Firstly this is not a troll.
Myself and my GF have been together for 6 years. We have a 2 houses, rent one out and live in the other with her friend. Myself and my GF are 28 and her friend is 25. My GF and her friend have known each other since they were about ten.
Basically for about 2 years or so my GF's sex drive has pretty much gone on holidays and not come back. I've got through this for the first year by jacking off to my extensive collection of porn. A year ago her friend moved up from another city. I have met her a few times and got on well with her.
My GF is very slim and toned where as her friend is busty. Anyway i started to notice that when i was jacking off i was starting to fantasise about her friend. Her friend doesnt wear a whole lot around the house either. We were all out about a month ago and we got a taxi home, I as usual had a massive beer horn knowing that it wasnt going to go down for a while so i said i'd stay up and watch some TV rather than pester my GF for sex (i have drunkenly begged, very sad i know) The friend said she stay up and have some wine. She asked could she use my laptop to check her bebo so i said go ahead, She went to put on some music, went into "my documents" found a rake load of porn. Most of it had girls with similar bodies to her (The laptop faces me so i couldnt see the screen) Anyway she asks me this "do you like my tits?" Laughlingly i said "yeah course i do" She made a remark which made me run over to the laptop to see she was having a good look though my porn.
Feeling really embarrased i stood there beer in my hand she told me not to worry as she thought i would be weird if i didnt look at porn. That relaxed the atmosphere back down.
We got chatting and she said my GF had told her that we havent had sex in nearly 2 years and how my GF has no desire at all. My GF's friend was saying its been nearly a year since she had sex and she really needs to be "serviced". We got into some pretty dirty conversation but i decided retreat was the best thing to do so i went to bed.
I was pretty weirded out after that but pretty turned on by what she had told me during our conversation (one of the things is that she uses her vibrator quite a lot even when myself and my GF are in the house, lets just say that made me stant to attention!) A few days after that my GF was off playing tennis and it was just myself and the friend, she said she was going to bed about 8pm a few mins later i sent her a cheeky txt saying "i know what your really doing" She replied back saying "why dont you come up and find out..." So i went upstairs to her room opened the door and she was lying naked apart from a bra with her dildo. Gobsmacked and turned on are undestatements. Anyway i stood there getting a bulge in my trousers and she said " look just f88k me s******(my GF) says that its ok because she's not giving it to you" She even showed me the txt from my GF dated for about a week and a half before we went out on that night a few days before.
My c88k took over and i went for it, we spent about 2 hours going at it. My GF came home and in bed that night she told me that the friend had said we slept together and that she is fine with it aslong as it doesnt happen while she is in the house. Frankly i am a bit weirded out. She's basically giving with cate blance to go and screw her friend and beleive me her friend is eager to cash the cheque as even when my GF goes to the shop the friend wants it. I admit its good to actually be having again but i can't help but feel very weird about it.
The reasons my GF says its ok is that
1)she loves me & I love her
2)She says she knows I would never leave her (but what if i develop feelings for the friend).
3)This way she knows i'm not going off shagging random people
4) She doesnt know how long she doesnt want sex for and its not fair on me, shagging the friend is my "reward" for being so patient.
Since this I've had sex with the friend about 10 times and as i said above its good to get some action. We have sex i go downstairs or for a shower or whatever and she'll come down later and have a cup of tea and we'll watch tv or something. She has initiated all of these encounters.
I know this is odd but tbh i'm pretty confused, I dont want to stay with my GF if she never wants to have sex (I have suggest she see a counsellor but she refuses) She's also not getting it anywhere else.