around them, much to all of our amusement.

I am not worried about it, simply wondering is it normal for straight men to view gay porn?
If you have gay friends and he feels uncomfortable, maybe he is trying to overcome this by looking at gay porn to see what goes on etc To get things clear in his mind, accept it more and then be less uncomfortable with these people. Sometimes its the not knowing that can be more scary and intimidating.

Men and women look at porn, both straight and gay porn and there is no gender that does or doesnt do either of them 100% despite what some posters think.

OP is this an issue for you (you are being turned off him, you doubt him etc etc) or are you just trying to suss out why someone would look at gay porn?
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19-02-2010, 17:03   #53
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I don't look at gay porn and I avoid heterosexual anal porn also as it turns me off rather than on - but that's just my personal preference. Each to their own.
Curiosity can lead to looking at anything on the internet but repeated viewing indicates some sort of fascination IMO. It's a delicate subject but you need to find some way to raise it with your partner. You could ask how he feels about threesomes, and then maybe push it on from there?
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I've looked at gay porn out of curiosity as well, I have a few gay friends, wanted to see what goes on, told my girlfriend about it too and she thought it was quite open minded. Looking at gay porn doesnt make me gay, same as being able to look at another man and see why women would think he's attractive doesnt either,nor does going to gay clubs with my gay friends and enjoying myself. I'm not gay, not bi, not even bi-curious, perfectly straight, always have and will be, good thing not everyone in the world is as small minded as you eh?
whats small minded about not wanting your other half watching other people having sex? would it be small minded to be opposed to your oh standing there in the room watching it as opposed to behind a screen?
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I am male and I think that this is not normal at all. Well, not normal for a straight guy. I would honestly think that any male that looks up any sort of gay porn is a homosexual (or bi since his is your OH). If he is frequently looking at it, you should be very worried. As a male, I would not be one bit curious at all. I have never viewed gay porn.
100% agree

I'm male, and straight. And would never even want to look up gay porn to be honest. I think you need to talk to your OH and find out whats going on.
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I don't look at gay porn and I avoid heterosexual anal porn also as it turns me off rather than on - but that's just my personal preference. Each to their own.
Curiosity can lead to looking at anything on the internet but repeated viewing indicates some sort of fascination IMO. It's a delicate subject but you need to find some way to raise it with your partner. You could ask how he feels about threesomes, and then maybe push it on from there?
This is something I quite like, though I will stress I'd have to be the giver rather than the receiver. I'll also say that should a man want to be on the receiving end of heterosexual anal sex, I dont feel this displays any signs of homosexual tendency either. It certainly wouldn't be for me, though.

OP, have you taken on board any of the advice in this thread and spoken with your OH? I'm very curious to learn what his reaction either was or will be.
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26-07-2011, 14:17   #57
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Plenty of straight girls look at lesbian porn, whats the difference?
I'm female, and I don't know any other women who look at lesbian porn. Its come up in chat a few times and the average response is "yeugh thats disgusting", "not at all interesting" or "I'd pretend to like it to get male attention".

I think this is a male fantasy.

As for a guy looking at gay male porn, I'd definatley say he was curious. You can't tell anything else from the situation, but I think its quite a big deal in a relationship, so I'd ask him outright about it.
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This thread was posted in February 2010 - I think we can take it as read that the OP will have reached a conclusion about their issue by now.

Could posters please note the date of threads they are posting in.

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