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Friends · 26-04-2002, 10:18

so over all what do people think? have a chat and get back together or leave things lie?

***Gordon*** · 26-04-2002, 15:00

I think that it has all been said... over all. It's up to you now. Good luck.

Clintons Cat · 26-04-2002, 16:42

tbh,this sounds like you never really broke up in the first place if you are meeting up every couple of months for sex.What do you expect if you get back together...Holding hands in the park,long meaningful discussions on how much your relationship means to this guy?
Face facts what you have got with this guy is as probally as good as it gets,if he was that hung on doing the stuff that constitutes a relationship in your eyes,then chances are he would be doing that stuff without prompting,not because he was obliged to but because he WANTED to.
Either accept the situation as it is,with all the anguish it seems from your first post to be causing you,or dump him and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone else.how can you expect to form a relationship with someone else with this guy fliting in and out of your life messing with your emotions.
Alternatively agree to have sex with him only on your terms,ie when you deceide to have it,not him.

Appologies if this seems overharsh,it is not intended to be anything more than frank discussion.

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26-04-2002, 10:18	#16
Unregistered Guest Posts: n/a Adverts \| Friends	so over all what do people think? have a chat and get back together or leave things lie?

26-04-2002, 15:00	#17
*Gordon* Administrator Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 27,551 Adverts \| Friends Admin: Prison	I think that it has all been said... over all. It's up to you now. Good luck.

26-04-2002, 16:42	#18
Clintons Cat Registered User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: The Fens Posts: 1,459 Adverts \| Friends	tbh,this sounds like you never really broke up in the first place if you are meeting up every couple of months for sex.What do you expect if you get back together...Holding hands in the park,long meaningful discussions on how much your relationship means to this guy? Face facts what you have got with this guy is as probally as good as it gets,if he was that hung on doing the stuff that constitutes a relationship in your eyes,then chances are he would be doing that stuff without prompting,not because he was obliged to but because he WANTED to. Either accept the situation as it is,with all the anguish it seems from your first post to be causing you,or dump him and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone else.how can you expect to form a relationship with someone else with this guy fliting in and out of your life messing with your emotions. Alternatively agree to have sex with him only on your terms,ie when you deceide to have it,not him. Appologies if this seems overharsh,it is not intended to be anything more than frank discussion. __________________